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Sick of being an over thinking neurotic anxiety ridden freak out machine over a basic interaction with a stranger? Want to be able to approach literally anyone with zero fear? This shit is for you man.
When i was in my late teens i was a a giga introvert high inhib social anxiety dude and through the years ive adapted my perspective and thought patterns and changed and rewired my brain as it relates to social interactions. Now i already know some fuck wit is gonna comment oh just take this or that, does alcohol and busiprone help with social interactions SHORT term? Yeah it does, but alcohol nukes health, test levels, sleep, looks overall and busiprone got all kinds of other issues ESPECIALLY if taken long term, same with benzos and so on.
SO whats the natural guide here. Become retarded. there you go, easy.
Okay being srs now, here is the truth... you cant overthink... if you dont think. Let me explain
Think of some of the dumbest dudes you've met in your life as it relates to social interaction, almost all of them are two things. High test and socially confident, want to know why? For the test sides of things, these dudes dont stress about fucking anything lol they are just permanently in the moment, they have basically zero cortisol thus meaning the worst thing in general for nuking your test levels is non existent for those dudes they're just being dumb and happy and in the moment in their day to day life not giving a shit about anything.
This is where their social confidence comes from too, actually dumb people, they literally don't give a fuck what anyone thinks about them so they are just freely themselves... and guess what, people end up fucking LIKING them.
Think back to college and high school, the fucking austist giga over thinkers were seen as weird and nerd like, but the dumb social dude was fucking beloved wanna know why? He was AUTHENTIC, the dude was just himself literally non stop no matter who the fuck he was around even if he was a bit of a dickhead or a bit weird people STILL fucking liked him lol
MEGA Truth Pill - Think how many people love the worst of the worst people if they are super authentic, ya'll know the saying an honest enemy is better than a fake friend? Its true as FUCK, there is a popular video on YT about some white racist dude dropping the n bomb and all sorts being interviewed by a black dude and guess what the comments are filled with? Black people typing shit like - at least this dude is honest i actually dont mind him... looooolll dude, they would take that over some fake closested racist any day of the week.... ANYWAY
What am i getting at with all this shit? HOW do you actually do it, I'm not telling you to ACTUALLY become dumb lol You need to quiet your brain as it relates to anything that causes your brain to go spazz out mode.
You think cold approachers are out here like 'ohhh shit what if she thinks my left eye canthal tilt is 4.7 degrees slightly off balance' fuck no man, most cold approach dudes are HTN, HTN's still got a decent number of flaws but they dont let it stop them, they might not be pulling stacys but they still wind up getting pussy with girls on a similar level or maybe even slightly below level with decent bodies and lets be real most dudes dont mind a girl with an average face if the body is hot.
The savage truth - Consistent brain rewiring - In order to become low inhib you got to train your mind, like i said quiet the thoughts and ignore them. If you see someone you want to talk to just go and speak to them and ignore any thoughts that put you off, thats it literally just ignore the thoughts and whats going to happen with time? The more you do this eventually you'll just not even have any worrying thoughts about approaching anyone ever, your brain will come to realise there is no danger and it was all just fake overthinking wired in patterns. NOW!
Before some fucker goes on about a girl publicly embarrasing you with rejection and shit you DON'T do that shit early when youre a high inhib freak out machine, youll say 4 words to her and have a damn heart attack also dont be approaching some stacy lite when youre a fucking LTN, we are trying to quiet our thoughts here not GENUINELY be retarded lol
If youre high inhib do not start off speaking to girls, start off speaking to old dudes since ya'll are into that lol its just to increase general social confidence and for brain rewiring to ignore those freak out thoughts.
Start off small, speak to a random old dude in the grocery store about random shit he is buying, shit man talk to him about any odd dull thing, it doesnt matter what its about, what matters is youre training your brain to not overthink and worry about basic ass conversations. To just go in and chat about any random ass topic, then move on. Keep talking to random people about shit briefly, if they seem busy or in a rush just be friendly and let em go. The point is youre literally training yourself out of being high inhib, it is possible.
The oh its genetic shit is the biggest cope literally ever man, i was giga autist introvert my whole life until i started this, now im friends with half my damn gym and speak to them on a regular basis when i run into them, yes this includes fairly hot girls, I'd go into stories with them lol but im real friendly with one lets say and another its going real good with but look man, I care about you fuckers on here I want to see you do better in life, the trolling shit on here is funny and shit and i love it too but when its all said and done I wanna see you pyschos become your best.
Finally with the women approaches, Only approach at your level or below and only do it once youre general social confidence has been trained to reasonable levels where you can maintain and have a good conversations, theres a zillion guides on what and how to talk to people on youtube, this post is more about quieting your thoughts causing high inhib anxiety about speaking to people.
I may be a greycel but i been lurking forever im also an older dude compared to most of you on here and i didnt get started on my journey to look better later in life but even without all that shit i was chadlite for a couple years when i was younger like 20 - 23 then nuked myself for a good number of years after with retarded choices but past 2 or so years i managed to get to HTN again thank fuck lol I got tons of crazy stories but I might post and talk about them cause from what i gather almost no one on this forum is my age, old fucker i may be but a wise fucker i am also. If you want some stacy stories from my prime i got some super black pill ones I can share, fuck I miss those days man, being a but of an older HTN i still do not bad but those prime days were something else.
