Guys Say I'm Hot, Girls Unmatch Me

[bananacoffee]

I was told several times by different guy friends that I'm "very attractive" and "look like a model", within the span of the last 2 years.

However, the results don't show it, I get almost no matches on Tinder/Bumble, and when I do get some they either ghost or unmatch me.

What gives? How is this discrepancy happening?

Is the male gaze vs the female gaze that different?

 

[bananacoffee]

P.S: I have a beard, could that be contributing?

 

[bananacoffee]

@Infinitelarp hi

 

[hungryplayground175]

Send me a pic of what u look like

 

[bananacoffee]

Send me a pic of what u look like

you got snapchat?

 

[hungryplayground175]

you got snapchat?

no just send on convo

 

[hungryplayground175]

you got snapchat?

ill be straight up honest w u as well

 

[Deleted member 33108]

@Infinitelarp hi

I was about to type a long paragraph about how you were a faggot incel however I refrained from doing so.

 

[Deleted member 23472]

 

[bananacoffee]

I was about to type a long paragraph about how you were a faggot incel however I refrained from doing so.

why?

 

[Deleted member 33108]

why?

Couldn't be bothered, best of luck with dating fag.

 

[bananacoffee]

Couldn't be bothered, best of luck with dating fag.

did i do anything wrong?

 

[fuckingtheuniverse]

Just post your face itll all be clear that if its your face or some other bs

 

[future6psl]

I was told several times by different guy friends that I'm "very attractive" and "look like a model", within the span of the last 2 years.

However, the results don't show it, I get almost no matches on Tinder/Bumble, and when I do get some they either ghost or unmatch me.

What gives? How is this discrepancy happening?

Is the male gaze vs the female gaze that different?

You’re probably the male gaze. I was usually called a “pretty boy” by other male classmates and friends. Also a decent amount of girls wanted me and approached me in one way or another usually hispanic since im hispanic.

 

[Deleted member 45581]

the reason celebrities men are in hollywood is bc other gay producers made them suck cock to be in their positions. so we should stop using celebrities as examples of what is "hot" to women