Good way to ask out female coworker on instagram?

[Ken]

I was talking with a cute female coworker. We just talked a little bit about school and joked around a bit. We didnt have much time to talk about other stuff. She was very smiley and laughed a lot. She probably acts like this with everyone but I still want to ask her out. I asked for her instagram and she followed back. What is a good way to start a conversation with her that can eventually lead to us meeting irl?

I dont care about quitting this job if I get rejected and it gets awkward. She face mogs my oneitis but my oneitis body mogs her hard.

 

[the BULL]

idk maybe ask her is she wants to meet sometimes?? you don't need a master degree for this

 

[Deleted member 15004]

Wait 3 months for her to get a boyfriend while during the mean-time constantly post about it on Looksmax while being awkward around her

 

[Ken]

idk maybe ask her is she wants to meet sometimes?? you don't need a master degree for this

Should I try messaging her about other stuff first or should my first message be asking her if she wants to meet?

 

[Ken]

Wait 3 months for her to get a boyfriend while during the mean-time constantly post about it on Looksmax while being awkward around her

Never again.

This girl is HQNP and oneitis worthy I know she could make me get over my oneitis if she agrees to meet up.

 

[the BULL]

Should I try messaging her about other stuff first or should my first message be asking her if she wants to meet?

directly. she already knows you enough

 

[Deleted member 4362]

I haven’t talked to a woman in 5 weeks

 

[Ken]

directly. she already knows you enough

Legit. I will do it tomorrow. I am expecting a rejection or no answer but a yes would be an instant cure to my oneitis problem.

 

[Deleted member 16758]

write want to fuck ?

 

[the BULL]

Legit. I will do it tomorrow. I am expecting a rejection or no answer but a yes would be an instant cure to my oneitis problem.

last time i did this i got a yes but as friends

 

[Ken]

last time i did this i got a yes but as friends

Did you go and change her mind?

 

[Deleted member 17525]

Legit. I will do it tomorrow. I am expecting a rejection or no answer but a yes would be an instant cure to my oneitis problem.

Why would she not want to go out with you nigga stop being insecure

 

[the BULL]

Did you go and change her mind?

no but you do it. i learnt that if she wasn't interested at all she wouldn't even gave me a try

 

[2d v2]

if you have to quit just literally start doing uber, you will be making like a grand a week and no more bs.

 

[Ken]

Why would she not want to go out with you nigga stop being insecure

Because I asked out her less attractive friend to meet up, she agreed and we bought each other food but we didnt do anything sexually. Her friend still likes me and probably told her about it.

 

[Ken]

if you have to quit just literally start doing uber, you will be making like a grand a week and no more bs.

Its a shitty job. I only got it to meet females.

 

[Deleted member 16474]

chad would say: "lets go out sometime?"

 

[2d v2]

Its a shitty job. I only got it to meet females.

you need cash, not a shitty job to meet women where you get 10 hours a week. Women are everywhere, what you need is cold hard cash money.

 

[Deleted member 17525]

Because I asked out her less attractive friend to meet up, she agreed and I bought her food but we didnt do anything sexually. Her friend still likes me and probably told her about it.

That only goes in your favour

 

[Afrikancel]

Best way is to fuck her on a workers night out in the clubs

 

[Ken]

you need cash, not a shitty job to meet women where you get 10 hours a week. Women are everywhere, what you need is cold hard cash money.

I already have another job. I make more in a week there than I make in a month at my shitty job.

 

[Ken]

How is this?

Hey x how are you doing?

If she replies:

Do you want to go get a coffee sometime?

 

[Ken]

She ignored my message.

BRUTAL

 

[Deleted member 18372]

be good looking

 

[Solidcoin]

u dont

 

[Chadethnic101]

Legit. I will do it tomorrow. I am expecting a rejection or no answer but a yes would be an instant cure to my oneitis problem.

Ask her sharpish

 

[Ken]

Ask her sharpish

What does that mean?

She finally replied saying sorry that she barely saw the message. She asked if I had a work question.

 

[traveler]

send her a rose emoji

it'll be like this but via instagram

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[Deleted member 18244]

You should have asked her in person dude to get a drink after work. Its not rocket science

 

[Ken]

You should have asked her in person dude to get a drink after work. Its not rocket science

Too late for that. They only schedule us at the same time a few days a year. I probably wont see her there for another 3-4 months.

Im gonna message her

"Do you want to go get a coffee sometime?"

Or does that sound aspie?

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Too late for that. They only schedule us at the same time a few days a year. I probably wont see her there for another 3-4 months.

