going to a club alone

[lookismer]

im going to a haloween party alone, its club like you pay a bit to enter ( nor much like 10 euro) there are gonna be hundreds / thousands of people from my city aged like 15-20 ( its 16+ but some get in a bit earlier with like fake id or smth) and i want tips, have anyone ever went to club alone, how to meet people there to talk etc im gonna go i have nothing to lose we live once since september i changed myself finally making some friends ( but mine are going to other friends partys that i dont know) i was asocial all high school before now im becoming slightly known

 

[lookismer]

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[lookismer]

so anyone got tips like what to do cuz im fonna go alone there and how much do i predrink bedause i need to really quickly find some group there that will let me be with them cuz yk otherwise it could end up awkward if im not drunk enough or im alone most od the tike

 

[Framem4xx]

why you go alone?

 

[lookismer]

why you go alone?

cuz i used to be antisocial and i cut contact with my old stupid nd friends ( they were toxic aswell im not fake) and now since september i made more nt friends ar school got to know more people but they all go to you know parties from their other friends that i dont know and aswell since im friends with them since like 1.5 months i haven't met them yet so they didn't invite me and before anyways i didnt talk anyone at school only went out with my nd friends and was with them always so this partyy is like everyone can go and many cool people hot girls and shit go there and ye i also could go out with some girl from freshman that i barely know but i think i prefer that

 

[jackmaxxd]

Sounds like it might be fail unless you're at least chad lite and very NT.

 

[Framem4xx]

cuz i used to be antisocial and i cut contact with my old stupid nd friends ( they were toxic aswell im not fake) and now since september i made more nt friends ar school got to know more people but they all go to you know parties from their other friends that i dont know and aswell since im friends with them since like 1.5 months i haven't met them yet so they didn't invite me and before anyways i didnt talk anyone at school only went out with my nd friends and was with them always so this partyy is like everyone can go and many cool people hot girls and shit go there and ye i also could go out with some girl from freshman that i barely know but i think i prefer that

alr
im suggesting you to start basic convo with someone you will know that goes to your school

 

[nobodylovesme]

Get drunk enough that you can ask girls to dance. I did it once and all but one girl said yes . It's easy to talk afterwards too.

 

[KT-34]

Sounds like it might be fail unless you're at least chad lite and very NT.

I made some friends and met girls like that lmaoo

 

[lookismer]

Sounds like it might be fail unless you're at least chad lite and very NT.

really? im almost 6'3 and mid mtn maybe high if im in my prime, my looks arent crazy to have girls thirsting over me, but i get iois when i go out, sometimes girls do kinda a first move to me, like this girl smiled to me i said yo and she started flirtingn with me ( i was drunk) i wasnt saying nothing and behaved like asocial later ( but that was cuz she wasnt ugly but not my type) so like im enough to not get brutally rejected all over when i make a good approach but its not like they will be sworning over me once i enter there

 

[KT-34]

Nobody really cares, just try to go with the flow and when the party is drunk enough go talk to people, if they ask you just say you came in with a friend and he left or make up some excuse

Never say you came there alone

 

[lookismer]

I made some friends and met girls like that lmaoo

how did that go

 

[Regular Doomer]

Good luck bro, try to be polite always and focus on smal talk, it might take you far, also remember to enjoy

are you drinking there?

 

[jackmaxxd]

I made some friends and met girls like that lmaoo

congrats, you're NT then.

 

[Timelessbrah]

Going out alone is super chill generally speaking, depends on the place. If the place is dead, it will be beyond shit, but if its a good party, whatever it will be good. Depends on your looks level and in how drunk you are.

Either way, you should be so drunk that you just want to go and so stuff without needing people.

Take from someone who did it a lot of times and sometimes still does it.

Best luck.

