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Guys, I’m asking seriously—what should I do now? I’m feeling really anxious and overthinking everything; I broke up with my girlfriend, whom I love deeply. I feel like it’s my fault, though I don’t know exactly what I did wrong. I used to give her flowers, give her plenty of attention, hug and kiss her, and tell her how much I loved her, but she started acting cold toward me. I feel like I jumped to conclusions too soon and shouldn't have broken up. People say that kind of initial coldness is normal in relationships. I’m thinking about trying to win her back.
 
Guys, I’m asking seriously—what should I do now? I’m feeling really anxious and overthinking everything; I broke up with my girlfriend, whom I love deeply. I feel like it’s my fault, though I don’t know exactly what I did wrong. I used to give her flowers, give her plenty of attention, hug and kiss her, and tell her how much I loved her, but she started acting cold toward me. I feel like I jumped to conclusions too soon and shouldn't have broken up. People say that kind of initial coldness is normal in relationships. I’m thinking about trying to win her back.
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Guys, I’m asking seriously—what should I do now? I’m feeling really anxious and overthinking everything; I broke up with my girlfriend, whom I love deeply. I feel like it’s my fault, though I don’t know exactly what I did wrong. I used to give her flowers, give her plenty of attention, hug and kiss her, and tell her how much I loved her, but she started acting cold toward me. I feel like I jumped to conclusions too soon and shouldn't have broken up. People say that kind of initial coldness is normal in relationships. I’m thinking about trying to win her back.
she prob don't want u then
 
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she prob don't want u then
We had a good relationship, but for the last two or three weeks, she seemed to pull away from me. I felt less like a boyfriend and more like a friend with benefits.
 
Guys, I’m asking seriously—what should I do now? I’m feeling really anxious and overthinking everything; I broke up with my girlfriend, whom I love deeply. I feel like it’s my fault, though I don’t know exactly what I did wrong. I used to give her flowers, give her plenty of attention, hug and kiss her, and tell her how much I loved her, but she started acting cold toward me. I feel like I jumped to conclusions too soon and shouldn't have broken up. People say that kind of initial coldness is normal in relationships. I’m thinking about trying to win her back.

Losing someone you truly love can induce symptoms similar that of drug withdrawals. If she continuously expressed low-effort/disinterested toward you, she likely lost feelings and or got bored with you.

You're not wrong for breaking up with her, and I've been in your shoes; you're just going to have to move on, and she will likely try hitting you up again after a few weeks or so of no-contact. You mustn't give in to her; she's just bored and wants entertainment.

You'll be okay.
 
Guys, I’m asking seriously—what should I do now? I’m feeling really anxious and overthinking everything; I broke up with my girlfriend, whom I love deeply. I feel like it’s my fault, though I don’t know exactly what I did wrong. I used to give her flowers, give her plenty of attention, hug and kiss her, and tell her how much I loved her, but she started acting cold toward me. I feel like I jumped to conclusions too soon and shouldn't have broken up. People say that kind of initial coldness is normal in relationships. I’m thinking about trying to win her back.
dnr; jerk off to hentai like a real trucel
 
Losing someone you truly love can induce symptoms similar that of drug withdrawals. If she continuously expressed low-effort/disinterested toward you, she likely lost feelings and or got bored with you.

You're not wrong for breaking up with her, and I've been in your shoes; you're just going to have to move on, and she will likely try hitting you up again after a few weeks or so of no-contact. You mustn't give in to her; she's just bored and wants entertainment.

You'll be okay.
I couldn't handle it, man—I broke up with her three weeks ago, and I've been feeling terrible ever since. I miss her so much. I remember one time I was eating pizza at a shop and thought of her; the food suddenly made me feel sick, I couldn't breathe properly—it was like a panic attack—and I almost burst into tears right there at my table.
 
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I couldn't handle it, man—I broke up with her three weeks ago, and I've been feeling terrible ever since. I miss her so much. I remember one time I was eating pizza at a shop and thought of her; the food suddenly made me feel sick, I couldn't breathe properly—it was like a panic attack—and I almost burst into tears right there at my table.
Same here, I remember being drunk, bawling my eyes out, telling her I would kill myself if she left me.

I also recall getting less than 4 hours of sleep a night because I would wake up at 7 am, heart-racing and unable to sleep at the thought of her.

It's a very uncomfortable and horrid situation to be in, but it gets better, I promise you. I'm at 4 months post-breakup.
 
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if you give a woman too much from anything, she will eventually grow tired of it

feed it to her slow, and make her hunger at some point, so she actually gets obsessed
 
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From my 10 years of dating experience

1. Have a purpose or any obsession over her
2. Makes her wondering or anticipating about you for a bit
3. Analyse what is her ideal type and become a Hollywood actor for that role
4. Act like a man, be Abit protective, Abit prettyboy chivalry
5. If she pull away, act like nothing happened
 
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Same here, I remember being drunk, bawling my eyes out, telling her I would kill myself if she left me.

I also recall getting less than 4 hours of sleep a night because I would wake up at 7 am, heart-racing and unable to sleep at the thought of her.

It's a very uncomfortable and horrid situation to be in, but it gets better, I promise you. I'm at 4 months post-breakup.
I’ve been wondering all this time whether I should message her to try and rekindle the relationship. I don’t think things would feel the same as before, though. I love her and feel like I’ll never love anyone else the way I love her—plus, I’m deeply disillusioned with the girls I meet these days. I don’t know what to do; I just can’t let it go. I’ve tried to take my mind off it—spending more time with friends, gaming, going for walks—but nothing helps stop me from constantly overthinking things. And her birthday is coming up soon (July 23rd).
 

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