Good looking but strange results with women?

[Allornothing]

I’ve been confused about this for quite some time.

A lot of girls were into me at school but never approached (since I was asocial to be fair) and I would only find out later or I would just know. Girls stare at me sometimes outside too. Guy friends always call me good looking.

But the strange thing is I’ve basically never been approached (only twice as a kid and indirectly at school). Also, when I was 17 I posted my face on Yubo and got few matches and messages first. Then I see average looking guys getting tons of matches. Is Yubo different to Tinder?

Am I overrating myself or can anyone relate to this?

 

[Deleted member 45760]

when I was 17 I posted my face on Yubo and got few matches and messages first

are you tall?

 

[Allornothing]

are you tall?

Nah but it never stopped me irl and on Yubo I never mentioned it because I didn’t have a bio anyway.

I’m 5’10”

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

Brb using imagination since no pics

 

[Big White Cuck]

Am I overrating myself

yes

 

[Allornothing]

Brb using imagination since no pics

All I need is someone who has experienced the same

 

[IAMNOTANINCEL]

All I need is someone who has experienced the same

i think @MoggerGaston may relate

 

[Deleted member 26642]

If they were attracted to you they would talk to you and yubo is easy mode. You're probably just mtn

 

[Deleted member 19968]

IOI: Direct approach or getting complimented by girls but theres too many factors on this.
Could just make a tinder and see for yourself, ur just mind masturbating

 

[Allornothing]

If they were attracted to you they would talk to you and yubo is easy mode. You're probably just mtn

Guys say I’m gl and assume I have a gf. Does this happen to all guys?

 

[Deleted member 26642]

Guys say I’m gl and assume I have a gf. Does this happen to all guys?

Depends on the context. Attention from girls is always a more reliable metric

 

[gooner23]

i was ltn and still had more approaches than you but i was a pure cutecel so that might play a role never tried dating apps tho

 

[Deleted member 15067]

l am very very similar

 

[Deleted member 15067]

i was ltn and still had more approaches than you but i was a pure cutecel so that might play a role never tried dating apps tho

Yup I’ve been saying that being normie but approachable looking is better than being HTN, resting bitch face, and very high inhib

 

[gooner23]

Yup I’ve been saying that being normie but approachable looking is better than being HTN, resting bitch face, and very high inhib

if i posted my face i would deadass probably get banned like @Aloha

 

[MoggerGaston]

Guys say I’m gl and assume I have a gf. Does this happen to all guys?

Guys think I am a slayer who fucks a different girl every week.
This happened even when I was still KHHV at 23yo. Had girls IRL tell me I look like a fuckboy.

I think it's just low-trust looks tbh.

 

[Allornothing]

l am very very similar

But it’s not like they are intimidated by me otherwise they would match me on apps at least.

I think my face just screams non NT in some way so girls just think I’m a weirdo with shit pics and don’t match with me.

 

[Deleted member 30037]

You clearly just don’t look approachable OR you don’t put yourself in the position to be approached. Also, keep in mind women giving an IOI is an invitation for you to approach them, most of them aren’t going to go up to you unless you are genuinely top tier, which you aren’t (no offence or would happen)

 

[Big White Cuck]

So much coping.

 

[Luffymaxxing]

I relate, at your age I hung out with mostly incels so women wouldn't approach much even though I had a few do it over the years. Even my non incel friends tried setting me up with women but my mentalceldom was big

I remember I used to post on Facebook dating groups and I'd get plenty of likes, I remember texting nudes with this milf jfl.

Maybe that's what happens to you, hanging out with incels is not beneficial

 

[JovenCansao]

I can relate and at this point I am pretty it's just mental masturbation, it is over.

 

[Deleted member 31971]

Happening to me rn , so many IOIs not just staring , but they never approach

One approached but got friendzonned and never talked to her again

 

[LooksOrDeath]

A lot of girls were into me at school but never approached (since I was asocial to be fair) and I would only find out later or I would just know. Girls stare at me sometimes outside too. Guy friends always call me good looking.

You sound like a HTN. Guys also say im gl alot though that doesnt mean that girls approach me regularly.

But the strange thing is I’ve basically never been approached (only twice as a kid and indirectly at school). Also, when I was 17 I posted my face on Yubo and got few matches and messages first. Then I see average looking guys getting tons of matches. Is Yubo different to Tinder?

The quality of your pictures matters a lot. MTN with good pics will get more matches online than HTN with autistic mug selfies.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Guys say I’m gl and assume I have a gf. Does this happen to all guys?

No

 

[nofap]

Stop coping
When girls like you they will let it be visibly known or approach

 

[LooksOrDeath]

You sound like a HTN. Guys also say im gl alot though that doesnt mean that girls approach me regularly.

The quality of your pictures matters a lot. MTN with good pics will get more matches online than HTN with autistic mug selfies.

@nofap what is funny here

 

[11yearoldprostitute]

Go to a party/ bar/ club. If you’re decent looking you will get approached pretty frequently by girls who start the conversation with telling you that you’re good looking especially as a teen.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Stop coping
When girls like you they will let it be visibly known

OP already fulfills that part apparently

or approach

Depends on the culture

 

[nofap]

You sound like a HTN. Guys also say im gl alot though that doesnt mean that girls approach me regularly.

The quality of your pictures matters a lot. MTN with good pics will get more matches online than HTN with autistic mug selfies.

Htn mogs mtn into utter oblivion
doesn’t matter if a htn post’s pictures of himself on the toilet shitting, will always mog a mtn normies NT pic

 

[11yearoldprostitute]

You clearly just don’t look approachable OR you don’t put yourself in the position to be approached. Also, keep in mind women giving an IOI is an invitation for you to approach them, most of them aren’t going to go up to you unless you are genuinely top tier, which you aren’t (no offence or would happen)

Cope, depends on the setting. On the street? Obviously not regularly unless Chad. In a social setting? They’ll approach decent looking guys.

 

[LooksOrDeath]

Htn mogs mtn into utter oblivion
doesn’t matter if a htn post’s pictures of himself on the toilet shitting, will always mog a mtn normies NT pic

You underestimate the power of aspie pics , tinder experiments here have proven mtns with good pics will have equal if not better results than htns with bad pics. Even chads look bad in certain pictures.
Unless you are underrating mtns and overrating htns.

 

[New Technology]

A lot of girls were into me at school but never approached (since I was asocial to be fair) and I would only find out later or I would just know. Girls stare at me sometimes outside too. Guy friends always call me good looking.

But the strange thing is I’ve basically never been approached

this is normal for the inbetween of htn-chadlite. what country do you live in?

Is Yubo different to Tinder?

yes, extremely different. you should try out both.