When i was in my late teens i was a a giga introvert high inhib social anxiety dude and through the years ive adapted my perspective and thought patterns and changed and rewired my brain as it relates to social interactions. Now i already know some fuck wit is gonna comment oh just take this or that, does alcohol and busiprone help with social interactions SHORT term? Yeah it does, but alcohol nukes health, test levels, sleep, looks overall and busiprone got all kinds of other issues ESPECIALLY if taken long term, same with benzos and so on.
SO whats the natural guide here. Become retarded. there you go, easy.
Okay being srs now, here is the truth... you cant overthink... if you dont think. Let me explain
Think of some of the dumbest dudes you've met in your life as it relates to social interaction, almost all of them are two things. High test and socially confident, want to know why? For the test sides of things, these dudes dont stress about fucking anything lol they are just permanently in the moment, they have basically zero cortisol thus meaning the worst thing in general for nuking your test levels is non existent for those dudes they're just being dumb and happy and in the moment in their day to day life not giving a shit about anything.
This is where their social confidence comes from too, actually dumb people, they literally don't give a fuck what anyone thinks about them so they are just freely themselves... and guess what, people end up fucking LIKING them.
Think back to college and high school, the fucking austist giga over thinkers were seen as weird and nerd like, but the dumb social dude was fucking beloved wanna know why? He was AUTHENTIC, the dude was just himself literally non stop no matter who the fuck he was around even if he was a bit of a dickhead or a bit weird people STILL fucking liked him lol
MEGA Truth Pill - Think how many people love the worst of the worst people if they are super authentic, ya'll know the saying an honest enemy is better than a fake friend? Its true as FUCK, there is a popular video on YT about some white racist dude dropping the n bomb and all sorts being interviewed by a black dude and guess what the comments are filled with? Black people typing shit like - at least this dude is honest i actually dont mind him... looooolll dude, they would take that over some fake closested racist any day of the week.... ANYWAY
What am i getting at with all this shit? HOW do you actually do it, I'm not telling you to ACTUALLY become dumb lol You need to quiet your brain as it relates to anything that causes your brain to go spazz out mode.
You think cold approachers are out here like 'ohhh shit what if she thinks my left eye canthal tilt is 4.7 degrees slightly off balance' fuck no man, most cold approach dudes are HTN, HTN's still got a decent number of flaws but they dont let it stop them, they might not be pulling stacys but they still wind up getting pussy with girls on a similar level or maybe even slightly below level with decent bodies and lets be real most dudes dont mind a girl with an average face if the body is hot.
The savage truth - Consistent brain rewiring - In order to become low inhib you got to train your mind, like i said quiet the thoughts and ignore them. If you see someone you want to talk to just go and speak to them and ignore any thoughts that put you off, thats it literally just ignore the thoughts and whats going to happen with time? The more you do this eventually you'll just not even have any worrying thoughts about approaching anyone ever, your brain will come to realise there is no danger and it was all just fake overthinking wired in patterns. NOW!
Before some fucker goes on about a girl publicly embarrasing you with rejection and shit you DON'T do that shit early when youre a high inhib freak out machine, youll say 4 words to her and have a damn heart attack also dont be approaching some stacy lite when youre a fucking LTN, we are trying to quiet our thoughts here not GENUINELY be retarded lol
If youre high inhib do not start off speaking to girls, start off speaking to old dudes
since ya'll are into that lol its just to increase general social confidence and for brain rewiring to ignore those freak out thoughts.Start off small, speak to a random old dude in the grocery store about random shit he is buying, shit man talk to him about any odd dull thing, it doesnt matter what its about, what matters is youre training your brain to not overthink and worry about basic ass conversations. To just go in and chat about any random ass topic, then move on. Keep talking to random people about shit briefly, if they seem busy or in a rush just be friendly and let em go. The point is youre literally training yourself out of being high inhib, it is possible.
The oh its genetic shit is the biggest cope literally ever man, i was giga autist introvert my whole life until i started this, now im friends with half my damn gym and speak to them on a regular basis when i run into them, yes this includes fairly hot girls, I'd go into stories with them lol but im real friendly with one lets say and another its going real good with but look man, I care about you fuckers on here I want to see you do better in life, the trolling shit on here is funny and shit and i love it too but when its all said and done I wanna see you pyschos become your best.
Finally with the women approaches, Only approach at your level or below and only do it once youre general social confidence has been trained to reasonable levels where you can maintain and have a good conversations, theres a zillion guides on what and how to talk to people on youtube, this post is more about quieting your thoughts causing high inhib anxiety about speaking to people.
I may be a greycel but i been lurking forever im also an older dude compared to most of you on here and i didnt get started on my journey to look better later in life but even without all that shit i was chadlite for a couple years when i was younger like 20 - 23 then nuked myself for a good number of years after with retarded choices but past 2 or so years i managed to get to HTN again thank fuck lol I got tons of crazy stories but I might post and talk about them cause from what i gather almost no one on this forum is my age, old fucker i may be but a wise fucker i am also. If you want some stacy stories from my prime i got some super black pill ones I can share, fuck I miss those days man, being a but of an older HTN i still do not bad but those prime days were something else.
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