Going back into a relationship

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PLEASE READ THE WHOLE SHIT I KNOW ITS LONG BUT YEAH , Hey wsg guys hope yall doing great , this is off topic but i have a situation and i need some advices , ive been in a relationship with a girl , we had an 8 months relationship on and off breakups from my part or hers , to be fair to her , at first i wasn’t taking this relationship serious and i ended up cheating on her , anyhow she let it go cuz she see change , but later on we had arguments leading to breakups from both parts , later on we didn’t came back for like a month i was asking her to comeback bcz it was my bad at that time she ended up agreeing , we always ended up getting back together, but this shit drains u so much mentally, however last break up was 3 months ago , and was from her part without a valid reason we had an lil argument we didn’t talk for 3 days and when i reached out she said she don’t want me anymore , and at time i was trying my best for her and i was hoping for this relationship to work for real , however it went like that , 3 days ago or 2 idk , she texted me saying she thinks about me all the time and stuff like that i said i do “sometimes” too , she replied but i didn’t reply because i was trying to move on really because that shit was too fucking sick in the head at that time in that period i was going through hard shit bcz that breakup with no valid reason , anyways she texted me today again , saying she misses me and how she always did and saying that she regret doing what she did and she was only protecting herself by that breakup because she was scared i would hurt her again ending up breaking up so she chose her peace , but now she regrets it and think she made a mistake and talking how she loves me , i wasn’t cold but the otherwise i told her that i missed her too but i didn’t text her so she can move on in peace and i expected from her to do the same and let me move on in peace , and she was wondering if i loved her or just was attached to talking to her , i said that i loved her but yea that shit is done now and its unfortunate it ended up like this , she said she was drunk when she was talking to me now , she doesn’t drink usually so im bit worried about her , and about the question here is , should i give a last chance and be ready for the worst if it doesn’t work out again and getting fucked mentally again or just refusing and walking away and keep trying to move on , also she said that things gonna change and its gonna work but i think its just hoping and its not the reality. Please advice as if its you on the situation
 
She also said that if its okay just to text me normally if she misses me without being in relationship if i don’t want to , but i know that way don’t work out from me because ill be on the same cycle and wont move on , ALSO huge INFORMATION in this 3 months period she was making new friends in some online groups male friends and femals but i didnt see any major red flags , should i care and ask to make a decision? Or just make a decision that its clear right now regardless she making new male friends
 

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