Jade
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I have had plenty of plastic surgery, so I do not pretend to say that looks don't matter - LOOKS DO MATTER. (I am not describing my whole journey here, so I am leaving surgery details out for now)
I never considered myself ugly or unattractive, and I never felt like the girls didn't like me.
As a teenager, I noticed that I never looked good in pictures, and even my real bros would say so. I didn't look bad, but I didn't look like other guys I thought were less attractive than me.
Being photogenic is a real thing. It is hard to pinpoint the exact reasons, but a little change can make a big difference.
My first procedure was an off-the-shelf silicone chin implant, which was a terrible mess. It moved, and it only made my face look a bit longer but round, if that makes sense.
Meanwhile, the situation with the ladies was not an issue - it has never been an issue. I feel I have a normal game, and I listen to them, and I can sense or see what works in that department.
Two or so years later, I replaced the chin implant with a wraparound implant because I was told that it was the way to go. It was, but it wasn't.
A few years later, again, I replaced the wraparound and added cheeks to the equation. Different materials and different designs were supposed to make me look "better" - they didn't. They just made me look a bit different, but not terrible.
I am rather new here on looksmax, and I can see that a lot of guys have problems with the ladies' department, and they blame it all on looks - that is wrong and childish.
Yes, looks are very important, but if you don't have them, heck, use your other God-given attributes and try to stop being a wimp.
I am not saying it is easy because I know you have been suffering from your looks for a long time, but you must start to retrain your brain and your will.
Girls do like "Chads," but any guy with the right personality and approach can get any girl at any time. I am telling you, kid; it is NOT all about looks.
Also, please stop paying 25k-40k for bimax or wraparound surgeries!!!! These surgeries are not that expensive anymore. Ok, unless you don't mind making it rain, go ahead and spend as much as you want.