Had My First Successful Date Today — Feels Like It Might Be Something Real

[zerotohero]

Went on my first real date today with a girl I’ve been talking to for a while (she’s 20, I’m 24), and I think it actually went great.

We spent nearly 7 hours together. Walked around the city, had lunch (eggs with potatoes and ham plus flamenquines), talked about books, life, and everything in between. At some point we started holding hands. We kissed too. It felt natural.

She surprised me with a handwritten poem she wrote for me. I brought her a poetry book with a personal note inside. It felt like a quiet exchange of souls. She said she was more nervous than she expected, but I didn’t really notice it. She told me I looked good and said next time I should wear lighter clothes because I’d still look handsome anyway.

She wants to meet again, this time in her hometown.

At the end of the day she sent me a yellow heart emoji “because you look golden,” and I replied with a green one since her eyes are green. She said the date went well. I told her I want more.

I don’t know, maybe this is the start of something real. Am I in the quarterfinals now?

Open to advice. What should I keep in mind for the next step? The ones who actually interact with women, please.

 

[RODEBLUR]

Uh okay

 

[pentamogged9000]

nice brag thread
she is speaking to 5 other guys at the same time

 

[RODEBLUR]

nice brag thread
she is speaking to 5 other guys at the same time

tbh

 

[zerotohero]

nice brag thread
she is speaking to 5 other guys at the same time

 

[Abdullahm06]

sounds like it went amazingly
you two might really be soulmates

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Went on my first real date today with a girl I’ve been talking to for a while (she’s 20, I’m 24), and I think it actually went great.

We spent nearly 7 hours together. Walked around the city, had lunch (eggs with potatoes and ham plus flamenquines), talked about books, life, and everything in between. At some point we started holding hands. We kissed too. It felt natural.

She surprised me with a handwritten poem she wrote for me. I brought her a poetry book with a personal note inside. It felt like a quiet exchange of souls. She said she was more nervous than she expected, but I didn’t really notice it. She told me I looked good and said next time I should wear lighter clothes because I’d still look handsome anyway.

She wants to meet again, this time in her hometown.

At the end of the day she sent me a yellow heart emoji “because you look golden,” and I replied with a green one since her eyes are green. She said the date went well. I told her I want more.

I don’t know, maybe this is the start of something real. Am I in the quarterfinals now?

Open to advice. What should I keep in mind for the next step? The ones who actually interact with women, please.

Ignore her

Run redpill manipulation after you get even closer

Hot and cold

 

[Abdullahm06]

Ignore her

Run redpill manipulation after you get even closer

Hot and cold

i dont think this is necessary if the girl has genuine attraction for him

 

[zerotohero]

Ignore her

Run redpill manipulation after you get even closer

Hot and cold

Bullshit, it might work with a girl I don’t care about, but not with her.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Bullshit, it might work with a girl I don’t care about, but not with her.

It works with any girl

The suspense of wondering if you actually like her stimulates the woman brain

How do you not know this

Just be subtle and not go overboars

 

[LegendaryKennen]

hot and cold are for mentally ill girls with shit father figures

 

[zerotohero]

It works with any girl

The suspense of wondering if you actually like her stimulates the woman brain

How do you not know this

Just be subtle and not go overboars

Nah. I might do it with another chick, tho.

 

[zerotohero]

hot and cold are for mentally ill girls with shit father figures

This.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

This.

Actually good point

But it'd still work especially since you got along so well

Female nature doesn't change

But I respect your decision she seems nice

I've watched too much zherka to waste the chance for manipulation though

 

[esoterik]

fuck her then dnr her tbh

 

[zerotohero]

fuck her then dnr her tbh

Nah, I see real potential for a serious relationship with her and for her to be part of my life. No blue pill illusions.

 

[esoterik]

Nah, I see real potential for a serious relationship with her and for her to be part of my life. No blue pill illusions.

L mentality, you should see the real potential of smashing and leaving

your deadass going to sit here and think this girl is a potential partner.... for the rest of your life? if this bitch is kissing, spending 7 hours on a date for a normal dude.... put 2 in 2 together

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

L mentality, you should see the real potential of smashing and leaving

your deadass going to sit here and think this girl is a potential partner.... for the rest of your life? if this bitch is kissing, spending 7 hours on a date for a normal dude.... put 2 in 2 together

I don't see your point

But yeah he should be realistic that she's a fkn woman

They cheat on their husband's and say they "grew apart"

I saw a clip on fresh and fit, some girl said she left her husband, divorced

because....

