give me motivation to go clubbing alone this summer

[Deleted member 29495]

i want to hear peoples positive anecdotes and personal experiences of their solo clubbing experiences to give me some confidence

first im going to say that i go out 2/3 times a week in college, but i dont have close friends in my hometown that wouldn't drag down my SMV in a club setting due to their height/psl/pheno/NTness so id rather bite the bullet and go solo

usually in college i have a group of tallish high MTN+ guys to go with, plus the halo of being in a lower top tier frat on campus and being NT/social enough that ill recognize at least a few girls at every party and at the club

i hope that being 6'3 (with shoes and lifts), having a decent (not great) physique, frame, above average face (IMO) and NT style (one of my strong suits) and clean shaven with good hair clears the bar to avoid looking like a creep at the club when going solo, but im still nervous especially since i know ill act more awkward and aspie without the moral support of friends

anyone have any advice/personal anecdotes they can share so i can convince myself to go clubbing solo

 

[Deleted member 29786]

i hope that being 6'3

you will mog

 

[Deleted member 29495]

you will mog

my hometown isnt a poorfag place tho theres a bunch of upper middle class ethnic north/western european zoomers, average is def around 6'

 

[damiki]

just drink a bit before going out and you wont even need to think about it

 

[nitesik]

i want to hear peoples positive anecdotes and personal experiences of their solo clubbing experiences to give me some confidence

first im going to say that i go out 2/3 times a week in college, but i dont have close friends in my hometown that wouldn't drag down my SMV in a club setting due to their height/psl/pheno/NTness so id rather bite the bullet and go solo

usually in college i have a group of tallish high MTN+ guys to go with, plus the halo of being in a lower top tier frat on campus and being NT/social enough that ill recognize at least a few girls at every party and at the club

i hope that being 6'3 (with shoes and lifts), having a decent (not great) physique, frame, above average face (IMO) and NT style (one of my strong suits) and clean shaven with good hair clears the bar to avoid looking like a creep at the club when going solo, but im still nervous especially since i know ill act more awkward and aspie without the moral support of friends

anyone have any advice/personal anecdotes they can share so i can convince myself to go clubbing solo

just try it.

I have the rule I always follow

just try it. You never know the outcome.

Obviously not appliable to drugs and stuff like that

 

[Deleted member 21735]

failo if u do that alone

 

[schitzowarrior40]

everyone is too drunk to care or think whether or not ur alone or not. Most of the time in clubs you get split form ur group so its pretty normal to be walking around alone cause u need to go toilet or smt.
situations as such are awkward only if ur acting awkward, thats the mentality you gotta keep.
if it helps also try and think what more confident friends of urs would do in that situation.

 

[Deleted member 29495]

failo if u do that alone

yeah ik missing the halos ill have in my college town, basically difficulty turned to 11 but nothing else to do on weekends

 

[Deleted member 21735]

but nothing else to do on weekends

ldar?

 

[Brootal]

are you extroverted and nt enough for hat? jfl my fight or flight would kick in even before entering the club

 

[klamus]

Dont get your hopes too high. Highly likely that it Will suck ass because you Are Alone. Your chances of scoring Are infinitely higher than ldaring at home.

 

[AppealMaxxing]

I had the most succes and fun when going solo.
If people ask about your friends tell them that they went home or to another club.
And yes, drinking beforehand (or taking other drugs) is quite mandatory to not get bogged down by inhibition/anxiety.

 

[russwestbrook]

genuinely if you mog hard enough girls open to you, but you can still fuck it up if you say the wrong thing.


If at least one girl is opening her snapchat for you to put it in every time you go clubbing then its not over.

 

[MartinL]

Id sign up for a pub crawl or something first if you live in a big university city. Easy way to meet other people and not look like some weird guy going out alone. You can make up some story that you just moved and dont know anyone or something. Usually you hit up different bars for a few hours and then at the end they take you to a club

 

[Deleted member 29495]

genuinely if you mog hard enough girls open to you, but you can still fuck it up if you say the wrong thing.


If at least one girl is opening her snapchat for you to put it in every time you go clubbing then its not over.

wouldnt say i mog hard but def above average, would not be NT though when going alone

Id sign up for a pub crawl or something first if you live in a big university city. Easy way to meet other people and not look like some weird guy going out alone. You can make up some story that you just moved and dont know anyone or something. Usually you hit up different bars for a few hours and then at the end they take you to a club

where do i find bar crawls, the ones i know do it during the school year