Guide: should you prioritize looksmaxing or mental stuff ("game")?

[Wallenberg]

You get a lot IOIs from girls that you consider attractive but you don't have success with women? Prioritize mental stuff. Improving your looks is in 2nd place.

You don't get enough IOIs from girls you consider attractive? Focus on looksmaxing, improve your game is the 2nd priority.

Thank you for the Nobel prize.

@IwantToLooksMaxx

 

[Deleted]

No its all looks

 

[zikzog]

It's easy to do both, reach your max potential in both. I still think looksmaxing is more important because confidence comes from positive reinforcement and if you're told you're pretty then you'll be more confident too.

Also your looks increase your perceived confidence. Have you ever seen a girl describe an ugly guy as confident? No they describe them as 'cocky' or 'delusional'

I can see the point you're trying to make.

 

[Deleted member 9787]

yes

 

[Wallenberg]

It's easy to do both, reach your max potential in both. I still think looksmaxing is more important because confidence comes from positive reinforcement and if you're told you're pretty then you'll be more confident too.

Also your looks increase your perceived confidence. Have you ever seen a girl describe an ugly guy as confident? No they describe them as 'cocky' or 'delusional'

I can see the point you're trying to make.

Yep, in practice, you should max both.

But "mental cels" are truly real phenomena. @IwantToLooksMaxx is one.

 

[alligatordude]

No its all looks

What is it like to know that your girlfriend only like u for the superficial body u are in

that if u were to lose your hair she would be gone the next day

pretty brutal right

 

[Deleted]

What is it like to know that your girlfriend only like u for the superficial body u are in

that if u were to lose your hair she would be gone the next day

pretty brutal right

Not rly its mostly just satisfying seeing how turned on she got when i took my shirt of for the first time

Its the same for me thoigh i would leave her If she gained 10kg

 

[alligatordude]

Not rly its mostly just satisfying seeing how turned on she got when i took my shirt of for the first time

Its the same for me thoigh i would leave her If she gained 10kg

Based

how much do u weigh, ur just low bf% with decent muscle right

 

[zikzog]

Not rly its mostly just satisfying seeing how turned on she got when i took my shirt of for the first time

Its the same for me thoigh i would leave her If she gained 10kg

Say this -
"Babe, the scale says you gained a pound. You have to go, I don't date whales."

 

[Deleted]

Say this -
"Babe, the scale says you gained a pound. You have to go, I don't date whales."

She's lost weight since we met bcuz she said i put so much pressure on her bcuz of my low bf %

 

[zikzog]

She's lost weight since we met bcuz she said i put so much pressure on her bcuz of my low bf %

Nice, keep up the good bod.

 

[NarcyChadlite]

Just do both lmao. Softmaxxing requires minimal effort and can be implemented into your routine and hardmaxxes on the other hand would require you to save up money which is a long process. In the meantime just put yourself out there and become hyper-nt / good at game so that you get some insight on where you stand and dont end up roping when you realize that you arent treated as chad even after paying thousands for surgery jfl