Going through a breakup and need an honest assesment where I stand

@Xangsane deal with this
Yeah I wouldn't advise him to get lip fillers unless if he wants to change the general shape but not fullness.
 
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Yeah I wouldn't advise him to get lip fillers unless if he wants to change the general shape but not fullness.
In how far would the general shape require improvement?
 
Hey guys, new to the forum and need an honest assessment. Im going through a breakup right now and gained a shit ton of weight during my five year long ltr. Before that I did well with women irl, but tinder was a mixed bag at best (matches that ended in sex mostly with either older, less fortunate looking or strongly overweight ladies, which all 3 Im in to) and I never received signals of interests (though my mates say otherwise and both my long term gfs said I didn't notice). Now Im curious where I stand and where I could be.

People often laud my eyes, some girls gave me comments about my jawline too, some people say my features are piggish and low class though.

I am German, quarter Jewish, quarter gypsy and 6'0 feet tall, weighting 270 pounds.

> btw why do I have upper eyelid exposure in photos taken by someone else but neither in selfies nor in the mirror and even other people don't notice irl.
you look really good, u just need leanmax and maybe if you dye your hair, dark triad will fit better
Text me if you need diet tips man, it's never over
 
you look really good, u just need leanmax and maybe if you dye your hair, dark triad will fit better
Text me if you need diet tips man, it's never over
I am lean in the last two photos. And what color should I dye my hair? Dark triad is hard for me, Im kind of a genrle guy.
 
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I am lean in the last two photos. And what color should I dye my hair? Dark triad is hard for me, Im kind of a genrle guy.
Yeah you look HTN-chadlite in those photos.
It's okay if you're a gentle guys, i mean u should dye your hair to a darker color, u almost there men just lean Maxx that would be enough to slay nonstop again
 
Yeah you look HTN-chadlite in those photos.
It's okay if you're a gentle guys, i mean u should dye your hair to a darker color, u almost there men just lean Maxx that would be enough to slay nonstop again
Okay, though I never slayed nonstop. My 2 gfs were cold approaches who thought I was weird because I didn't notice their signals of interest. In my friend circle there is actually funny stories about me friendzoning two chicks accidentally. I never received a diagnosis, but I think I might be on the spectrum.
 
You are fucking idiot. Thats it.
 
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Hella potential.
Lose weight, gym max and style max. current 6 at HTN in this pic, you could probably reach 7.5 Chad light with the right soft maxes.
1686496293757
 
6ft in Germany must be brutal since everyone there is taller than 6ft
 
Lose like 70kg
 
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I know a good fat camp in Poland you can go to.
 
I know a good fat camp in Poland you can go to.
Sorry, my great grandpa died there. They should fix the railings on their guard towers first.
Kys in your anal hole. Imagine looking like op and wasting his prime being fat.
he will improve boyo, he can slay even if hes fat
I appreciate you sticking up for me, bro. But in a way our vulgar friend is right. I fucked my own life up with the weight and the psychological fallout that came from it. But I will improve, Im determined to get back my sexlife before my ltr and a new ltr with a girl, that fits me better
 
This much was enough ..
You never ever know the mental state of someone depressed even slight insult to them can result in something much more brutal ...
Mad respect for that. More users like you and this forum would be back in its prime
 
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Sorry, my great grandpa died there. They should fix the railings on their guard towers first.


I appreciate you sticking up for me, bro. But in a way our vulgar friend is right. I fucked my own life up with the weight and the psychological fallout that came from it. But I will improve, Im determined to get back my sexlife before my ltr and a new ltr with a girl, that fits me better
it didnt fuck you life, u can still lose weight and be chad again
 
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Looks theory on suicide watch
 
Also, you feel for the typical bluepill shit of letting urself go in a relationship.

To keep a toilet (more commonly known as “female”) u need to stay consistently in shape
 
Also, you feel for the typical bluepill shit of letting urself go in a relationship.

To keep a toilet (more commonly known as “female”) u need to stay consistently in shape
Yeah, I let myself go. I don't judge forum culture but calling women toilets is not really helping I think.
 
Looks theory on suicide watch
Well, granted, I do think the guys here are a bit too dramatic and let a lot of soft parameters fall by the wayside. Women do seem to have a wider margin when it comes to taste, than they are given credit for. A white tall objective psl Chad has near universal appeal, true, but which Htn or mtn is a chadlite or chad in some girl's eyes may vary considerably. With personality and status somebody who is at least a normie can surely raise his appeal even on a more raw primal lizard brain level. Believe it or not, our sexlife was the only thing, that worked before the breakup.
 
Thanks bro, sorry for saying it so late. I can take it though, as said. The tone here is rough and that's what Im here for. I need honesty and maybe a kick or two.
 
Okay, so:
- losing about 40 kilos
- building muscle
- getting a tan, fashion sense and a haircut
- grow beard out
...
- stop beign autistic and psycvological wreck
= htn-chadlite

Okay, I think I can do the first four and hide my trainwreck of a "personality" somewhat well in public. I estimate about 1.5 years if Im at it with fervour, I will be going on 29 then. You guys helped me over the thought, that it is pointless due to my immutable looks, but Im worried to be too old once Im done. Doing it essentially to become a good looking version of betabux. Is the boomer talk about dating 20 year olds at 30 a meme or could I stand a legit chance? Any older posters got experience? How do Htns and chadlites fare after 25/ after 30 in general?
 

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