Got told to fuck off from a girl i cold approached half an hour ago

If walking up to random women without any signs from them isn't cold approaching, what is it then? Hard approaching? Nightmare difficulty approaching? Hot approaching?


I'm fucking with you, you are dumb as hell, but I'm dropping it here.
I read this entire convo, overall I agree with you but that point about men falling in love and women not (or at least being less likely to) over a ONS is complete rubbish. Woman release bonding chemicals during intercourse which is why they catch feelings. For men, it's far easier and likely to just sleep with a women and then move on.
 
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F that B in the A
 
I read this entire convo, overall I agree with you but that point about men falling in love and women not (or at least being less likely to) over a ONS is complete rubbish. Woman release bonding chemicals during intercourse which is why they catch feelings. For men, it's far easier and likely to just sleep with a women and then move on.

I just think women can be far more colder than men, just my personal experience. I think the women that catch feelings weren't being true with their intentions whereas the technical escort brain can actually turn her emotions off and get what she wants out of sex, sex.
 
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I just think women can be far more colder than men, just my personal experience. I think the women that catch feelings weren't being true with their intentions whereas the technical escort brain can actually turn her emotions off and get what she wants out of sex, sex.
> The ensuing findings indicate that women showed higher OT levels than men. To our knowledge, this is one of the first demonstrations of a clear-cut difference in peripheral OT between the two sexes in humans.

 
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Yeah, I definitely think women have the edge in being cold.

Think about it, what's the worst you can say to a woman? I never loved you? I fucked your sister? I was never attracted to you?

And the woman? "Your dick is small" "johnny fucked me better" "I never got over my first love"

The stuff said by the woman is bound to get her killed by even the seemingly "stable" man. lol The woman in response to the insults of the man will be hurt or scorned at the worst, she can move on.



Just think about it, fuckers can't even deal with not marrying a virgin. LOL They have to be the only dick she has had? Fuckers don't want to know about previous boyfriends. Guys scared to bring their woman around some men.

Nah, we must accept men are the emotional ones. Men will go to war for a woman, a woman would move on.
 
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Sitting at a park just staring at people, and aggressively saying fuck off. Probably got some issues tbh
 
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> The ensuing findings indicate that women showed higher OT levels than men. To our knowledge, this is one of the first demonstrations of a clear-cut difference in peripheral OT between the two sexes in humans.

I see your point, and I agree. I wouldn't argue against the biological differences, it's just, my personal experiences suggests women can be more cold. And to that, I'm not sure what you present negates that, but it does negate that women can be less detached during sex, and that I wouldn't have argued against as I know nothing about that.
 
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Definitions are irrelevant, this isn't cope, put simply "definition fallacy".
Bro, you're the one who got all butthurt about the definition and wanted to leave the conversation. I just pointed out that your definition is retarded since no one uses the phrase "cold approach" like you do.

So deal with this argument: Does an IOI increase the chance of success with an approach? And would walking up to a woman without any IOI decrease the chance of success with an approach?
No shit. We've circled around to the beginning of the argument, though. The point that I already made is that hot girls are not going to ioi you out of nowhere without you initiating first. That's why I initiate by staring, standing closer than normal, making passing comments, etc. If hot girls are doing double takes when you enter stores, great. I guess you're a gigachad. Not really relevant to 99% of guys for whom girls will not initiate iois like this.
 
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Oxcytocin, the chemical that controls sexual arousal, recognition, trust, romantic attachment etc. is more prominent in women than men during intercourse, hence why men can sleep around more easily
 
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Bro, you're the one who got all butthurt about the definition and wanted to leave the conversation. I just pointed out that your definition is retarded since no one uses the phrase "cold approach" like you do.


No shit. We've circled around to the beginning of the argument, though. The point that I already made is that hot girls are not going to ioi you out of nowhere without you initiating first. That's why I initiate by staring, standing closer than normal, making passing comments, etc. If hot girls are doing double takes when you enter stores, great. I guess you're a gigachad. Not really relevant to 99% of guys for whom girls will not initiate iois like this.
Perfect, you seem redeemable. Now check this out, definitions are irrelevant, to an extent. We need to communicate, we have language, within that language, we have distinctions. Distinctions allow us to differentiate between a goal and a miss. Because, if the ball goes in, that's a goal, and if the ball doesn't go in, that's a miss. See where I'm going? I think your definition is incoherent due to the physical difference being the outcome. With an IOI, higher chance, without an IOI, lower chance. I call without an IOI "cold approach", you call with an IOI "cold approach". See this can't work because there is a physical, the outcome.

You are essentially saying 0-50% = 50-100% chance, or that goal = miss.



Now you can call any other philosophy bro, this is clear as day. Suck my dick.
 
