Got plans for my first tinder date on friday. Asking for advice.

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She is not vaccinated, so there is no place in Germany where I could go for drinks with her.
So I suggested going for a walk (she lives in about 15 minutes walking distance from where I live) and meeting in private after that, and she is fine with it. (She might flake though. She didn't seem very emotionally invested in texts.:feelswhy:)

Question 1:
She plays league of legends. What do you guys think about asking her to play a few games so we can get to know each other before we meet up in person?:unsure:
Killyourinnerloser advises against chatting until the meetup (https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-3/#28-texting-in-the-days-leading-up-to-the-date).
After re-reading the article, I think it is best to not invite her to play. But what are your thoughts on this?

My expectations for this girl are 0:blackpill:. Sure I'd like to bang her, but I would not be surprised at all if she flakes or is not into me. I am bloated af at 16%bf.
My autism showed during the conversation and she even asked me if I am a bot:lul: (I copied this tinder template: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-3/), but surprisingly she agreed to meet up anyway (She could just be leading me on).

Question 2:
I plan to prepare for the date with phenibut, cialis, dick pump, a fresh hair cut, and some fragrance. Of course I'll wear the best style I can, black skinny jeans, black t-shirt, black leather jacket, white stan smiths, steel chain, two rings and a watch.
Do you have any other advice to be more NT? I am giga autist. I hope the phenibut helps and does not kill my liver because I am on anavar.

My goals for the date are to greet her with a hug, hold her hand while walking and invite her to my place after a while. The weather forecast is about 6°C, some wind and a low chance of rain, so we'll likely not walk for longer than 30-60 mins because it is too cold.
I don't want the walk duration to be too uncomfortable due to the temperature but I also don't want to scare her away by asking her to come to my place too early. So I worry about the right timing.

Question 3: Do you have any advise on how to time asking her to come to my place?

Ideally I'll bang her, but just meeting up with her and talking for a bit would be an upgrade from 0 dates.

Question 4:
How important is alcohol to get laid? I invited her for drinks, but I am on anavar and the last time I drank some cocktails during my last anavar cycle I felt liver pain a few days later and stopped taking anavar early (after 5 weeks, but I planned on taking for 8 weeks). I am in week 8 of my current anavar cycle and have not felt any liver pain, likely because I had 0 alcohol and supplemented with NAC and TUDCA.

If I offer her some alcohol to loosen her up, I'd be expected to drink too.
Question 5: (I know it is a giga autistic and classic PSL question)
Should I risk liver damage to get laid:lul:? What would you do:lul:?

I don't want to get off anavar because it makes me feel a lot more confident:) (I am still very self-conscious), and made me try tinder again with Andy's template.
If I was not on anavar I likely would not have tried tinder again, I re-installed the app 3 days ago.

I am genuinely asking for your advice, your suggestions and thoughts are appreciated.

@AlexAP, what are your thoughts?
 
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She will most likely ghost
 
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She will most likely ghost
Yes, that is the most likely scenario.
I'll just keep trying.
I can't really expect to get laid with a gl girl while I am at 16% bf.
 
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She plays league of legends
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do you have your own place?
then invite her for a drink(y)
 
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Yes, that is the most likely scenario.
I'll just keep trying.
I can't really expect to get laid with a gl girl while I am at 16% bf.
Eh I’m 22% body fat and have fucked GL girls

hell I lot my virginity to one and I was like 24%. Then again I’m not bloated that badly in the face and I have good skin
 
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>lean
>25-30% bf
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For women that’s actually lean… women cannot go below 12% so yes 20% body fat for a woman is very lean m also Estrogen helps distribute the fat in good places

for a man though
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Fuck all the stupid guides you’ve looked at, your legit meeting another person, you may not even like her, go into it like you would hanging out with a friend and enjoy it ffs
 
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@AlexAP, what are your thoughts?
Don't overthink it. I sometimes planned exactly what I wanted to say but then said weird stuff instead, but she didn't stand up and leave lol. Just look good and try to have normal, non-forced conversations, the nervousness will go away with experience.

Also don't drink alcohol if you don't want to.
 
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She is not vaccinated, so there is no place in Germany where I could go for drinks with her.
So I suggested going for a walk (she lives in about 15 minutes walking distance from where I live) and meeting in private after that, and she is fine with it. (She might flake though. She didn't seem very emotionally invested in texts.:feelswhy:)

Question 1:
She plays league of legends. What do you guys think about asking her to play a few games so we can get to know each other before we meet up in person?:unsure:
Killyourinnerloser advises against chatting until the meetup (https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-3/#28-texting-in-the-days-leading-up-to-the-date).
After re-reading the article, I think it is best to not invite her to play. But what are your thoughts on this?

My expectations for this girl are 0:blackpill:. Sure I'd like to bang her, but I would not be surprised at all if she flakes or is not into me. I am bloated af at 16%bf.
My autism showed during the conversation and she even asked me if I am a bot:lul: (I copied this tinder template: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-3/), but surprisingly she agreed to meet up anyway (She could just be leading me on).

Question 2:
I plan to prepare for the date with phenibut, cialis, dick pump, a fresh hair cut, and some fragrance. Of course I'll wear the best style I can, black skinny jeans, black t-shirt, black leather jacket, white stan smiths, steel chain, two rings and a watch.
Do you have any other advice to be more NT? I am giga autist. I hope the phenibut helps and does not kill my liver because I am on anavar.

