Going on a date made me realize something

[IdiAmin]

So, I got a Tinder and I sent up dates with 3 average looking girls. At first I thought that this is good but when I thought about it (the dates were a week later) I realized that:
a) it will be the most boring and time wasting shit ever
b) texting with girls is boring and bland (although I knew this before, now it's my core belief lmao)

When I thought about going on a 2 hour walk with a girl (because everything is closed because of the corona) and how many other fun things I could have done (working out, sprinting, playing football/basketball, playing games, etc) I realized that it's stupid for me to go out with some average looking girl when I could get an average looking girl from my circle of friends as a girlfriend.

That's a) part, now the b) part.

So, I didn't go on the 2 dates, I went only on the third one. I went with the third one only because she wrote a shit ton of messages to me and I felt like "fuck it, I'm gonna find out if it's worth it"

And it was kind ok, but Jesus, having a gf must be the most demanding shit ever, she wrote to me every fucking day about everything like "oh, I love my dog, oh I love my job" and everytime I begun to do something I like I would receive a text about some fucking Italian TV series on Netflix about some high school normies, lmao


And I thought about why normies don't ask for fwb but ask for a relationship?
Almost for all of the normie guys motivation for doing this shit is to have sex with a girl and to trade doing most of the activities that you love for a tones of dates which go in a circle like this: watching a movie, going to the restaurant, going somewhere, occasionally going on a vacation and having sex sometimes and to top that, TEXTING about nothing is really stupid unless I would know that she and I get along really, REALLY well and we like to do the same shit like sports or something.

 

[defaya]

You speaking facts brother. 99% of girls are so fucking bland and boring. You have to be an absolute cuck if you even think about getting into a LTR.

Just imagine the bitch you wanna date loses her pussy, she becomes a bug you wanna kill(in game ofc)

 

[Deleted member 10536]

The way I see it, it's nice being with another person and you enjoy each other company. It makes you feel happier, more content.
If that's not what you're looking for, then of course you don't need/want it.
I just like being with another person who can understand me or likes being with me just for the sake of who I am. Because they too enjoy my company.
Of course that has never happened, so...

 

[Mongrelcel]

youre coping

there are women out there that are pretty, smart, and fun and interesting to talk to

YOURE JUST NOT GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH FOR THEM

 

[Gargantuan]

youre coping

there are women out there that are pretty, smart, and fun and interesting to talk to

YOURE JUST NOT GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH FOR THEM

Let's assume that this is the case (it probably is, to a large extent), why would OP (or any of us, for that matter) even bother with these girls, if they're not gonna open up to guys they don't consider to be attractive enough anyway?

 

[IdiAmin]

youre coping

there are women out there that are pretty, smart, and fun and interesting to talk to

YOURE JUST NOT GOOD LOOKING ENOUGH FOR THEM

Oh yes, they talk with a random Chad about nuclear physics and French cinema from the 60s, why don't you get something real hard to knock yourself out

 

[tyronelite]

Most normies get into LTRs cuz it’s the only way for them to get consistent sex and/or when they’re single they don’t have options & struggle getting fb/fwb. It’s basically a safety net

 

[Mongrelcel]

Let's assume that this is the case (it probably is, to a large extent), why would OP (or any of us, for that matter) even bother with these girls, if they're not gonna open up to guys they don't consider to be attractive enough anyway?

I didnt say anything about "trying"with them.
I countered OPs crying abotu how women are boring, while hes just taking to boring ones.
Thats like buyng a trash old car and saying all cars are slow and break down all the time.

 

[Mongrelcel]

Oh yes, they talk with a random Chad about nuclear physics and French cinema from the 60s, why don't you get something real hard to knock yourself out

yes exactly

do you seriously think there are no girls that are into french cinema from the 60s? there are entire cliques of girls into this shit

its just you who only can get shallow tinder whores, you are not allowed in the friend circles where the qaulity women and chads are.

 

[IdiAmin]

I didnt say anything about "trying"with them.
I countered OPs crying abotu how women are boring, while hes just taking to boring ones.
Thats like buyng a trash old car and saying all cars are slow and break down all the time.

I talked to many of them and they're boring and if you think that my post is "crying" then lmao, get the fuck out of here and talk to the interesting bitch you know

 

[goat2x]

din read
but
you din realize shit you just wanted to boast about your date

 

[Deleted member 7192]

din read
but
you din realize shit you just wanted to boast about your date

TLDR OP found out he's actually into men

 

[IdiAmin]

yes exactly

do you seriously think there are no girls that are into french cinema from the 60s? there are entire cliques of girls into this shit

its just you who only can get shallow tinder whores, you are not allowed in the friend circles where the qaulity women and chads are.