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Oxcytocin, the chemical that controls sexual arousal, recognition, trust, romantic attachment etc. is more prominent in women than men during intercourse, hence why men can sleep around more easily
So does OT levels tell about bonding or just sexual arousal
 
So does OT levels tell about bonding or just sexual arousal
Bonding. That's why you always hear about girls "catching feelings" when they sleep around it's because of the chemicals the body releases.

Even though I don't think men should sleep around with a bunch of girls, it's far easier for us to do that and not get attached like they do.
 
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Bonding. That's why you always hear about girls "catching feelings" when they sleep around it's because of the chemicals the body releases.

Even though I don't think men should sleep around with a bunch of girls, it's far easier for us to do that and not get attached like they do.
How often they catch feelings tho
 
How often they catch feelings tho
I think often tbh. It's definitely a real thing, I know of many woman who have a one night stand and get attached.
 
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I think often tbh. It's definitely a real thing, I know of many woman who have a one night stand and get attached.
Maybe the guys where attractive and they would had catched feelings wkrhout sex too
 
I think often tbh. It's definitely a real thing, I know of many woman who have a one night stand and get attached.
See, for me, this is the opposite. I'm black, I know women who are high earning, 40+, they sleep with a ton of men, even travel to do it, and have no intentions of marriage.
 
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See, for me, this is the opposite. I'm black, I know women who are high earning, 40+, they sleep with a ton of men, even travel to do it, and have no intentions of marriage.
Might be that younger girls with higher hormone levels get attached easier
 
first 100 approaches are warm up
 
One of the most brutal rejections ive ever had when it comes to foid. She was sitting at a park just staring at people. I walked up to her and wanted to chat a bit, only to get told to fuck off with a violent tone. I almost pissed myself cuz of the way she said that, so i went home again and started to think what the fuck just happened.
The first 5000 approaches are just a warm-up, bro!
 
See, for me, this is the opposite. I'm black, I know women who are high earning, 40+, they sleep with a ton of men, even travel to do it, and have no intentions of marriage.
That's different. They are fried at that age with 0 ability to pair bond. I'm on about younger people
 
@New Poster has talked.


My forum big brother, what would you think of me if I said that I once cold approached someone with a noticeable hard on, the middle of the street.

It was rather embarrassing sort of but I got the phone number.
 
Might be that younger girls with higher hormone levels get attached easier

I think there are younger women who know what they want in a man, can have sex with men that don't fit the criteria, and never get attached to them, specifically. It's like, I agree with your side, I just think we are talking about different women, so I think your generalization applies, but not to the specific women I'm thinking about.
 
That's different. They are fried at that age with 0 ability to pair bond. I'm on about younger people
Yeah, I realize that, see my most recent post.
 
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Take this blackpill: If you're good looking you care less about rejection. Because u know y look good so you're like fuck u hag I look nice. But if you are not gl yours is reinforcing the idea that you're not gl.
 
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Take this blackpill: If you're good looking you care less about rejection. Because u know y look good so you're like fuck u hag I look nice. But if you are not gl yours is reinforcing the idea that you're not gl.

You have to "know" you are good looking though... I had to laugh considering the site we are on. In general, you are right though. I think only models know they are good looking, average people are delusional, and people in the middle are on this website or doing other crazy shit.
 
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Take this blackpill: If you're good looking you care less about rejection. Because u know y look good so you're like fuck u hag I look nice. But if you are not gl yours is reinforcing the idea that you're not gl.
True. Chads get rejected, laugh at the woman in her face, and move onto the next knowing he has no issues. Incels get SUICIDAL over one rejection JFL
 
You have to "know" you are good looking though... I had to laugh considering the site we are on. In general, you are right though. I think only models know they are good looking, average people are delusional, and people in the middle are on this website or doing other crazy shit.
Wdym avg people are delusional? Women are 100% yes, but average men are definitely not delusional, they know they are mediocre
 
Wdym avg people are delusional? Women are 100% yes, but average men are definitely not delusional, they know they are mediocre
Yeah, women. Men find out quick.
 
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@New Poster has talked.


My forum big brother, what would you think of me if I said that I once cold approached someone with a noticeable hard on, the middle of the street.

It was rather embarrassing sort of but I got the phone number.
Mirin erection strength if you were popping a noticeable tent while standing up

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You have to "know" you are good looking though... I had to laugh considering the site we are on. In general, you are right though. I think only models know they are good looking, average people are delusional, and people in the middle are on this website or doing other crazy shit.
Normies want to believe they have more qualities than they do. I've seen it too much. It's more comforting. Weather this is true or not remains a different history. Your delusional assessment can be correct.

