Harder to get a girl online or irl?

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Farsin said:
irl what kind of question is this
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not a bad question actually if u think about it. For example if you have a great face you would have more success online vs if your 6’4 for example you could just go walking around in public and get a lot of female attention
 
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larpcel45 said:
not a bad question actually if u think about it. For example if you have a great face you would have more success online vs if your 6’4 for example you could just go walking around in public and get a lot of female attention
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Yea and if ur srs abt dating the best option would be talking irl so yk if each other is ok abt the height and allat
 
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larpcel45 said:
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For teens online is easier but if you’re an adult irl would be easier. Can’t say the same for dating apps cuz it’s fat fucking whales that are a waste of breath saying if you aren’t 6,4 and Chad then to scroll left.
 
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Robertski said:
For teens online is easier but if you’re an adult irl would be easier. Can’t say the same for dating apps cuz it’s fat fucking whales that are a waste of breath saying if you aren’t 6,4 and Chad then to scroll left.
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yeah true but I feel like girls would like the fact that you approach them in real life and be confident about it ykwim instead of just being some average guy on her Snapchat
 
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larpcel45 said:
What’s ur success on cold approaching ?
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Honestly got a few rejections haha but never gave a single fuck but it was when I didn’t look good, haven’t tried it out for a while now might try it again once I have the opportunity, shit bro everytime I approach them I fucking forget what I wanted to say
 
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larpcel45 said:
yeah true but I feel like girls would like the fact that you approach them in real life and be confident about it ykwim instead of just being some average guy on her Snapchat
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Yeah but if you’re ND or rot on forums, talking to a girl would be very hard without making it awkward. You have to take substances before approaching to make it less awkward.
 
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soraloll said:
Honestly got a few rejections haha but never gave a single fuck but it was when I didn’t look good, haven’t tried it out for a while now might try it again once I have the opportunity, shit bro everytime I approach them I fucking forget what I wanted to say
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JFL yeah that’s the part I’m scared about and why I probally will never cold approach. Maybe when Im confident enough and good looking to the point where ik they will say yes
 
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Robertski said:
Yeah but if you’re ND or rot on forums, talking to a girl would be very hard without making it awkward. You have to take substances before approaching to make it less awkward.
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yea I’m nd and don’t have access to get any substances so rip
 
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larpcel45 said:
JFL yeah that’s the part I’m scared about and why I probally will never cold approach. Maybe when Im confident enough and good looking to the point where ik they will say yes
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Yea bro but honestly after sometimes should get better, just try talking with strangers and just compliment their stuff and allat, but shit was I always scared when I approached girls
 
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soraloll said:
Yea bro but honestly after sometimes should get better, just try talking with strangers and just compliment their stuff and allat, but shit was I always scared when I approached girls
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yeah it’s normal to be scared or nervous but for me I will just have to start with giving random compliments to strangers not even girls bc I’ve never even approached a dude and said what’s up before
 
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larpcel45 said:
yea I’m nd and don’t have access to get any substances so rip
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Pregabalin, alcohol, weed. The list goes on brother, you can literally ferment your own wine homemade if you can’t buy from the store.
 
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Robertski said:
Pregabalin, alcohol, weed. The list goes on brother, you can literally ferment your own wine homemade if you can’t buy from the store.
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Yea but honestly if u can’t approach women without any substances then what is the point of even doing it, I mean like you’d feel much better if you’d just do it the natural and harder way and fucking succeed
 
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Robertski said:
Pregabalin, alcohol, weed. The list goes on brother, you can literally ferment your own wine homemade if you can’t buy from the store.
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Tried weed. Makes me look retarted and makes me have more anxiety/ gives me pas
 
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soraloll said:
Yea but honestly if u can’t approach women without any substances then what is the point of even doing it, I mean like you’d feel much better if you’d just do it the natural and not harder way and fucking succeed
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True I don’t wanna rely on taking a substance my whole life just to have social skills id rather just slowly work my way up and actually practice
 
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soraloll said:
Yea but honestly if u can’t approach women without any substances then what is the point of even doing it, I mean like you’d feel much better if you’d just do it the natural and not harder way and fucking succeed
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Great point but being high inhib and taking substances to lower your inhibition makes it so much more pleasurable, you aren’t constantly overthinking any mistake like if you tongue twisted a word or stuttered or if her face seems off.
 
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Robertski said:
Great point but being high inhib and taking substances to lower your inhibition makes it so much more pleasurable, you aren’t constantly overthinking any mistake like if you tongue twisted a word or stuttered or if her face seems off.
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True but you get my point
 
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larpcel45 said:
Tried weed. Makes me look retarted and makes me have more anxiety/ gives me pas
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Fair enough, my advice would be to talk to woman friendly to start with and then start talking to more and more. They are different than guys and might take you as a creep if you crack a weird joke. Only applies if you’re below HTN
 
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Robertski said:
Fair enough, my advice would be to talk to woman friendly to start with and then start talking to more and more. They are different than guys and might take you as a creep if you crack a weird joke. Only applies if you’re below HTN
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dude even if I talked to a girl friendly like trying to make a friend she would think I like her and be weirded out . Idk maybe I’m just retarted but like I’ve never even had a girl who’s my friend before
 
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larpcel45 said:
dude even if I talked to a girl friendly like trying to make a friend she would think I like her and be weirded out . Idk maybe I’m just retarted but like I’ve never even had a girl who’s my friend before
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Well that could be from you being socially awkward or just below HLTN
 
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