If there are people like you there, I am glad I'm missing out

 

[IdiAmin]

din read
but
you din realize shit you just wanted to boast about your date

Lmao, humble bragging is my second name

 

[Cali Yuga]

if i wasnt so horny all the time i would never talk to a female again for the rest of my life and be happier for it tbh

 

[Deleted member 275]

You're not supposed to talk with women but just have sex with them. Anything else is cope tbh.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

So, I got a Tinder and I sent up dates with 3 average looking girls. At first I thought that this is good but when I thought about it (the dates were a week later) I realized that:
a) it will be the most boring and time wasting shit ever
b) texting with girls is boring and bland (although I knew this before, now it's my core belief lmao)

When I thought about going on a 2 hour walk with a girl (because everything is closed because of the corona) and how many other fun things I could have done (working out, sprinting, playing football/basketball, playing games, etc) I realized that it's stupid for me to go out with some average looking girl when I could get an average looking girl from my circle of friends as a girlfriend.

That's a) part, now the b) part.

So, I didn't go on the 2 dates, I went only on the third one. I went with the third one only because she wrote a shit ton of messages to me and I felt like "fuck it, I'm gonna find out if it's worth it"

And it was kind ok, but Jesus, having a gf must be the most demanding shit ever, she wrote to me every fucking day about everything like "oh, I love my dog, oh I love my job" and everytime I begun to do something I like I would receive a text about some fucking Italian TV series on Netflix about some high school normies, lmao


And I thought about why normies don't ask for fwb but ask for a relationship?
Almost for all of the normie guys motivation for doing this shit is to have sex with a girl and to trade doing most of the activities that you love for a tones of dates which go in a circle like this: watching a movie, going to the restaurant, going somewhere, occasionally going on a vacation and having sex sometimes and to top that, TEXTING about nothing is really stupid unless I would know that she and I get along really, REALLY well and we like to do the same shit like sports or something.

Why would you type, no, why would you expect anyone to read all of that? Is there a payoff at the end? Will I discover something? Ugh.

 

[IdiAmin]

Why would you type, no, why would you expect anyone to read all of that? Is there a payoff at the end? Will I discover something? Ugh.

Easy there edgelord

 

[Deleted member 12303]

Woman who are into you are fun a woman will go out of her way to make you have a good time if she find you gl

 

[IdiAmin]

Woman who are into you are fun a woman will go out of her way to make you have a good time if she find you gl

Well, it's not like that date with a third girl was bad, she was having fun but I was bored lmao

 

[Deleted member 12303]

Well, it's not like that date with a third girl was bad, she was having fun but I was bored lmao

Low t at being bored at a chance to bust

 

[RAITEIII]

So, I got a Tinder and I sent up dates with 3 average looking girls. At first I thought that this is good but when I thought about it (the dates were a week later) I realized that:
a) it will be the most boring and time wasting shit ever
b) texting with girls is boring and bland (although I knew this before, now it's my core belief lmao)

When I thought about going on a 2 hour walk with a girl (because everything is closed because of the corona) and how many other fun things I could have done (working out, sprinting, playing football/basketball, playing games, etc) I realized that it's stupid for me to go out with some average looking girl when I could get an average looking girl from my circle of friends as a girlfriend.

That's a) part, now the b) part.

So, I didn't go on the 2 dates, I went only on the third one. I went with the third one only because she wrote a shit ton of messages to me and I felt like "fuck it, I'm gonna find out if it's worth it"

And it was kind ok, but Jesus, having a gf must be the most demanding shit ever, she wrote to me every fucking day about everything like "oh, I love my dog, oh I love my job" and everytime I begun to do something I like I would receive a text about some fucking Italian TV series on Netflix about some high school normies, lmao


And I thought about why normies don't ask for fwb but ask for a relationship?
Almost for all of the normie guys motivation for doing this shit is to have sex with a girl and to trade doing most of the activities that you love for a tones of dates which go in a circle like this: watching a movie, going to the restaurant, going somewhere, occasionally going on a vacation and having sex sometimes and to top that, TEXTING about nothing is really stupid unless I would know that she and I get along really, REALLY well and we like to do the same shit like sports or something.

She just trynna connect with you. Take or leave.

 

[IdiAmin]

You're not supposed to talk with women but just have sex with them. Anything else is cope tbh.

It's not a cope, I could go a date but I prefered to work out that day lmao, it's not like I asked out 10 girls, they all rejected me and here I am ranting about how dates are stupid anyway, lol, that's not my way

 

[Hozay]

The lemon is not worth the squeeze brother

 

[Hozay]

fun and interesting to talk to

 

[Hozay]

Woman who are into you are fun a woman will go out of her way to make you have a good time if she find you gl

really bro? are they gonna tell me a funny knock knock joke?

 

[Deleted member 12303]

really bro? are they gonna tell me a funny knock knock joke?

Yes bro woman have a nurturing nature as heedandsuccedd said she will fake laugh and pay attention to everything you say

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Oh yes, they talk with a random Chad about nuclear physics and French cinema from the 60s, why don't you get something real hard to knock yourself out

This is what I talk about on my dates...

 

[IdiAmin]

This is what I talk about on my dates...

So consider yourself a Chad then lmao

 

[Deleted member 10536]

So consider yourself a Chad then lmao

Has got nothing to do with Chad.
Just my interests.
I'm literally a khhfv.

 

[justadude]

holy fuck do i hate the way girls text