He got PTSD from the war and became colder

What a WITCH Evil asf

 

[moggerofhumanity]

Sounds really wonderful.

She surprised me with a handwritten poem she wrote for me.

Have you two talked before for her to write a poem for you?

Anyways, make sure you actually aren’t getting played tho. She seems good, but kissing at 1st date did raise a bit of an eyebrow, but I might be overthinking here.

 

[esoterik]

I don't see your point

But yeah he should be realistic that she's a fkn woman

They cheat on their husband's and say they "grew apart"

I saw a clip on fresh and fit, some girl said she left her husband, divorced

because....

He got PTSD from the war and became colder

What a WITCH Evil asf

u think this was her first date? if shes doing that for the first date, she isnt serious about commitment

 

[zerotohero]

Sounds really wonderful.

Have you two talked before for her to write a poem for you?

Anyways, make sure you actually aren’t getting played tho. She seems good, but kissing at 1st date did raise a bit of an eyebrow, but I might be overthinking here.

I was the one who kissed her.

 

[moggerofhumanity]

I was the one who kissed her.

I know... I didn’t misinterpret anything. What I’m saying is that if she takes things a bit too quickly, that could be a sign that it might not last. Anyways, congrats on the success today.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Damn, why did you get eggs? You fucked that up. Sorry, bud. Better luck next time. And remember, the guy always orders and always, get steak and potatoes for you. For her, a small salad and half of a roll. So when the food is served, you grab her roll and tear it in half. You gobble the other in one bite. Trust me. Alpha moves like this hammer the pussy down.

 

[deadstock]

Good for u

Please don't take advice from any of the virgin rotters on here

 

[Daddy's Home]

Am I in the quarterfinals now?

Given that she's already pronounced that she wants more dates with you, pretty much.. yeah..

Open to advice. What should I keep in mind for the next step?

Try to switch slowly from written to telephone communication. Leave writing for short / direct / informative texts only

Now's the point where you need to communicate as much as possible using your voice, to better familiarize yourself with how you really are, how she expresses herself or reacts to things, so that when you meet face to face again, everything will be much more casual, normal and natural, you will feel much more comfortable together, how she expresses herself or reacts to things, and you'll be able to more easily escalate the more intimate and romantic things without the fear of becoming awkward

In any case, she's very young, she's practically a child, so she has no demands or expectations, she'll probably just want you to take the initiative and lead her, and she's very unlikely to disagree with your decisions

At this point, just don't rush things or make them awkward. Communicate a lot, ask her things, tell her that you are open to whatever she needs, that you are there for her, that she can tell you whenever she needs anything

Now is the time when she needs to start trusting you, like an old friend. The sooner she gets comfortable with you in every way, the sooner it's better and you'll get to sex

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Good for u

Please don't take advice from any of the virgin rotters on here

A virgin larping as a non-virgin while putting virgins down, brutal

 

[Jaynoyn523]

Went on my first real date today with a girl I’ve been talking to for a while (she’s 20, I’m 24), and I think it actually went great.

We spent nearly 7 hours together. Walked around the city, had lunch (eggs with potatoes and ham plus flamenquines), talked about books, life, and everything in between. At some point we started holding hands. We kissed too. It felt natural.

She surprised me with a handwritten poem she wrote for me. I brought her a poetry book with a personal note inside. It felt like a quiet exchange of souls. She said she was more nervous than she expected, but I didn’t really notice it. She told me I looked good and said next time I should wear lighter clothes because I’d still look handsome anyway.

She wants to meet again, this time in her hometown.

At the end of the day she sent me a yellow heart emoji “because you look golden,” and I replied with a green one since her eyes are green. She said the date went well. I told her I want more.

I don’t know, maybe this is the start of something real. Am I in the quarterfinals now?

Open to advice. What should I keep in mind for the next step? The ones who actually interact with women, please.

nice bro, as for the next time you see her just go with the flow it seemed to work fine in this instance

 

[GrowthReaper]

NPC romance but I'm happy for you.

 

[Iraniancel]

DNR sex haver

Join the INCELWAFFEN and DNR every sex haver NOW!

 

[qazw]

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[zerotohero]

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6’1, 5.5/10, soon to be one.