MammothActuary
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This is the type of story that is sadly becoming far too commonplace. It is not so much that women never have lied about her previously promiscuous past by claiming to be "not that kind of girl," but rather that it has become the standard for many women. It makes perfect sense why a woman would lie about her past. This woman wanted to be married, but knew that her behavior is offputting to marriage minded men. So she claims to be one of the "good girls" and hopes that her fiance will not find out. Of course when he did find out, she did the standard denial and then moved on to the next tactic of shaming with this line of reasoning:
it's none of my business that she did in her past
This is where his fiance is wrong. It is absolutely his business to have this knowledge of her past. She is not some random woman, but the woman he was planning on marrying. Emphasis on "was planning," as it is in his best interests to cancel those plans. He has not only every right, but a duty to know exactly what kind of woman she is. He cannot afford to marry the wrong woman, and she has proven with her deceit and treatment of him that she is indeed not someone he should marry.
It is for every man to decide whether or not he should get married in the first place, and one thing that is for sure is that no man should marry a woman who is definitely the wrong choice. Better not to marry than marry wrong. For this man, no good will come of marrying a woman like this. Marriage is (supposedly) a lifelong commitment, one that is perhaps the most important decision for anyone to make. Due to the major risks that this man is thinking about taking by even getting married, he must know who his future wife really is. Clearly he did not know her as well as he thought, so he was gifted some very important information before it was too late. Let us hope for his sake that gift does not go to waste.