 

[KT-34]

how did that go

Went to the smoking area and barged in people's conversations and went with the flow

Don't be scared of rejection, if people look at you weirdly then it doesn't matter you just wait for another group to hijack

I met guys like this and we went on the next day with a group of girls to party, litteraly sneaked in there and brought another friend of mine too

 

[lookismer]

Went to the smoking area and barged in people's conversations and went with the flow

Don't be scared of rejection, if people look at you weirdly then it doesn't matter you just wait for another group to hijack

I met guys like this and we went on the next day with a group of girls to party, litteraly sneaked in there and brought another friend of mine too

cool bro so im excited just one question cuz it starts at like 8 pm and ends at like 3 am should i fo in a little later so people are more drunk and also how much should I drink before? cuz i want to be already a bit drunk and not spend as much money in the bar

 

[lookismer]

Good luck bro, try to be polite always and focus on smal talk, it might take you far, also remember to enjoy

are you drinking there?

yea, i want to predrink aswell also what costiume should i get?

 

[Regular Doomer]

yea, i want to predrink aswell also what costiume should i get?

whatever you want bro hahaha doesn't really matter, go with stuff that will help you socialize

 

[HTNGrevious]

I had a really good chance socially to chat to some new people and meet new girls at a halloween party that a ton of my friends went to but in the end I never got invited the problem with talking to people for me isn't that idk how to its im normally tired when other people r around like school and when im tired I go quiet

 

[lookismer]

Going out alone is super chill generally speaking, depends on the place. If the place is dead, it will be beyond shit, but if its a good party, whatever it will be good. Depends on your looks level and in how drunk you are.

Either way, you should be so drunk that you just want to go and so stuff without needing people.

Take from someone who did it a lot of times and sometimes still does it.

Best luck.

im mid mtn maybe high if i prime up and 6'2

 

[lookismer]

I had a really good chance socially to chat to some new people and meet new girls at a halloween party that a ton of my friends went to but in the end I never got invited the problem with talking to people for me isn't that idk how to its im normally tired when other people r around like school and when im tired I go quiet

then get more sleep and shit

 

[HTNGrevious]

then get more sleep and shit

honestly I probably should

 

[Pasha33]

im going to a haloween party alone, its club like you pay a bit to enter ( nor much like 10 euro) there are gonna be hundreds / thousands of people from my city aged like 15-20 ( its 16+ but some get in a bit earlier with like fake id or smth) and i want tips, have anyone ever went to club alone, how to meet people there to talk etc im gonna go i have nothing to lose we live once since september i changed myself finally making some friends ( but mine are going to other friends partys that i dont know) i was asocial all high school before now im becoming slightly known

this is kinda something you can figure out when you get there. Its unrealistic to ask for advice ot help because it could go in many different ways. just load up on some pre drink and walk in there with confidence. If your wanting to approach someone to talk to just find something about the party and make a joke about it for a conversation starter. “this party is packed” Some shit like that. its an easy way to get talking to someone.

 

[lookismer]

this is kinda something you can figure out when you get there. Its unrealistic to ask for advice ot help because it could go in many different ways. just load up on some pre drink and walk in there with confidence. If your wanting to approach someone to talk to just find something about the party and make a joke about it for a conversation starter. “this party is packed” Some shit like that. its an easy way to get talking to someone.

yea i hope i manage to make friends slay kiss anything or just have some cool experience for life

 

[KT-34]

cool bro so im excited just one question cuz it starts at like 8 pm and ends at like 3 am should i fo in a little later so people are more drunk and also how much should I drink before? cuz i want to be already a bit drunk and not spend as much money in the bar

Yeah usually it starts filling up at midnight, it's good to go there when there's already lots of people, if you're there from the start people will notice you as the weird guy alone in the corner

 

[Pasha33]

yea i hope i manage to make friends slay kiss anything or just have some cool experience for life

you will bro. Just be nt and try and make some jokes with randoms. If its with a girl then even better. If with a girl she’ll likely introduce you to her friends which will then cause a ripple for you so you can meet even more people