It would be safe to assume that good looking people know they are because of the amount of compliments they would receive. Nearly deformed roidcels hijack this effect as muscle praise would be translated into compliments = good looks. = equaling delusional as u said my greycel
 
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Normies want to believe they have more qualities than they do. I've seen it too much. It's more comforting. Weather this is true or not remains a different history. Your delusional assessment can be correct.

It would be safe to assume that good looking people know they are because of the amount of compliments they would receive. Nearly deformed roidcels hijack this effect as muscle praise would be translated into compliments = good looks. = equaling delusional as u said my greycel
I should have said "how attractive", so, yeah, with the compliments you can get the idea you are good looking, but I think you will always struggle with the "how" unless you are hailed often as universally attractive, models.
 
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@RAITEIII

Actually, I'm speaking for myself. I don't know "how attractive" I really am, I also don't want to fuck around and find out. So I just drift left and right on my opinion day by day. But I have been getting better, ironically, since coming here.
 
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“The worst she can do is say no”
 
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Translation: only mid girls approach you and not hot ones... yeah, that's the point I was making. Sure, if I wanted to date a girl below my league, I could just wait around to be approached. But I like hot girls that are younger than me, so I'll keep hitting them up.
Hot girls approach no one lmao
 
Hot girls approach no one lmao
Yeah, I can't remember the last time I've seen a legit hot girl approach anyone. I'll have mid-tier girls approach me and give me numbers, but never anyone above a 5/10. I'm sure it happens in the right circumstances, though. It's just never going to happen to sub-chads.
 
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Hot girls approach no one lmao
Last stacylite model p in v approached me inna club but it was her gay friend who gave her the push and then she grabbed my arm and we started talking and making out
Even my friend was confused asf

W gay wingman
If not for him, I was actually nervous to approach her jfl both of us feeling the same thing

But yeah most of the time, on their own accord, dont expect it
 
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well its not for getting foids, its for training myself to become less inhib and better at convo skills with foids. Check this thread if ur curious
All you're training yourself to be is more aspie but you don't have the intellect to grasp that.
 
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r u afraid of fcking foids or what, just slap her dude
 
I honestly see cold approaching (approach without IOI) as morally wrong, especially with how crazy people are today.
I'm going to play a saxophone for you
 
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So you're so attractive you catch hot women doing double takes in stores? You know, I live in southern california -- land of the chads -- and women walk past legit 8/10 guys like they're nothing. But you, incel mcshitposter, get hot girls double taking at your aesthetics? Okay, cool.

And, for the record, all women are sluts and like sex. Lol at this madonna/whore complex shit.
Come to pacific beach this weekend
 
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@RAITEIII

Actually, I'm speaking for myself. I don't know "how attractive" I really am, I also don't want to fuck around and find out. So I just drift left and right on my opinion day by day. But I have been getting better, ironically, since coming here.
There's a very weird phenomenon and it's that once you're past redcel you agree with all redcels in almost everything. It's like suddenly you know your shit.

So do not do worrisome. Eventually you'll be "based". This forum cured my BDD lol it skyrocketed it and cured it. Now I'm fully stable on what I think of myself overall and I'm not fluctuating between delusions.
 
One of the most brutal rejections ive ever had when it comes to foid. She was sitting at a park just staring at people. I walked up to her and wanted to chat a bit, only to get told to fuck off with a violent tone. I almost pissed myself cuz of the way she said that, so i went home again and started to think what the fuck just happened.
Just cold approach 30 eormn and get brutally rejected to fuck some ltb theory maybe while you can get a htb for 150 dollars
 
Just cold approach 30 eormn and get brutally rejected to fuck some ltb theory maybe while you can get a htb for 150 dollars
I am soon used to it, feels better now. My inhibness is pretty low rn as i went out and talked to 2 more!
 
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I got rejected infront of the class. I confessed my feeling in front of stacy and chad, she got so embarassed It was the most brutal feeling of shame I have ever had in my life. Since then I haven't in at girls in the eyes anymore.
 
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For people it happens often to, it's fucking annoying. Think about it, you don't know them, so why are you walking up to them? It's entirely looks based, so if you're not exceptionally good looking, expect people to be startled and annoyed.

Cold approaching is low IQ unless you are exceptionally attractive, and even then, it's fucking stupid and I'm going to explain why. If I'm attracted to a woman, I simply put myself in her view, if she gives the signs, I approach. If you are attractive, that is one the easiest fucking ways to get women, it's like cheat code status. Cold approaching, especially as a man, is dumb because the women know you are interested primarily in their looks because you don't know them, the women don't know if you are even safe, they don't know what will happen when they say "no". I mean, bro, try to pretend you are a weak and small woman and some random walks up to you for a number or some shit, you know MOST men aren't smooth, so just think about how alarming that is.
I've mainly only met foids by approaching
 

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