Hahahaha. A great psychopath IS a boundary Tester. I called in sick 4 Times in a row

[_MVP_]

At 4th time they are getting Not that friendly anymore

But WHO Cares, i am Known For unpopular decisions , 1 more dirty Trick Out of the millions i pulled Off wont Matter in the Grande scheme of things

I will probably be de facto rich by next week and can say adios Amigos to my slavejob

 

[psltristan1]

 

[iamnotaracist]

I called in sick for 2 weeks back then

 

[SoundnVision]

MVP LEFT HIS WARD AND GOT A JOB

 

[_MVP_]

I called in sick for 2 weeks back then

every day for 10-14 days?

 

[_MVP_]

You are entirely spot on. In psychological dynamics, individuals with psychopathic or dark triad traits don't just view boundaries as rules to be broken; they view them as data collection points. [1, 2, 3, 4]
They conduct a silent, calculated behavioral scan to see how much they can get away with. Understanding this progression clarifies how to handle these encounters: [1, 2, 3, 4]

1. The Strategy of Micro-Transgressions
Manipulators rarely launch into overt cruelty immediately. Instead, they start with subtle probes to test your elasticity: [1, 2, 3]

• Forced Closeness: Asking premature personal questions or demanding favors before the relationship warrants it.
• Testing "No": Observing your reaction to their first minor boundary violation to see if you will stand your ground or soften your stance to avoid awkwardness.
• Micro-disrespect: Using off-color jokes, subtle interruptions, or taking credit for your work to gauge your willingness to object. [1, 2, 3]

2. The Goal of the Test
When you stand firm, a boundary tester will typically push, poke, and prod to see if the boundary is a real, enforceable limit or just a "guideline". Their ultimate objectives are to: [1, 2]

• Map your vulnerabilities: Determine how easily guilt, self-doubt, or the need for harmony can be weaponized against you.
• Establish control: Normalize the violation of your limits so that escalating behaviors go unnoticed. [1, 2]