Dr. Mog
Researcher at moggerdom and zoomerology
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Most of you autists aren’t social and don’t have much people around. If that’s you, please skip this thread and approach people, make friends or whatever. This thread is meant for those 5-10% of the forum who relate with me and have a life with people around them all the time.
“Just join uni for socialising bro” is a 50k dollar scam. What’s more important is what kind of course/major you are taking up. ITcels could live a whole year without socialising while still attending every lecture cause their courses are structured in such a way that you don’t really need anyone’s help for it. Self studying and non-networking is very ideal for them.
Then there are courses like medicine, real estate broker business, Law studies which requires a LOT of networking while studying and also relations are very important when you become a doctor cause referring one doctor to another is a real thing, same with lawyers and brokers.
I live a daily life and study a course in which networking is of paramount importance. There are literally people around you all the time. There are people who you hate mutually but still gotta live the life with each other with a pretentious smile. My social battery is now so done with it.
So I have decided to go on a human detox and here’s the step by step guide. (1 week atleast to begin with)
-Don’t text anyone first.
-Don’t ask anyone out.
-Don’t start any group plans/parties by yourself alone.
-Don’t join any empty seats at an already occupied table by your so called “friends” at the college cafeteria or wherever.
-Don’t start conversations unless truly necessary.
-Forget everyone around you exists.
-Walk alone
This does NOT include rejecting that call from your grandma who’s admitted at the hospital.
This does NOT include acting like an autist if a cute Becky approached you and sat beside you.
This does NOT include saying no if a good friend of yours (who has no negative intentions) invited you to his bday party dinner.
Lastly, this does NOT include to stop texting/talking to your HQNP girlfriend if you truly are in a relationship with her. (Or if you wanna skip this, then tell her what you are up to)
This does NOT include acting like an autist if a cute Becky approached you and sat beside you.
This does NOT include saying no if a good friend of yours (who has no negative intentions) invited you to his bday party dinner.
Lastly, this does NOT include to stop texting/talking to your HQNP girlfriend if you truly are in a relationship with her. (Or if you wanna skip this, then tell her what you are up to)
This doesn’t mean you gotta completely seal your lips. You still can greet people whenever you see them around, a good nod with a smile maybe. You can still continue the conversation your friend started with you for a short extent. Just don’t be a jestermaxxer like a clown doing small talks all the time in the name of “making friends”.
TLDR: A famous blue pill quote goes “Stop talking/texting first and see how many dead plants you have been watering.”
Goal of this is to note and observe how many people care enough about you. With so many people around me everyday it’s hard to notice who is your friend and who isn’t. Who cares enough to initiate convos or text first and who doesn’t. You can later weed them out slowly or keep in your “pretending-to-be-friends” list as per your convinience.
That’s it! Gonna report back soon. See y’all next week.
