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i want to hear peoples positive anecdotes and personal experiences of their solo clubbing experiences to give me some confidence
first im going to say that i go out 2/3 times a week in college, but i dont have close friends in my hometown that wouldn't drag down my SMV in a club setting due to their height/psl/pheno/NTness so id rather bite the bullet and go solo
usually in college i have a group of tallish high MTN+ guys to go with, plus the halo of being in a lower top tier frat on campus and being NT/social enough that ill recognize at least a few girls at every party and at the club
i hope that being 6'3 (with shoes and lifts), having a decent (not great) physique, frame, above average face (IMO) and NT style (one of my strong suits) and clean shaven with good hair clears the bar to avoid looking like a creep at the club when going solo, but im still nervous especially since i know ill act more awkward and aspie without the moral support of friends
anyone have any advice/personal anecdotes they can share so i can convince myself to go clubbing solo
first im going to say that i go out 2/3 times a week in college, but i dont have close friends in my hometown that wouldn't drag down my SMV in a club setting due to their height/psl/pheno/NTness so id rather bite the bullet and go solo
usually in college i have a group of tallish high MTN+ guys to go with, plus the halo of being in a lower top tier frat on campus and being NT/social enough that ill recognize at least a few girls at every party and at the club
i hope that being 6'3 (with shoes and lifts), having a decent (not great) physique, frame, above average face (IMO) and NT style (one of my strong suits) and clean shaven with good hair clears the bar to avoid looking like a creep at the club when going solo, but im still nervous especially since i know ill act more awkward and aspie without the moral support of friends
anyone have any advice/personal anecdotes they can share so i can convince myself to go clubbing solo