My goals for the date are to greet her with a hug, hold her hand while walking and invite her to my place after a while. The weather forecast is about 6°C, some wind and a low chance of rain, so we'll likely not walk for longer than 30-60 mins because it is too cold.
I don't want the walk duration to be too uncomfortable due to the temperature but I also don't want to scare her away by asking her to come to my place too early. So I worry about the right timing.

Question 3: Do you have any advise on how to time asking her to come to my place?

Ideally I'll bang her, but just meeting up with her and talking for a bit would be an upgrade from 0 dates.

Question 4:
How important is alcohol to get laid? I invited her for drinks, but I am on anavar and the last time I drank some cocktails during my last anavar cycle I felt liver pain a few days later and stopped taking anavar early (after 5 weeks, but I planned on taking for 8 weeks). I am in week 8 of my current anavar cycle and have not felt any liver pain, likely because I had 0 alcohol and supplemented with NAC and TUDCA.

If I offer her some alcohol to loosen her up, I'd be expected to drink too.
Question 5: (I know it is a giga autistic and classic PSL question)
Should I risk liver damage to get laid:lul:? What would you do:lul:?

I don't want to get off anavar because it makes me feel a lot more confident:) (I am still very self-conscious), and made me try tinder again with Andy's template.
If I was not on anavar I likely would not have tried tinder again, I re-installed the app 3 days ago.

I am genuinely asking for your advice, your suggestions and thoughts are appreciated.

@AlexAP, what are your thoughts?
 
just ensure that you are 6'3 prior to the date (height fraud if you arent - eg height boots + 3'' and then all 3 layers of 3'' lifts for a total of 3' + 3' = 6'' boost in height.
also ensure you arent ugly prior to the date (avoid being ugly by getting plastic surgery - eg an osteotomy of implants. alternatively, you can ensure that your masseter is hypertrophied with excessive chewing/mewing and that you are low bf).
on the date, ask the grill lots of questions about herself. also, you can lie and talk about how many rapper concerts you've been to. (ensure that the rappers you talk about is swarthy at the very least or black. this proves you arent a racist bigot. however, note, DO NOT sing the rap songs of ethnic rappers, especially if you are white, as that is racist and cultural appropriation).
 
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Find a place. That accepts unvaxxed like her.
She be a bit impressed maybe by that.
I shows, you bend the rules to your liking. Instead of being a government cuck.
 
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Always play it by ear. If you prepare, she'll know and think its a sign of desperation or the works of a playa.
 
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She is not vaccinated, so there is no place in Germany where I could go for drinks with her.
So I suggested going for a walk (she lives in about 15 minutes walking distance from where I live) and meeting in private after that, and she is fine with it. (She might flake though. She didn't seem very emotionally invested in texts.:feelswhy:)

Question 1:
She plays league of legends. What do you guys think about asking her to play a few games so we can get to know each other before we meet up in person?:unsure:
Killyourinnerloser advises against chatting until the meetup (https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-3/#28-texting-in-the-days-leading-up-to-the-date).
After re-reading the article, I think it is best to not invite her to play. But what are your thoughts on this?

My expectations for this girl are 0:blackpill:. Sure I'd like to bang her, but I would not be surprised at all if she flakes or is not into me. I am bloated af at 16%bf.
My autism showed during the conversation and she even asked me if I am a bot:lul: (I copied this tinder template: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-3/), but surprisingly she agreed to meet up anyway (She could just be leading me on).

Question 2:
I plan to prepare for the date with phenibut, cialis, dick pump, a fresh hair cut, and some fragrance. Of course I'll wear the best style I can, black skinny jeans, black t-shirt, black leather jacket, white stan smiths, steel chain, two rings and a watch.
Do you have any other advice to be more NT? I am giga autist. I hope the phenibut helps and does not kill my liver because I am on anavar.

My goals for the date are to greet her with a hug, hold her hand while walking and invite her to my place after a while. The weather forecast is about 6°C, some wind and a low chance of rain, so we'll likely not walk for longer than 30-60 mins because it is too cold.
I don't want the walk duration to be too uncomfortable due to the temperature but I also don't want to scare her away by asking her to come to my place too early. So I worry about the right timing.

Question 3: Do you have any advise on how to time asking her to come to my place?

Ideally I'll bang her, but just meeting up with her and talking for a bit would be an upgrade from 0 dates.

Question 4:
How important is alcohol to get laid? I invited her for drinks, but I am on anavar and the last time I drank some cocktails during my last anavar cycle I felt liver pain a few days later and stopped taking anavar early (after 5 weeks, but I planned on taking for 8 weeks). I am in week 8 of my current anavar cycle and have not felt any liver pain, likely because I had 0 alcohol and supplemented with NAC and TUDCA.

If I offer her some alcohol to loosen her up, I'd be expected to drink too.
Question 5: (I know it is a giga autistic and classic PSL question)
Should I risk liver damage to get laid:lul:? What would you do:lul:?

I don't want to get off anavar because it makes me feel a lot more confident:) (I am still very self-conscious), and made me try tinder again with Andy's template.
If I was not on anavar I likely would not have tried tinder again, I re-installed the app 3 days ago.

I am genuinely asking for your advice, your suggestions and thoughts are appreciated.

@AlexAP, what are your thoughts?
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