Guide to highs school (A little all over the place)

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This is going to be my guide to highschool based off of my experience after my first week of school. First step if you are going to want to take the bus this for me has been very helpful whilst riding the bus you can either sit with someone random if bus is full which can complicate things or preferred method you can sit alone I am a bit nd myself so i can understand why someone might think this may portray yourself as a loser but the social dynamic on a bus is different than in a classroom or a lunch table sitting alone is acceptable and many prefer to sit alone. Now lets talk about if your bus is to full and you must sit with someone i would first say try to find someone you know or may be friends with on your bus and coordinate with them but if this is not possible then sit with someone who seems similar to you i am a 15 year old white male i would recommend sitting with someone who is about same age and race and gender this uncomplicates things a little. When you sit with them I would keep the talking to a minimum and if talking is forced keep it about topics that are immediatesuch as “Fuck we are going to be late today” rather than looking for a more depthful conversation as that could lead to them avoiding you later on or make the conversation go on longer than necessary . Next step along the day can either go really well or really poorly depending on how lucky you are with your bus if your bus is early which causes you to wander around this could be bad and in this case i would recommend going to the bathroom and avoiding people this way If your bus is slightly late or exactly when school starts there is no need to try to avoid socializing or overthink getting left out so you can just go to class. Okay we are finally at class here. I would always say pick near the middle of the back of class as you have less forced public interaction as in front of the class speaking as in questions and you have a higher chance of people sitting with you which would make you be perceived as less of a loser. Another thing to note is arriving right when class starts can be good so you don't have to guess if someone will sit with you. One thing I will note is to avoid arriving after class starts as that will bring attention to you which can be very bad. I would say overall try to keep eyes on you low so no one is watching to see you be a loser also this avoids chances of being bullied or taunted. My next step will be changing classes. My school has multiple buildings that have a courtyard in the middle so there is no main big building with hallways which doesn't much affect things except there are many different routes people are going so less of a crowd to blend in with. Whilst mentioning that I will say your biggest friend is going to be crowds they are great for you as they allow eyes off of you. Okay with there being many different classes and seating charts as the day goes on make sure to always be right at the end of the transition period again and sit with someone although make sure to always try to profile to find people like you so always same gender and race this keeps the chance of you having similar interests high although talking will be rare it is still good as this will allow you to avoid confrontation or embarrassment if you are sitting with a black women and for some reason watch a golf video there is a higher chance they judge you then a white male. While I am using white males as all my examples it stays for anyone you are likely not unique so you most likely don't deviate too far from typical traits of your type so this will again avoid confrontation. Sorry if this is very hard to follow. I am mentally walking myself through my day. The next thing I will touch on is lunch and this is my worst and hardest part of the day because finding people to sit with is hard and sitting alone at lunch is bad. I would recommend doing extensive research to find someone to sit with and this is not easily attainable so if you cannot i recommend going to the bathroom and eating later or going to the media center and also eating later. Next I will talk about the gym. This can be bad. You want to not be lazy but not try hard. You need to blend in. You might have already noticed this is a common theme. Make sure to wear a good deodorant so you do not smell and to not do anything at all that would set you apart. With this I will mention that in school hygiene is important smelling good looking well kept and looking clean. The biggest thing is acne. We all get grossed by acne whenever I see a girl with acne I get icked out so this is your biggest priority is to have good skin this will also ascend you but more from a blend in stand point this is important. Next make sure to have good breath. It doesn't need to be crazy good just not bad so it wont draw attention to you. Next I wear gym shoes and then switch to flops but because I don't want to smell I bring a dryer sheet and put it in my shoes to neutralize the smell. Next I will mention clothes this isn't that big of a deal you have a lot to work with but try to blend in see what most people wear and copy it dont try to follow online trends just be normal a good fitting shorts and tee shirt is good avoid over baggy clothes or to tight clothes as this can also draw attention to you or gross people out. Now I will talk about when you get home. I understand everyone needs friends so online friends can help a lot with the need for social interaction, aside from that as far as things like football games go, attending is fine but make sure you have someone to go with if you do not have any one do not go. My next topic is the gym I would say most people on here go to the gym so make sure you do to at the gym always wear headphone or airpods to make yourself seem approachable in between sets stay on what you are using and be on phone do lookup or leave as this can cause time for social interaction. A big help is to not wear deodorant to the gym as smelling will make people leave you alone although DO NOT try this at school. My final topic is going to be girls and I recommend against it overall me personally i have had a few relationships before and I know of 3 or 4 girls who currently like me and I would advise again contacting them or pursuing a relationship as this only causes drama and can give you more enemies at school which we do not want. Sorry if this is all over the place. I wrote this very late and not planned out but my biggest message to get through high school is to blend it and try to be as normal as possible and limit as much social interaction as possible without making yourself look like you have no friends.
