Hahacrazy
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Since I was not getting women irl or on dating apps, I decided to use other methods starting around last year. Some of you here can benefit from this post.
My stats:
I live in a major city in Canada. I'm white, in my 20s, 5'7, average face, average physique (so not fat but not that toned either, maybe even skinnyfat), boyish appearance, and have a full set of hair. I try to get those prettyboy hairstyles you see zoomer chads on tiktok have (longer on the front and top, shorter on the sides and back). I am an mtn at best and somewhat neurodivergent.
IG:
1. get a good pfp of yourself
2. follow random girls in your area
Go to the ig pages of local colleges, unis, bars, clubs, local e-celebs, nail and hair salons, etc. Almost ANYTHING or ANYONE located in your city will have an ig page so use your imagination. Go through their followers and the likes on their posts to see girls to follow. As a general rule, I try not to follow stacies or girls with over 1000 followers (for obvious reasons). I also try to avoid following girls who my friends/acquaintances/family might know
3. if a girl follows you back, dm them and see if you can get a convo going
4. in that convo I lie/exaggerate about my hobbies and find an excuse to send a good pic of myself (that is also different from my pfp)
5. ask them out within a week
This is the only way I get women and hook up with them. I highly recommend this method as I have never met and gotten physical with so many (attractive) girls in my life. Much better ROI than leaving your house just to HOPEFULLY meet a receptive girl. This method also works better than any dating app. However, since I am only an mtn, not every women will follow back, respond forever, or agree to go on a date. The women I do end up meeting eventually cut ties for one reason or another. It's not really chad-proof obviously, but I am not complaining. I also think this method works best if you live in a major/urban area
meetup.com:
1. i found a social event hosted by an org
2. met three cool guys in their 20s-early 30s
3. we basically now go to bars or clubs, increasing our chances of meeting women.
Even if you don't get women this way, you might still make some friends.
Status-frauding:
As an mtn, I feel that lying about my personal life to make myself seem interesting can increase my chances of getting sex. I lie about my hobbies, about my social life, my job, etc. If I am home during the evening and a girl asks me what I'm doing, I will tell her that I am going out with friends, or that I am hosting a party. I guess it's a form of darktriadmaxxing.
If there is one method of mine you want to try, you must absolutely pick the Instagram one. I really wish I would have started it sooner. Not only do you get to bypass the algorithm and ruthless female mate choice of the dating apps, but you can have greater choice in the kinds of women you want to meet. I must warn you: it is pretty addictive once you actually get some success this way.
My stats:
I live in a major city in Canada. I'm white, in my 20s, 5'7, average face, average physique (so not fat but not that toned either, maybe even skinnyfat), boyish appearance, and have a full set of hair. I try to get those prettyboy hairstyles you see zoomer chads on tiktok have (longer on the front and top, shorter on the sides and back). I am an mtn at best and somewhat neurodivergent.
IG:
1. get a good pfp of yourself
2. follow random girls in your area
Go to the ig pages of local colleges, unis, bars, clubs, local e-celebs, nail and hair salons, etc. Almost ANYTHING or ANYONE located in your city will have an ig page so use your imagination. Go through their followers and the likes on their posts to see girls to follow. As a general rule, I try not to follow stacies or girls with over 1000 followers (for obvious reasons). I also try to avoid following girls who my friends/acquaintances/family might know
3. if a girl follows you back, dm them and see if you can get a convo going
4. in that convo I lie/exaggerate about my hobbies and find an excuse to send a good pic of myself (that is also different from my pfp)
5. ask them out within a week
This is the only way I get women and hook up with them. I highly recommend this method as I have never met and gotten physical with so many (attractive) girls in my life. Much better ROI than leaving your house just to HOPEFULLY meet a receptive girl. This method also works better than any dating app. However, since I am only an mtn, not every women will follow back, respond forever, or agree to go on a date. The women I do end up meeting eventually cut ties for one reason or another. It's not really chad-proof obviously, but I am not complaining. I also think this method works best if you live in a major/urban area
meetup.com:
1. i found a social event hosted by an org
2. met three cool guys in their 20s-early 30s
3. we basically now go to bars or clubs, increasing our chances of meeting women.
Even if you don't get women this way, you might still make some friends.
Status-frauding:
As an mtn, I feel that lying about my personal life to make myself seem interesting can increase my chances of getting sex. I lie about my hobbies, about my social life, my job, etc. If I am home during the evening and a girl asks me what I'm doing, I will tell her that I am going out with friends, or that I am hosting a party. I guess it's a form of darktriadmaxxing.
If there is one method of mine you want to try, you must absolutely pick the Instagram one. I really wish I would have started it sooner. Not only do you get to bypass the algorithm and ruthless female mate choice of the dating apps, but you can have greater choice in the kinds of women you want to meet. I must warn you: it is pretty addictive once you actually get some success this way.
