Going in bars all alone- worth it?

[Deleted member 12216]

I don't have friends that are socially active which means I am completely dependant on meeting people and getting invited to parties/social events through university- will meet people there when it eventually opens again.

So now on weekends and friday nights all I want is to have a good time, more so to meet women. Bars are good places to meet people- but I would have to go all on my own there. Could be a total waste of time, but I probably will try. I have to.

Oh and before you ask, I'm above average facially and 5'9 (175) which is below average height. Frame is good.

Any experience with that?

 

[germanlooks]

Only as tall Chadlite or chad

 

[Bewusst]

Do whatever you want. Personally, I wouldn't go to bars by myself. Drinks are way too expensive, I prefer to buy a bottle of whisky and drink it at home

 

[.🇹🇩.]

bars are for chads and girls.

 

[NumbThePain]

Beyond suifuel going alone. You come over as an autist too. I am in the same boat as you, I have boring ass friends that don't party or going to bars

 

[Deleted member 4054]

Only if you enjoy it, obviously

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

go on tinder instead. if you're getting clowned on tinder then bars are not gonna be much different.

 

[Lawton88]

Clubs I wouldn't recommend it unless you are at least a real HTN just short of a Chadlite. Other bars you might have a chance since your face is above average.

 

[Wallenberg]

Don't go to bars. Instead study or hit the gym.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Depends ALOT on which country/location. Some countries are very social, which is nice. AND some places are depressingly ANTI-social as fuck.

Where you life?

Some countries are super social with strangers people also. Like in USA, Italy, Marocco, Brasil, Thailand, etc..
Than, going out alone. Is kinda easy. And you can just be social with randoms and one might easily be invited, and can join.

Some countries, are super ANTI-social with strangers people. Like Russia, South UK, China, Iran, etc..
Than going out alone. Probably giga brutals huge amiunt of rejections.
In some places, people even look strange at you when you just give a hallo greeting. Wtf, anti-socila autism.

I have to say. Social with randoms type of countries, are more enjoyable. Anti-soical with randoms, is depressing as hell.

 

[lutte]

Don't go to bars. Instead study or hit the gym.

He can go to a video game convention and pick up girls there

 

[Deleted member 9568]

sounds like a good idea to get arrested

 

[Deleted member 12216]

Beyond suifuel going alone. You come over as an autist too. I am in the same boat as you, I have boring ass friends that don't party or going to bars

So what do you do to slay?

 

[Deleted member 12216]

Depends ALOT on which country/location. Some countries are very social, which is nice. AND some places are depressingly ANTI-social as fuck.

Where you life?

Some countries are super social with strangers people also. Like in USA, Italy, Marocco, Brasil, Thailand, etc..
Than, going out alone. Is kinda easy. And you can just be social with randoms and one might easily be invited, and can join.

Some countries, are super ANTI-social with strangers people. Like Russia, South UK, China, Iran, etc..
Than going out alone. Probably giga brutals huge amiunt of rejections.
In some places, people even look strange at you when you just give a hallo greeting. Wtf, anti-socila autism.

I have to say. Social with randoms type of countries, are more enjoyable. Anti-soical with randoms, is depressing as hell.

Germany. I think people here are very social.

 

[Deleted member 12216]

Don't go to bars. Instead study or hit the gym.

I do study. Will approach.

 

[NumbThePain]

So what do you do to slay?

I slay co workers and I'm on Tinder

 

[eduardkoopman]

Germany. I think people here are very social.

yeah, germany is okay.

it's not social like USA or Brasil.
But it's not anti social like London or Moscow.
It's somewhere in between that

 

[eduardkoopman]

I slay co workers and I'm on Tinder

mirin. i was always a bit to high inhib to try shit at work. afraid faggot, of getting fired or making it shit for myself at the workplace.

 

[Deleted member 12216]

I slay co workers and I'm on Tinder

Where do you work

 

[Deleted member 12216]

Supermarket

How do you slay there with a mask on tho. Coworkers never see your face

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

I did that. It was horrible.

Nobody goes alone and everyone more or less stays in their group. Only Chadlites+ actually benefit from bars or clubs.

 

[eduardkoopman]

I did that. It was horrible.

Nobody goes alone and everyone more or less stays in their group. Only Chadlites+ actually benefit from bars or clubs.

depends ALOT on country/location.
If you life in a location, where the social culture is like: "stay in group" than you're fudked

 

[NumbThePain]

How do you slay there with a mask on tho. Coworkers never see your face

They do, and they know me before coronavirus. Also we don't wear masks anymore

 

[ageistheblackestpill]

Mirin confidence if you do. I did it once years ago and lucked out and got a makeout. Must’ve been one of the most badass things I ever did. I was heavy into PUA back then tho. Don’t think I’d have the balls to do it now

 

[downwardGod]

Just get one friend and go try your luck. Find a way to get that one friend who's as obsessed with girls as you. Redpill your existing friends if needed. Chatting to guys after lectures is a good way to find normie friends of the type you can go out with. Being in a club alone is surprisingly effective - you just mingle in between groups tryna make the right kind of eye contact. But its awkward being in queues and so on for it without one friend. Bars are a little expensive and its more obvious you're not with a friend there, hence I don't recommend going alone

 

[Deleted member 15441]

I don't have friends that are socially active which means I am completely dependant on meeting people and getting invited to parties/social events through university- will meet people there when it eventually opens again.