SORRY IF THIS IS REALLY POORLY WRITTEN
 
This is going to be my guide to highschool based off of my experience after my first week of school. First step if you are going to want to take the bus this for me has been very helpful whilst riding the bus you can either sit with someone random if bus is full which can complicate things or preferred method you can sit alone I am a bit nd myself so i can understand why someone might think this may portray yourself as a loser but the social dynamic on a bus is different than in a classroom or a lunch table sitting alone is acceptable and many prefer to sit alone. Now lets talk about if your bus is to full and you must sit with someone i would first say try to find someone you know or may be friends with on your bus and coordinate with them but if this is not possible then sit with someone who seems similar to you i am a 15 year old white male i would recommend sitting with someone who is about same age and race and gender this uncomplicates things a little. When you sit with them I would keep the talking to a minimum and if talking is forced keep it about topics that are immediatesuch as “Fuck we are going to be late today” rather than looking for a more depthful conversation as that could lead to them avoiding you later on or make the conversation go on longer than necessary . Next step along the day can either go really well or really poorly depending on how lucky you are with your bus if your bus is early which causes you to wander around this could be bad and in this case i would recommend going to the bathroom and avoiding people this way If your bus is slightly late or exactly when school starts there is no need to try to avoid socializing or overthink getting left out so you can just go to class. Okay we are finally at class here. I would always say pick near the middle of the back of class as you have less forced public interaction as in front of the class speaking as in questions and you have a higher chance of people sitting with you which would make you be perceived as less of a loser. Another thing to note is arriving right when class starts can be good so you don't have to guess if someone will sit with you. One thing I will note is to avoid arriving after class starts as that will bring attention to you which can be very bad. I would say overall try to keep eyes on you low so no one is watching to see you be a loser also this avoids chances of being bullied or taunted. My next step will be changing classes. My school has multiple buildings that have a courtyard in the middle so there is no main big building with hallways which doesn't much affect things except there are many different routes people are going so less of a crowd to blend in with. Whilst mentioning that I will say your biggest friend is going to be crowds they are great for you as they allow eyes off of you. Okay with there being many different classes and seating charts as the day goes on make sure to always be right at the end of the transition period again and sit with someone although make sure to always try to profile to find people like you so always same gender and race this keeps the chance of you having similar interests high although talking will be rare it is still good as this will allow you to avoid confrontation or embarrassment if you are sitting with a black women and for some reason watch a golf video there is a higher chance they judge you then a white male. While I am using white males as all my examples it stays for anyone you are likely not unique so you most likely don't deviate too far from typical traits of your type so this will again avoid confrontation. Sorry if this is very hard to follow. I am mentally walking myself through my day. The next thing I will touch on is lunch and this is my worst and hardest part of the day because finding people to sit with is hard and sitting alone at lunch is bad. I would recommend doing extensive research to find someone to sit with and this is not easily attainable so if you cannot i recommend going to the bathroom and eating later or going to the media center and also eating later. Next I will talk about the gym. This can be bad. You want to not be lazy but not try hard. You need to blend in. You might have already noticed this is a common theme. Make sure to wear a good deodorant so you do not smell and to not do anything at all that would set you apart. With this I will mention that in school hygiene is important smelling good looking well kept and looking clean. The biggest thing is acne. We all get grossed by acne whenever I see a girl with acne I get icked out so this is your biggest priority is to have good skin this will also ascend you but more from a blend in stand point this is important. Next make sure to have good breath. It doesn't need to be crazy good just not bad so it wont draw attention to you. Next I wear gym shoes and then switch to flops but because I don't want to smell I bring a dryer sheet and put it in my shoes to neutralize the smell. Next I will mention clothes this isn't that big of a deal you have a lot to work with but try to blend in see what most people wear and copy it dont try to follow online trends just be normal a good fitting shorts and tee shirt is good avoid over baggy clothes or to tight clothes as this can also draw attention to you or gross people out. Now I will talk about when you get home. I understand everyone needs friends so online friends can help a lot with the need for social interaction, aside from that as far as things like football games go, attending is fine but make sure you have someone to go with if you do not have any one do not go. My next topic is the gym I would say most people on here go to the gym so make sure you do to at the gym always wear headphone or airpods to make yourself seem approachable in between sets stay on what you are using and be on phone do lookup or leave as this can cause time for social interaction. A big help is to not wear deodorant to the gym as smelling will make people leave you alone although DO NOT try this at school. My final topic is going to be girls and I recommend against it overall me personally i have had a few relationships before and I know of 3 or 4 girls who currently like me and I would advise again contacting them or pursuing a relationship as this only causes drama and can give you more enemies at school which we do not want. Sorry if this is all over the place. I wrote this very late and not planned out but my biggest message to get through high school is to blend it and try to be as normal as possible and limit as much social interaction as possible without making yourself look like you have no friends.
