Bizygomatic
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So about a month ago I made a thread here about switching cities. Well, a girl moved in right across from my apartment about a week ago and we've been having little chats almost every day since. She's 2 years older, actually went to the same place I'm studying at now, and we've got some stuff in common.
We talked again today. She asked for my Snapchat but I only use Instagram, and turns out she doesn't use Instagram at all, so that went nowhere. Didn't really matter though, we ended up talking for a good while anyway. She was giving off a ton of IOIs again.
Only issue was I'd just gotten back from class and was wiped out, so I told her I'd talk later, and honestly I probably sounded tired saying it. It's been 2 hours now. All our convos have been in person since she lives right across from me, not over text.
At some point I asked if she's into movies and she said "Noo I dont like movies haha ik that's boring." And the shows she watches, I just find them boring too. I was planning on inviting her over to watch something together but now I genuinely don't know what to put on since movies are off the table and I can't sit through her shows.
She did say she wants to hang out with me, that I should not hesitate to knock on her door whenever I'm free and should talk to her, and she's really pretty and nice, so I don't want to screw this up over something dumb like not knowing what to watch.
Questions: Should I talk to her now after leaving it 2 hours, or just wait for her to reach out first? Any ideas for something to watch or do together that doesn't depend on either of us liking movies or her shows?
We talked again today. She asked for my Snapchat but I only use Instagram, and turns out she doesn't use Instagram at all, so that went nowhere. Didn't really matter though, we ended up talking for a good while anyway. She was giving off a ton of IOIs again.
Only issue was I'd just gotten back from class and was wiped out, so I told her I'd talk later, and honestly I probably sounded tired saying it. It's been 2 hours now. All our convos have been in person since she lives right across from me, not over text.
At some point I asked if she's into movies and she said "Noo I dont like movies haha ik that's boring." And the shows she watches, I just find them boring too. I was planning on inviting her over to watch something together but now I genuinely don't know what to put on since movies are off the table and I can't sit through her shows.
She did say she wants to hang out with me, that I should not hesitate to knock on her door whenever I'm free and should talk to her, and she's really pretty and nice, so I don't want to screw this up over something dumb like not knowing what to watch.
Questions: Should I talk to her now after leaving it 2 hours, or just wait for her to reach out first? Any ideas for something to watch or do together that doesn't depend on either of us liking movies or her shows?
Neighbor girl (2 yrs older, same uni) has been talking to me daily for a week, all in person since she lives right across from me. Strong IOIs, told me to come by anytime. Told her I'd talk later after class (in person, not text) and it's been 2hrs. She doesn't like movies or share my taste in shows, so my "watch something together" plan is dead. Asking: should I go knock on her door now or wait, and what to do together instead of watching something.
Please read and reply, I explained the situation to my friend on discord over text and asked ai to put it together. Don't assume this is tales and even if you do i'd appreciate if you gave me advice.
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