Guys that girls fuck vs date?

[Deleted member 2268]

Is there a difference between the type of guys that girls go for ONS with vs. want to date and be in LTR with?

I saw a study showing that girls want ONS with masc, high T, low empathy type guys and want LTR with provider type guys due to hormones and evolution. Why would they not want LTR with the first category since theoretically this is higher in SMV?

 

[Gandy]

Becauseguys with attractive faces and bodies are much more likely to be disloyal and abandon the woman after she gets pregnant.

Women want these guys genes, but they want an ugly kind guys money and resources from a LTR

Strategic pluralism - Wikipedia

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Women have evolved to evaluate men in two categories: whether they are reliable long term providers, and whether they contain high quality genes.[1] The theory of strategic pluralism was proposed by Steven Gangestad and Jeffry Simpson, two professors of psychology at the University of New Mexico and Texas A&M University, respectively.

Of course the ideal is having both "chad looks" and near infinite resources, like Christian Grey in the 50 Shades book.
Who is a tall 27 year old billionaire with an attractive face and ripped body.

But that's so rare it's a fantasy character, that's why the book sold more than the Bible. It's the ultimate female fantasy

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Becauseguys with attractive faces and bodies are much more likely to be disloyal and abandon the woman after she gets pregnant.

Women want these guys genes, but they want an ugly kind guys money and resources from a LTR

Strategic pluralism - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

Of course the ideal is having both "chad looks" and near infinite resources, like Christian Grey in the 50 Shades book.

But that's so rare it's a fantasy character, that's why the book sold more than the Bible. It's the ultimate female fantasy

For me I am able to get lots of ONS with girls but rarely see them again. Does this mean I am Chad but not moneymaxxed or have good lifestyle? Tbh all I do is roid and try to hookup w girls

 

[rtqex]

For me I am able to get lots of ONS with girls but rarely see them again. Does this mean I am Chad but not moneymaxxed or have good lifestyle? Tbh all I do is roid and try to hookup w girls

same, but I would like to fuck them again but they end up ghosting or something. maybe we can't fuck

 

[Deleted member 2268]

same, but I would like to fuck them again but they end up ghosting or something. maybe we can't fuck

What do you think is the issue? I’m assuming sex is usually avg the first time for most guys. I would say I am even above avg since I finger them and play with their clit. Do they see us as a boy toy?

Let’s see what @Amnesia @Biggdink @Germania think

 

[Deleted member 2268]

same, but I would like to fuck them again but they end up ghosting or something. maybe we can't fuck

I became extremely pissed recently after banging a legit Stacy and she didn’t reply to me JFL wanted to pin tren asap

 

[Foreverbrad]

Women literally just want to hook up, stop taking it personally. That whole red pill idea that they all secretly want relationships is so wrong.

Also: you don’t really want to fuck them again anyway, you’d prefer new girls - but you want the validation of them chasing you

 

[Deleted member 12002]

For me I am able to get lots of ONS with girls but rarely see them again. Does this mean I am Chad but not moneymaxxed or have good lifestyle? Tbh all I do is roid and try to hookup w girls

It means you're bad at sex.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Women literally just want to hook up, stop taking it personally. That whole red pill idea that they all secretly want relationships is so wrong.

Also: you don’t really want to fuck them again anyway, you’d prefer new girls - but you want the validation of them chasing you

Some do and some don't.

 

[rtqex]

What do you think is the issue? I’m assuming sex is usually avg the first time for most guys. I would say I am even above avg since I finger them and play with their clit. Do they see us as a boy toy?

Let’s see what @Amnesia @Biggdink @Germania think

idk men, because they sometimes even chase after the sex but once we make plans again they ghost. it could be that they are just sluts but also I think it has to do with bad sex on our end men.. me personally I haven't had much experience (only this past year and its always ONS so I cant practice)

 

[Deleted member 2268]

It means you're bad at sex.

I am not bad at sex my sex has always been the same and I’m the past the girls always wanted to see me again. In terms of sex I last about 10 minutes of penetration, finger them and stimulate their clit. Maybe I still need to improve?

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Women literally just want to hook up, stop taking it personally. That whole red pill idea that they all secretly want relationships is so wrong.

Also: you don’t really want to fuck them again anyway, you’d prefer new girls - but you want the validation of them chasing you

Why do some girls ask for condom and some don’t care? Is it related to looks?

 

[Foreverbrad]

Why do some girls ask for condom and some don’t care? Is it related to looks?

Probably the ones that had pregnancy scares vs the ones that didn’t. I don’t think it’s due to looks for once.

 

[Chinacurry]

Is there a difference between the type of guys that girls go for ONS with vs. want to date and be in LTR with?

I saw a study showing that girls want ONS with masc, high T, low empathy type guys and want LTR with provider type guys due to hormones and evolution. Why would they not want LTR with the first category since theoretically this is higher in SMV?

Omg suicidefuel

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Probably the ones that had pregnancy scares vs the ones that didn’t. I don’t think it’s due to looks for once.

So what do you think is the issue if girls don’t want to see me again? They compliment me, say I am Chad, and I often take them home and bang them within 40-60 min of being on the date. These girls are MTB-stacylite looks level

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Omg suicidefuel

Don’t ever comment on my threads retard cuck

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Some do and some don't.

Your sample size is Asian women not saying there’s anything wrong w that but I’m talking about western women

 

[Deleted member 2268]

It means you're bad at sex.

Is lack of foreplay a problem?