SORRY IF THIS IS REALLY POORLY WRITTEN
Hold on I'm going to have ai summarize this for me because I was going to read until I saw how long it was :lul:
 
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This is going to be my guide to highschool based off of my experience after my first week of school. First step if you are going to want to take the bus this for me has been very helpful whilst riding the bus you can either sit with someone random if bus is full which can complicate things or preferred method you can sit alone I am a bit nd myself so i can understand why someone might think this may portray yourself as a loser but the social dynamic on a bus is different than in a classroom or a lunch table sitting alone is acceptable and many prefer to sit alone. Now lets talk about if your bus is to full and you must sit with someone i would first say try to find someone you know or may be friends with on your bus and coordinate with them but if this is not possible then sit with someone who seems similar to you i am a 15 year old white male i would recommend sitting with someone who is about same age and race and gender this uncomplicates things a little. When you sit with them I would keep the talking to a minimum and if talking is forced keep it about topics that are immediatesuch as “Fuck we are going to be late today” rather than looking for a more depthful conversation as that could lead to them avoiding you later on or make the conversation go on longer than necessary . Next step along the day can either go really well or really poorly depending on how lucky you are with your bus if your bus is early which causes you to wander around this could be bad and in this case i would recommend going to the bathroom and avoiding people this way If your bus is slightly late or exactly when school starts there is no need to try to avoid socializing or overthink getting left out so you can just go to class. Okay we are finally at class here. I would always say pick near the middle of the back of class as you have less forced public interaction as in front of the class speaking as in questions and you have a higher chance of people sitting with you which would make you be perceived as less of a loser. Another thing to note is arriving right when class starts can be good so you don't have to guess if someone will sit with you. One thing I will note is to avoid arriving after class starts as that will bring attention to you which can be very bad. I would say overall try to keep eyes on you low so no one is watching to see you be a loser also this avoids chances of being bullied or taunted. My next step will be changing classes. My school has multiple buildings that have a courtyard in the middle so there is no main big building with hallways which doesn't much affect things except there are many different routes people are going so less of a crowd to blend in with. Whilst mentioning that I will say your biggest friend is going to be crowds they are great for you as they allow eyes off of you. Okay with there being many different classes and seating charts as the day goes on make sure to always be right at the end of the transition period again and sit with someone although make sure to always try to profile to find people like you so always same gender and race this keeps the chance of you having similar interests high although talking will be rare it is still good as this will allow you to avoid confrontation or embarrassment if you are sitting with a black women and for some reason watch a golf video there is a higher chance they judge you then a white male. While I am using white males as all my examples it stays for anyone you are likely not unique so you most likely don't deviate too far from typical traits of your type so this will again avoid confrontation. Sorry if this is very hard to follow. I am mentally walking myself through my day. The next thing I will touch on is lunch and this is my worst and hardest part of the day because finding people to sit with is hard and sitting alone at lunch is bad. I would recommend doing extensive research to find someone to sit with and this is not easily attainable so if you cannot i recommend going to the bathroom and eating later or going to the media center and also eating later. Next I will talk about the gym. This can be bad. You want to not be lazy but not try hard. You need to blend in. You might have already noticed this is a common theme. Make sure to wear a good deodorant so you do not smell and to not do anything at all that would set you apart. With this I will mention that in school hygiene is important smelling good looking well kept and looking clean. The biggest thing is acne. We all get grossed by acne whenever I see a girl with acne I get icked out so this is your biggest priority is to have good skin this will also ascend you but more from a blend in stand point this is important. Next make sure to have good breath. It doesn't need to be crazy good just not bad so it wont draw attention to you. Next I wear gym shoes and then switch to flops but because I don't want to smell I bring a dryer sheet and put it in my shoes to neutralize the smell. Next I will mention clothes this isn't that big of a deal you have a lot to work with but try to blend in see what most people wear and copy it dont try to follow online trends just be normal a good fitting shorts and tee shirt is good avoid over baggy clothes or to tight clothes as this can also draw attention to you or gross people out. Now I will talk about when you get home. I understand everyone needs friends so online friends can help a lot with the need for social interaction, aside from that as far as things like football games go, attending is fine but make sure you have someone to go with if you do not have any one do not go. My next topic is the gym I would say most people on here go to the gym so make sure you do to at the gym always wear headphone or airpods to make yourself seem approachable in between sets stay on what you are using and be on phone do lookup or leave as this can cause time for social interaction. A big help is to not wear deodorant to the gym as smelling will make people leave you alone although DO NOT try this at school. My final topic is going to be girls and I recommend against it overall me personally i have had a few relationships before and I know of 3 or 4 girls who currently like me and I would advise again contacting them or pursuing a relationship as this only causes drama and can give you more enemies at school which we do not want. Sorry if this is all over the place. I wrote this very late and not planned out but my biggest message to get through high school is to blend it and try to be as normal as possible and limit as much social interaction as possible without making yourself look like you have no friends.
SORRY IF THIS IS REALLY POORLY WRITTEN
All right I just had it summarized and this is the worst advice I've ever heard in my entire life not going to lie brother this is how you stay a cel forever. This is a perfect guide on how to be a loser that regrets not doing more in high school this is the exact shit I would do and I regret it so never do any of this if you're reading this reply embarrass yourself on purpose let people know you're not scared of being seen as different they might think you're weird but at least you're putting yourself out there for other people and you're not some little mouse in the corner of the room waiting to be stepped on or forgotten.
 
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