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I'm 18 years old. I started losing hair at 15. People started commenting on it at 17. Then I started to shed badly at 18. It wasn't 'gone' on the top but it was very thin and it looked like a comb over when I stood in the sun. My hairline was to my ears. So, I shaved it off.
Here I am, 2 months until my 19th birthday and I look like I'm turning 30. I knew that when I made the plunge that I would get some teasing from my male peers. I expected it, but I didn't expect it to be this bad. I'm not being teased I am being bullied and personally attacked. It's hell for me and I feel stressed and upset all the time now.
I know the bald look doesn't suit me. I'm a skinny, pale guy with a huge nose and weak jaw. I look sick without hair.
Girls don't want anything to do with me anymore and I didn't expect that. All over the internet you are re-enforced with the idea that girls don't care. Girls don't care if you're bald. Frankly that's just not true. Girls do care. I was dating two girls before I shaved my head. One left a few days before I shaved (my hair was pretty bad at that point) she didn't tell me why she just stopped talking to me all together. The second girl was visibly disgusted with my change. She told me that it didn't suit me and that I should grow out my 'hair' again. She and I are still talking but not in the same way. She feels distant when we talk over text and on the off chance that we hangout (we don't do that much anymore) she doesn't initiate anything. She used to be all over me, kissing me and grabbing me. Not anymore. The spark is gone.
Not only that but the girls that I had pursuing me have mostly gone too. I had 3 or 4 girls who would regularly hit me up on social media wanting to hangout. Not anymore.
I work retail and the way people treat me has completely changed. People just don't want to talk to me. People used to come up to me and ask for my help. That doesn't help so now I approach people and people just don't want my help.
It fucking sucks.
The worst part is if I go out in public with a beanie on (I dress sort of hipster-y) girls smile at me again. People are nicer to me. When I cover up my baldness with a hat people treat me the way that I used to be treated.
I feel like shit.
I don't have money for a transplant and I refuse to take propecia and minoxidil.
Should I buy a wig?
Here I am, 2 months until my 19th birthday and I look like I'm turning 30. I knew that when I made the plunge that I would get some teasing from my male peers. I expected it, but I didn't expect it to be this bad. I'm not being teased I am being bullied and personally attacked. It's hell for me and I feel stressed and upset all the time now.
I know the bald look doesn't suit me. I'm a skinny, pale guy with a huge nose and weak jaw. I look sick without hair.
Girls don't want anything to do with me anymore and I didn't expect that. All over the internet you are re-enforced with the idea that girls don't care. Girls don't care if you're bald. Frankly that's just not true. Girls do care. I was dating two girls before I shaved my head. One left a few days before I shaved (my hair was pretty bad at that point) she didn't tell me why she just stopped talking to me all together. The second girl was visibly disgusted with my change. She told me that it didn't suit me and that I should grow out my 'hair' again. She and I are still talking but not in the same way. She feels distant when we talk over text and on the off chance that we hangout (we don't do that much anymore) she doesn't initiate anything. She used to be all over me, kissing me and grabbing me. Not anymore. The spark is gone.
Not only that but the girls that I had pursuing me have mostly gone too. I had 3 or 4 girls who would regularly hit me up on social media wanting to hangout. Not anymore.
I work retail and the way people treat me has completely changed. People just don't want to talk to me. People used to come up to me and ask for my help. That doesn't help so now I approach people and people just don't want my help.
It fucking sucks.
The worst part is if I go out in public with a beanie on (I dress sort of hipster-y) girls smile at me again. People are nicer to me. When I cover up my baldness with a hat people treat me the way that I used to be treated.
I feel like shit.
I don't have money for a transplant and I refuse to take propecia and minoxidil.
Should I buy a wig?