 

[rtqex]

it could also be being to needy in after sex texts because you have this problem you get needy

 

[Deleted member 2268]

it could also be being to needy in after sex texts because you have this problem you get needy

I don’t do that

 

[Foreverbrad]

So what do you think is the issue if girls don’t want to see me again? They compliment me, say I am Chad, and I often take them home and bang them within 40-60 min of being on the date. These girls are MTB-stacylite looks level

There is no issue, they just want one night stands. Again, stop taking it personally.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

There is no issue, they just want one night stands. Again, stop taking it personally.

Ok thanks man

 

[BoneDensity]

Why would they not want LTR with the first category since theoretically this is higher in SMV

Because the chances are he will not provide resources for her and her kids.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Because the chances are he will not provide resources for her and her kids.

But she wants his genes

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Your sample size is Asian women not saying there’s anything wrong w that but I’m talking about western women

I'm married to an Asian woman. Been with plenty of white girls too.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Is lack of foreplay a problem?

I wouldn't know. Foreplay isn't something I've ever really engaged in besides biting an ass or a back.

 

[BoneDensity]

But she wants his genes

She will get impregnated by him and find betabuxx cuck to raise the offspring. This is why concealed ovulation evolved in humans.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

Women literally just want to hook up, stop taking it personally. That whole red pill idea that they all secretly want relationships is so wrong.

Also: you don’t really want to fuck them again anyway, you’d prefer new girls - but you want the validation of them chasing you

They do want to hookup with chads but they also want relationships. They get lonely and are very obsessed with always being around people. Women can't just chill alone, they need constant socialization and a bf would provide that.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

She will get impregnated by him and find betabuxx cuck to raise the offspring. This is why concealed ovulation evolved in humans.

So I shouldn’t be worried if the girls duck me but don’t want LTR?

 

[Sleeper]

Women literally just want to hook up, stop taking it personally. That whole red pill idea that they all secretly want relationships is so wrong.

Also: you don’t really want to fuck them again anyway, you’d prefer new girls - but you want the validation of them chasing you

young virgin women want relationships but they literally lose that ability after their first partner

 

[Deleted member 2268]

I wouldn't know. Foreplay isn't something I've ever really engaged in besides biting an ass or a back.

Any good resources on advanced sex game?

 

[Deleted member 19453]

I read a post a while ago about how sons don’t look like their fathers so that a women can cheat on her provider and get pregnant from a man with good genes and the provider will never know, thinking that they are his kids.

I also remember something about concealed ovulation

Concealed ovulation - Wikipedia

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“This hypothesis suggests that women concealed ovulation to obtain men's aid in rearing offspring. Schröder[14]”

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Any good resources on advanced sex game?

No, 90% of sex is mental. Make the chick enamored with you.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

No, 90% of sex is mental. Make the chick enamored with you.

Wdym by mental?

 

[Deleted member 7580]

What do you think is the issue? I’m assuming sex is usually avg the first time for most guys. I would say I am even above avg since I finger them and play with their clit. Do they see us as a boy toy?

Let’s see what @Amnesia @Biggdink @Germania think

Could be any reason why she doesn’t wanna see you again tbh
No way to know but yea many girls will date moneymaxxed, careermaxxed etc guys with compatible personalities but will hook up with a guy who isn’t


It’s also much easier for me to just get hookups

 

[Deleted member 16270]

Any good resources on advanced sex game?

You need good dig stroke combination

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Wdym by mental?

How you idealize the other person and the sex you're having with them. One guy might be able to get a girl off good by giving her a simple missionary f*ck, while another dude with the same girl might have to do 30 minutes of c*nt eating and change positions multiple times. Long term seduction is foreplay.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Could be any reason why she doesn’t wanna see you again tbh
No way to know but yea many girls will date moneymaxxed, careermaxxed etc guys with compatible personalities but will hook up with a guy who isn’t


It’s also much easier for me to just get hookups

It sucks man haven’t been able to keep any of the stacylites I fucked for more than ons

 

[Deleted member 2268]

How you idealize the other person and the sex you're having with them. One guy might be able to get a girl off good by giving her a simple missionary f*ck, while another dude with the same girl might have to do 30 minutes of c*nt eating and change positions multiple times. Long term seduction is foreplay.

Elab

 

[longjohnmong]

I would say I am even above avg since I finger them and play with their clit. Do they see us as a boy toy?

Let’s see what @Amnesia @Biggdink @Germania think

this mentality makes it sound like you are not above average or that the average is garbage

 

[Deleted member 2268]

this mentality makes it sound like you are not above average or that the average is garbage

What mentality

 

[longjohnmong]

What mentality

the mentality that fingering them and playing with their clit makes you above average. like merely doing foreplay isn't something that elevates you to some higher level. it's like fundamental. and if you're approaching it as just some box you have to check off then you're gonna suck at it.

i can't think of a great analogy but it's like saying "i'm above average at playing tennis because i can put topspin on the ball!" like, yeah, topspin is good, but the fact that you think that makes you above average is evidence that you're probably not all that good at tennis.

like, don't approach it as a series of boxes you're just checking off.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

the mentality that fingering them and playing with their clit makes you above average. like merely doing foreplay isn't something that elevates you to some higher level. it's like fundamental. and if you're approaching it as just some box you have to check off then you're gonna suck at it.

i can't think of a great analogy but it's like saying "i'm above average at playing tennis because i can put topspin on the ball!" like, yeah, topspin is good, but the fact that you think that makes you above average is evidence that you're probably not all that good at tennis.

like, don't approach it as a series of boxes you're just checking off.

I have banged a lot of girls man idk