Im gonna message her

"Do you want to go get a coffee sometime?"

Or does that sound aspie?

If she replied to you it’s fine. If you’re just double texting after she ignored you the first time it’s a bad idea…

Maybe she liked you at first but the feels wore off with time. She has met a lot of guys that tried to hit on her since then.

 

[Ken]

If she replied to you it’s fine. If you’re just double texting after she ignored you the first time it’s a bad idea…

Maybe she liked you at first but the feels wore off with time. She has met a lot of guys that tried to hit on her since then.

It took her 2 days to reply.

Ill try it

 

[Deleted member 18244]

It took her 2 days to reply.

Ill try it

Take your shot, who cares. At least you’ll know for sure.

 

[thereallegend]

Too late for that. They only schedule us at the same time a few days a year. I probably wont see her there for another 3-4 months.

Im gonna message her

"Do you want to go get a coffee sometime?"

Or does that sound aspie?

Good luck man

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Take your shot, who cares. At least you’ll know for sure.

Post your chats here so we can analyse them

 

[Incellectually_Shy]

Use your car.

 

[Ken]

Post your chats here so we can analyse them

Me: Hey 'X' how are you doing?

Her (2 days later): Hey, im sorry I just saw this :/ were you gonna ask about a shift?

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Me: Hey 'X' how are you doing?

Her (2 days later): Hey, im sorry I just saw this :/ were you gonna ask about a shift?

It’s kind of a bad sign that she replied two days latter and then lead the conversation towards work immediately instead of asking how are you, wyd, etc. like’s she’s trying to imply that she sees you as colleagues only

 

[Ken]

It’s kind of a bad sign that she replied two days latter and then lead the conversation towards work immediately instead of asking how are you, wyd, etc. like’s she’s trying to imply that she sees you as colleagues only

Legit, Its probably over.

Should I try asking a non-work-related question to gauge interest or just go for it and ask her out?


"No I just wanted to know if you wanted to get a coffee sometime?"
or
ask her about something else(school maybe?)
or
give up and ignore her

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Legit, Its probably over.

Should I try asking a non-work-related question to gauge interest or just go for it and ask her out?


"No I just wanted to know if you wanted to get a coffee sometime?"
or
ask her about something else(school maybe?)
or
give up and ignore her

How did she behave in your interactions in person? Was she into you?

 

[Ken]

How did she behave in your interactions in person? Was she into you?

I was joking around with her a bit and she would laugh a lot. I would ask her questions about school and she would ask me questions back .She probably just acts like that everyone though.

All the females ive asked out have been nice to me irl and they laugh at my jokes. If I ask them out irl they say yes then reject me over text.

 

[BoneDensity]

(2 days later): Hey, im sorry I just saw this :/ were you gonna ask about a shift?

its a wrap

 

[Deleted member 18244]

I was joking around with her a bit and she would laugh a lot. I would ask her questions about school and she would ask me questions back .She probably just acts like that everyone though.

All the females ive asked out have been nice to me irl and they laugh at my jokes. If I ask them out irl they say yes then reject me over text.

That doesn’t sound too bad. Esp if she touched you. How old are you? Like I said you should ask her either way cause youve got nothing to lose.

 

[Ken]

That doesn’t sound too bad. Esp if she touched you. How old are you? Like I said you should ask her either way cause youve got nothing to lose.

She didnt touch me. Ive had girls touch me and still reject me.

Early 20's. A few years older than her

I just sent her a message asking if she wants to go get coffee sometime

Ill quit if I get rejected.

 

[Deleted member 18244]

She didnt touch me. Ive had girls touch me and still reject me.

Early 20's. A few years older than her

I just sent her a message asking if she wants to go get coffee sometime

Ill quit if I get rejected.

Lmao you dont have to quit because of that

 

[Ottoman Janissary]

hey, wanna come out for a drink?

 

[Chadethnic101]

What does that mean?

She finally replied saying sorry that she barely saw the message. She asked if I had a work question.

It means saying ask her quickly

So she said no?

 

[Ken]

It means saying ask her quickly

So she said no?

She hasnt replied

 

[Vermilioncore]

Can't be more brutal than my female coworker who asked me out and got rejected lol. The bitch literally ended her shift then walked back to me just to ask me out and got rejected. The slut probably felt so embarrassed. She didn't quit tho. She continued to work there and pretend it never happend

 

[LightSkinNoob]

Don't message her on insta like a cuck, next time you see her IRL, just say "You seem interesting, give me your number and let's hang out sometime.