guys help me, this girl is shit testing me

[UglyGod360]

I don't know. Don't show up to work early. If she says no you'll look like a goof. If she says yes you'll look like a goof.

Yesterday I told her "let's hang out and smoke next week" she was like "aweeee, ok" and kinda blushed and later she was like "I didn't know you smoke" and I was like " I do" even though I don't.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Yesterday I told her "let's hang out and smoke next week" she was like "aweeee, ok" and kinda blushed and later she was like "I didn't know you smoke" and I was like " I do" even though I don't.

Good job. Now all you gotta do is acquire some meth. Oh, and a pipe too.

 

[AscensionMan98]

Just be straightforward. Tell her you want to see her and you suggest the date. Tf is this vague texting man be direct

He can’t be that direct as their coworkers. Suggesting a drinks shows sexual intent without saying date.

Date forces the foid to think of ltr possibility and too much commitment early on is not good. So it’s fine

 

[darkness97]

based on how careful you're being you're bound to fail. relax and just be chill yo. you only fail shit tests if you worship the ground she walks on.

literally imagine she is one of your boys but a girl. if she is being confusing, just be like wtf and stop messaging her lol. just like anyone who tries to play games with you in life.

you aren't splitting a fucking atom and need help with the calculations and methods. you are doing something that is both primal and should be intensely intuitive. when you try to treat talking to a girl like splitting an atom and you care a lot about the result you will fuck it up.

the girls that i have had the most success with are the ones i care so little for because your anxiety wears off on them. so many times in life i would ask out a girl but do it in a scared way. they would reject me and then i would be my normal self again. then thats when they come back and want to talk to me. the shitty thing is, i literally dont care about them so i dont fuck em

 

[AscensionMan98]

ill never stop saying this: if shes into u she will make it incredibly easy

That’s true tbh, but women these days rarely do that unless you are perceived as very high value like a super chad. For the rest you gotta play the game till you face a total rejection, which means more initiation in the beginning.

When I was smaller and not jacked I had to put in a lot of initiation and effort to hangout with foids , while when jacked your right they would put in effort to let me know when free.

 

[UglyGod360]

Good job. Now all you gotta do is acquire some meth. Oh, and a pipe too.

Prob gonna buy some carts from a market online

He can’t be that direct as their coworkers. Suggesting a drinks shows sexual intent without saying date.

Date forces the foid to think of ltr possibility and too much commitment early on is not good. So it’s fine

Oh no, the girl I posted in the first post is not my coworker, we shared a class together, the girl I'm currently texting is my coworker tho

based on how careful you're being you're bound to fail. relax and just be chill yo. you only fail shit tests if you worship the ground she walks on.

literally imagine she is one of your boys but a girl. if she is being confusing, just be like wtf and stop messaging her lol. just like anyone who tries to play games with you in life.

you aren't splitting a fucking atom and need help with the calculations and methods. you are doing something that is both primal and should be intensely intuitive. when you try to treat talking to a girl like splitting an atom and you care a lot about the result you will fuck it up.

the girls that i have had the most success with are the ones i care so little for because your anxiety wears off on them. so many times in life i would ask out a girl but do it in a scared way. they would reject me and then i would be my normal self again. then thats when they come back and want to talk to me. the shitty thing is, i literally dont care about them so i dont fuck em

I can't take no chances tbh ngl