Good ways to make a move when she is right in front of you with her back towards you

[aphoria]

When clubbing a common tactic used by girls is to use proximity, that is, come to dance close to the guy they want to talk to.

Often times the girl who is interested will also be the one with her back towards the guy. This allows her to be closer to him, which in turn means:

• she can get the guy hard by accidentally stepping back and getting her ass in guys crotch area
• other type of touch (hands, arms)
• a guy can smell her pheromones
• a guy can look at her ass and imagine how it would be to fuck her doggy without getting caught (her friends are watching though)
• shows to the guy that she is comfortable with him being behind her back

I am wondering what are some good options for how to make a move given such situation and their pros/cons:

• touch her (put your hand on her back/waist/butt or just slap her ass) and see how she reacts
• say something to her ear while still being behind her and make her turn around instead of moving yourself
• make a step or 2 so that you are next to her and then say
• get in front of her

I have heard that guy should not approach from back because she might get scared/get cortisol spike or whatever. But it doesn't seem like it applies here: she supposedly already knows who is behind her back and moving in front of her feels like putting too much effort.

I'm thinking:

1. start by light touch (not much reaction is expected, but she might get more comfortable with something more)
2. then say something to her ear while still being behind her back

 

[GazerGazer]

just tap her shoulder bro

 

[Deleted member 19766]

I never thought about this, wow

 

[klip11]

Grab her butt

 

[Yellowskies]

When clubbing a common tactic used by girls is to use proximity, that is, come to dance close to the guy they want to talk to.

Often times the girl who is interested will also be the one with her back towards the guy. This allows her to be closer to him, which in turn means:

• she can get the guy hard by accidentally stepping back and getting her ass in guys crotch area
• other type of touch (hands, arms)
• a guy can smell her pheromones
• a guy can look at her ass and imagine how it would be to fuck her doggy without getting caught (her friends are watching though)
• shows to the guy that she is comfortable with him being behind her back

I am wondering what are some good options for how to make a move given such situation and their pros/cons:

• touch her (put your hand on her back/waist/butt or just slap her ass) and see how she reacts
• say something to her ear while still being behind her and make her turn around instead of moving yourself
• make a step or 2 so that you are next to her and then say
• get in front of her

I have heard that guy should not approach from back because she might get scared/get cortisol spike or whatever. But it doesn't seem like it applies here: she supposedly already knows who is behind her back and moving in front of her feels like putting too much effort.

I'm thinking:

1. start by light touch (not much reaction is expected, but she might get more comfortable with something more)
2. then say something to her ear while still being behind her back

Pullup beside her not directly facing

Shoulder to shoulder, and nod and wait for her to give ioi

Both approaching from front and back is creepy

 

[aphoria]

Pullup beside her not directly facing

Shoulder to shoulder, and nod and wait for her to give ioi

Both approaching from front and back is creepy

Why nod?

 

[OldRooster]

. But it doesn't seem like it applies here: she supposedly already knows who is behind her back and moving in front of her feels like putting too much effort.

I agree with this thought process in a club situation. Of course there is always the possibility of crashing and burning

 

[aphoria]

Just stumbled upon Mystery touching precisely this.


Main takeaways:
* ape females use the same tactics (putting her back onto alpha ape 5-8 feet away in front of him)
* Tapping on shoulder is fine. Is she wasn't expecting it she would be like wtf? Else you have confirmation.