So now on weekends and friday nights all I want is to have a good time, more so to meet women. Bars are good places to meet people- but I would have to go all on my own there. Could be a total waste of time, but I probably will try. I have to.

Oh and before you ask, I'm above average facially and 5'9 (175) which is below average height. Frame is good.

Any experience with that?

I've tried. NOT a good idea unless very low inhibition and a looksmaxed normie.

You can NEVER depend on people/guys after college. It's all dog eat dog.

I tried throwing a party last weekend to get people to come over so we could go out. Told them girls were coming 7 guys showed up, the girls bailed and they guys ONLY came to try to poach and steal pussy.

 

[failedeyearea]

I'd encourage doing it. I did in my younger years and it helped me make new friends and talk to more girls. I'm pretty NT though, 6'2 white self proclaimed LTN, so maybe if you were short and brown it wouldn't go over the same way.

 

[Deleted member 14528]

Its so easy to make friends just go to a uni campus party and be cool with designer

 

[Yellowskies]

I don't have friends that are socially active which means I am completely dependant on meeting people and getting invited to parties/social events through university- will meet people there when it eventually opens again.

So now on weekends and friday nights all I want is to have a good time, more so to meet women. Bars are good places to meet people- but I would have to go all on my own there. Could be a total waste of time, but I probably will try. I have to.

Oh and before you ask, I'm above average facially and 5'9 (175) which is below average height. Frame is good.

Any experience with that?

Yes!

I did it, and I have actually slayed a gl girl by being out alone.

i avtually slayed a girl again this weekend, but I met with some random couch surfers so it is cheating

Try meeting any tinder chick out and just get drunk and go off from there

It’s worth it but you need to be mentally secure

 

[JustDoIt]

Going to concerts is easier because you can just talk to a group of guys while waiting in the line and tag along, make up an excuse like you can't find your friends and you didn't bring your cellphone or something like that. I've done that once for this reason but it works even if you're lying, it's also a good time once everyone gets drunk.

 

[one job away]

I don't have friends that are socially active which means I am completely dependant on meeting people and getting invited to parties/social events through university- will meet people there when it eventually opens again.

So now on weekends and friday nights all I want is to have a good time, more so to meet women. Bars are good places to meet people- but I would have to go all on my own there. Could be a total waste of time, but I probably will try. I have to.

Oh and before you ask, I'm above average facially and 5'9 (175) which is below average height. Frame is good.

Any experience with that?

Yeh but you better be NT. If you are NT the world is yours. Are you NT?

 

[one job away]

Yes!

I did it, and I have actually slayed a gl girl by being out alone.

i avtually slayed a girl again this weekend, but I met with some random couch surfers so it is cheating

Try meeting any tinder chick out and just get drunk and go off from there

It’s worth it but you need to be mentally secure

This. A lot of friends meet ppl nowadays though tinder. It’s not about banging them cuz if you are facially average you won’t do that good on tinder. It’s more to get ppl to do smth with you.

But it all stands and falls with being a funny interesting cool person to be around

 

[RobticaI]

Yes, go. You can just say your friends left with bitches and you decided to stay longer because you want to wait to sober up before driving.

 

[Deleted member 12216]

Its so easy to make friends just go to a uni campus party and be cool with designer

There are no campus parties

 

[Deleted member 12216]

Yeh but you better be NT. If you are NT the world is yours. Are you NT?

I don't even know if I am. I can talk well with people but I feel like the whole blackpill stuff made me a huge aspie.. overthinking a lot n shit

 

[Chadethnic101]

yeah, germany is okay.

it's not social like USA or Brasil.
But it's not anti social like London or Moscow.
It's somewhere in between that

London is very cliquey

 

[Deleted member 24348]

Well if you can't do well online, like 90% of guys. Your defiently better off posting up at a bar. It'll mainly be 25-33yo single women looking for a betabux/hubby So dress rich as possible without being cringe and have some facial hair.

Works best on like wed/thurs and way more normal to go alone. Fri/sat can get crowded and competition can get much more intense.

I 1000% should be doing this as I look good, just cant get HTB online. Whenever I do go with 1x a friend or alone I get mad iOis.
Once agian these chicks are not Prime 18-22 At the popular bars. They're single mid-late 20s but they can be hot.