Gossiping about others

[johnny4612]

Do people who gossip and talk bad about others indirectly convince others that they are of higher value and that the people they talk bad about are of lower value? I see men do it a lot, and they say it's a female and sick trait.

Now I could search online and get results like this is a sick and bad trait.
But what does the blackpill say?

Tell us the truth

 

[KekLord]

God it's so gay to gossip

 

[Healthymaxxer]

God it's so gay to gossip

bro, most of the popular guys gossip and say that we, the loners are gay.

 

[They_are_all_whores]

bro, most of the popular guys gossip and say that we, the loners are gay.

God it's so gay to gossip

The popular guys are the ones who make the rules then break them then shame iu for it

Rule for thee not me

 

[Healthymaxxer]

Gossiping is a way to boost a groups status or just they dont have any other things to talk abgout so they talk about other people-

 

[KekLord]

bro, most of the popular guys gossip and say that we, the loners are gay.

Woah woah, who said I was a loner you faggot. You better watch your God damn tounge around me.

 

[BecomingHuman]

Yes, they convince others that they are better.

Also gossiping is a tool to exclude someone or prevent someone from joining the social group when it would be disadvantageous to your position.

 

[BecomingHuman]

But mostly to increase your status and get unearned status and resources from the group.

 

[BecomingHuman]

Basically standart power struggle: Gossip when it's advantageous to you, but shame gossiping when it's disadvantageous to you.

 

[Smirky]

I hate gossip, It's so annoying to hear people do it

 

[johnny4612]

@BecomingHuman

The more I hear that "it's gay to gossip" the more I see these men in long term relationships, who wet other pussies who are only there to gossip with them.

At this point it seems more like a quality. I don't know how a woman reacts to this, but if we are supposed to look at a woman's actions and not what she says, she likes to gossip about other people with this guy.

Then it is used as you yourself said to control the status of the social group and to include or exclude people.

 

[BecomingHuman]

@BecomingHuman

The more I hear that "it's gay to gossip" the more I see these men in long term relationships, who wet other pussies who are only there to gossip with them.

At this point it seems more like a quality. I don't know how a woman reacts to this, but if we are supposed to look at a woman's actions and not what she says, she likes to gossip about other people with this guy.

Then it is used as you yourself said to control the status of the social group and to include or exclude people.

Oh right. Men gossip with women about other men to remove competition. They know that they can't compete with value so they spread lies.

But when they are in relationship they continue gossiping because these naive stupid women who believe in their lies actually love drama and feeling of power that comes with gossiping.

 

[johnny4612]

Oh right. Men gossip with women about other men to remove competition. They know that they can't compete with value so they spread lies.

But when they are in relationship they continue gossiping because these naive stupid women who believe in their lies actually love drama and feeling of power that comes with gossiping.

Good point mate!
Do you think that would attract a healthy woman in the first instance?

 

[smartstyle]

Do people who gossip and talk bad about others indirectly convince others that they are of higher value and that the people they talk bad about are of lower value? I see men do it a lot, and they say it's a female and sick trait.

Now I could search online and get results like this is a sick and bad trait.
But what does the blackpill say?

Tell us the truth

Gossiping is not actually about the person you are gossiping its about you and the person you are talking with. It doesn't actually matter what people tell about you, when they discuss you - they do it to make connections with each other.

Gossiping is not a sign of a good tone, but there is no depth behind it most of the time, people just have a theme to discuss.

Mark this as solution, rep me.

 

[Deleted member 110192]

Do people who gossip and talk bad about others indirectly convince others that they are of higher value and that the people they talk bad about are of lower value? I see men do it a lot, and they say it's a female and sick trait.

Now I could search online and get results like this is a sick and bad trait.
But what does the blackpill say?

Tell us the truth

Wow I love gossiping man

 

[johnny4612]

Gossiping is not actually about the person you are gossiping its about you and the person you are talking with

This is why women love these men who gossip: it's a way to feel understood (because it's in a woman's nature to gossip)

 

[extrter]

Do people who gossip and talk bad about others indirectly convince others that they are of higher value and that the people they talk bad about are of lower value? I see men do it a lot, and they say it's a female and sick trait.

Now I could search online and get results like this is a sick and bad trait.
But what does the blackpill say?

Tell us the truth

this thread is ironic, majority of replies here are individuals gossiping about how they "hate" people who gossip.