Going to a party as a neurodivergent

[whateverittakes245]

Hello org

I have a party that I got +1ed to in 2 weeks. I don't know/don't like many of the people there and I'm pretty autistic. Don't have any pregab/baclo to hand so I think I'm just gonna have to drink, which I don't wanna really do because last time I was drinking I landed myself in hospital and almost died

Any nts who go to parties often got any tips on how to talk to girls, not look aspie etc? Just need general advice. Don't wanna make myself look like a retard if possible

 

[Alienmaxxer]

If you are legit autistic you will look like a retard no matter what you do. Like you will just be noticeably out of place. Sorry man.

 

[KIVVV]

Either drink there or dont attend it

 

[whateverittakes245]

Either drink there or dont attend it

Yeah obviously I will if I can't get any other meds before then

Not gonna do rails or anything tho cuz I'll fuck myself up

 

[SomaliSub5]

just drink a lot of alc and dont do weed weed will raise your inhib like crazy if youre not used to partying

 

[whateverittakes245]

just drink a lot of alc and dont do weed weed will raise your inhib like crazy if youre not used to partying

Yeah often happens with me and weed I get paranoid af

Will likely only drink

 

[sanguine]

fellow autist here, just don’t drink a fuck ton and have fun with your friends. simple as that

 

[try2beme]

Honestly man do not plan shit unless you’re severely autistic just live in the moment it sounds cliche but people can tell when ur doing all this for a party

 

[Grievous]

Just drink and dont think about it bro
preparing urself will js make it worse js go with it

im nd n still have fun at parties

I think I'm just gonna have to drink, which I don't wanna really do because last time I was drinking I landed myself in hospital and almost died

u dont need to drink that much mate

Pregablin will make it way better tho if u can get it
and u get drunker quicker without risking problems

 

[o_Owtf]

If you can score MDMA in some form then you'll socialize no problem, I've seen the miracles it does to autistic people firsthand

But if you're not down for that or if it doesn't fit the party you're going to then maybe try to lean into it and play your role, be the cute awkward/inexperienced aspie guy

 

[Grievous]

If you can score MDMA in some form then you'll socialize no problem, I've seen the miracles it does to autistic people firsthand

But if you're not down for that or if it doesn't fit the party you're going to then maybe try to lean into it and play your role, be the cute awkward/inexperienced aspie guy

cant be pinging every party
bit much really

@Starborn have u tried mdma

 

[whateverittakes245]

Just drink and dont think about it bro
preparing urself will js make it worse js go with it

im nd n still have fun at parties

u dont need to drink that much mate

Pregablin will make it way better tho if u can get it
and u get drunker quicker without risking problems

used up all my pregab a few weeks ago because I had to present in front of a lot of people, can't see myself getting any more by then so
I'll probably end up drinking then just melatoninmaxing when I get home so I don't get as many negative side effects

 

[stonecold trucel]

just drink some beer and you'll be fine

 

[o_Owtf]

pinging

Brit?

And no of course, it'll have to be an occasional thing. I think luckily the prosocial effects are there even at lower doses

 

[Grievous]

Brit?

And no of course, it'll have to be an occasional thing. I think luckily the prosocial effects are there even at lower doses

yeah

ive never done mdma but my mates have n they were tweaking
if I saw someone pinging at a party that stands out 10x more then some awkward dude

 

[whateverittakes245]

yeah

ive never done mdma but my mates have n they were tweaking
if I saw someone pinging at a party that stands out 10x more then some awkward dude

unrelated question
How the fuck do you have 15k posts and 30k rep in less than a year

I see a lot of accounts like this, did you rejoin later or something?

 

[Grievous]

unrelated question
How the fuck do you have 15k posts and 30k rep in less than a year

I see a lot of accounts like this, did you rejoin later or something?

nah this my first account

its not really that hard but I dont reccomend going out of ur way to try get more reps n posts

 

[yuzer]

Lefort 1 before the party

 

[o_Owtf]

yeah

ive never done mdma but my mates have n they were tweaking
if I saw someone pinging at a party that stands out 10x more then some awkward dude

I don't know how much your friends took but yes you can look absolutely ridiculous, but remember that goes for any substance. I've done a lot of drugs but only once ever made an ass out of myself when intoxicated, and that was when super drunk. And in my experience the help autistic people get from MDMA to act more NT far offsets the potential things that'd make them act more ND

 

[RichardSpencel]

“just have fun bro works for me “

Truth is 250 pregab 10-25 baclofen or rope