Has anyone else become more socialy retarded after long term LDARing?

[Dorogi]

Ever since i got kicked out of the school with all my friends and spent more time online i started forgetting words, i genuinly forgot what the word for microwave was and this shit happens everytime i talk to someone, sometimes i even have to translate english words i know to my native language because i forgot them. A lot of the time i have to pause in sentences to just figure out the word im trying to use and sometimes i just completely dont know how to express what i want to say making arguments almost impossible

 

[Helvetier]

Ever since i got kicked out of the school with all my friends and spent more time online i started forgetting words, i genuinly forgot what the word for microwave was and this shit happens everytime i talk to someone, sometimes i even have to translate english words i know to my native language because i forgot them. A lot of the time i have to pause in sentences to just figure out the word im trying to use and sometimes i just completely dont know how to express what i want to say making arguments almost impossible

Yes thats normal

 

[Dorogi]

Yes thats normal

Any idea how to undo it?

 

[Helvetier]

Any idea how to undo it?

Socialize, talk to ppl

 

[Dorogi]

Socialize, talk to ppl

Not that simple unfortunatly

 

[BeanCelll]

Humans are social creatures

That's why you sought out this forum

The less you practice the more you lose

 

[Helvetier]

Not that simple unfortunatly

Do you live in a big city?

 

[Dorogi]

Do you live in a big city?

Little less than 40k people

 

[Helvetier]

Little less than 40k people

Then its hard (live in a city with like 10k) do you still go to school?

 

[awok]

Ever since i got kicked out of the school with all my friends and spent more time online i started forgetting words, i genuinly forgot what the word for microwave was and this shit happens everytime i talk to someone, sometimes i even have to translate english words i know to my native language because i forgot them. A lot of the time i have to pause in sentences to just figure out the word im trying to use and sometimes i just completely dont know how to express what i want to say making arguments almost impossible

Yeah bro isolation is not good for ur mh, thats a well known fact atp

 

[Dorogi]

Then its hard (live in a city with like 10k) do you still go to school?

Yeah but since i switched twice for attendence issues im now in a sort of college which is a lot harder to socialize in than back in middle school

 

[Dorogi]

Yeah bro isolation is not good for ur mh, thats a well known fact atp

I thought it was just bad for ur mental health not how NT you look

 

[FlotPSL]

Humans are social creatures

That's why you sought out this forum

The less you practice the more you lose

I disagree

It depends on your genetics

 

[flatcheck213]

Ever since i got kicked out of the school with all my friends and spent more time online i started forgetting words, i genuinly forgot what the word for microwave was and this shit happens everytime i talk to someone, sometimes i even have to translate english words i know to my native language because i forgot them. A lot of the time i have to pause in sentences to just figure out the word im trying to use and sometimes i just completely dont know how to express what i want to say making arguments almost impossible

 

[awok]

I thought it was just bad for ur mental health not how NT you look

No it completely affects your not status, the way you act is mostly determined by your environment, therefore an environment thats isolated will make you come off as more closeted, closed off, and less nt

 

[heightmax]

always happens to me

i used to ldar on discord like 8h a day in 2023 and my english got much better because of that
i also started to forget italian words tho

 

[superpsycho]

yea but i was socially retarded before that

 

[crazyguy]

Ever since i got kicked out of the school with all my friends and spent more time online i started forgetting words, i genuinly forgot what the word for microwave was and this shit happens everytime i talk to someone, sometimes i even have to translate english words i know to my native language because i forgot them. A lot of the time i have to pause in sentences to just figure out the word im trying to use and sometimes i just completely dont know how to express what i want to say making arguments almost impossible

no, i absorb knowledge as i rot
ive been getting smarter at a faster rate since last year

 

[flatcheck213]

yea but i was socially retarded before that

mogs me

 

[PlzEndIt]

Ever since i got kicked out of the school with all my friends and spent more time online i started forgetting words, i genuinly forgot what the word for microwave was and this shit happens everytime i talk to someone, sometimes i even have to translate english words i know to my native language because i forgot them. A lot of the time i have to pause in sentences to just figure out the word im trying to use and sometimes i just completely dont know how to express what i want to say making arguments almost impossible

Yeah normal. You might notice aswell you struggle to follow along in conversations. You are slower at thinking on your feet. You are not very witty. etc.

People might say you are autistic because of this, it does not mean that at all. You've just lost your social skills because you rarely socialize

Looksmax so that you can stand being around people again and then get out there and start talking to me. Maybe get a retail job so you have to speak to people

 

[Dorogi]

always happens to me

i used to ldar on discord like 8h a day in 2023 and my english got much better because of that
i also started to forget italian words tho

I was so chronically online as a kid i got fluent in english before i had my first english lesson in elementary

 

[heightmax]

no, i absorb knowledge as i rot
ive been getting smarter at a faster rate since last year

ur a truecel tho

 

[Dorogi]

Yeah normal. You might notice aswell you struggle to follow along in conversations. You are slower at thinking on your feet. You are not very witty. etc.

People might say you are autistic because of this, it does not mean that at all. You've just lost your social skills because you rarely do it.

Looksmax so that you can stand being around people again and then get out there and start talking to me. Maybe get a retail job so you have to speak to people

I tried to socialize and hoped it would work this school year but i somehow got half the class to hate me because i ragebaited them (as a joke) when they made fun of me because i thought they were joking

 

[ase]

Ever since i got kicked out of the school with all my friends and spent more time online i started forgetting words, i genuinly forgot what the word for microwave was and this shit happens everytime i talk to someone, sometimes i even have to translate english words i know to my native language because i forgot them. A lot of the time i have to pause in sentences to just figure out the word im trying to use and sometimes i just completely dont know how to express what i want to say making arguments almost impossible

Maybe thats because english is your second language

 

[Dorogi]

Maybe thats because english is your second language

Im becoming better at english than my native language though

 

[Dorogi]

I even think in english since elementary

 

[PlzEndIt]

I tried to socialize and hoped it would work this school year but i somehow got half the class to hate me because i ragebaited them (as a joke) when they made fun of me because i thought they were joking

If you are ugly and Non-nt socializing with normies is never gonna work. Looksmax first

 

[ase]

Im becoming better at english than my native language though

I get it. You're getting slower but once you start talking to alot of people again you will get your social skills back. Trust me.

 

[Dorogi]

If you are ugly and Non-nt socializing with normies is never gonna work. Looksmax first

before switching schools it did work though but because i was really ND and attention starved so i jestermaxxed to get validation. Been 2 years and everyone still recognizes me there and than ill have a crowd of like 10 people around me i barely remember (i dont like to talk to people from back than since they still want me to jester and i just wanna get respected now) so ig its not really looks

 

[BeanCelll]

I disagree

It depends on your genetics

Genetics will decide to what degree one is social

I don't think there's anyone capable enough to live entirely isolated from everyone else for a decade without going insane.

 

[PlzEndIt]

before switching schools it did work though but because i was really ND and attention starved so i jestermaxxed to get validation. Been 2 years and everyone still recognizes me there and than ill have a crowd of like 10 people around me i barely remember (i dont like to talk to people from back than since they still want me to jester and i just wanna get respected now) so ig its not really looks

Yeah, if you spent your time jestering and now try to switch up personality it's over won't work

Everyone has made the jestering mistake. Atleast you're not figuring this out at 30

 

[Dorogi]

Yeah, if you spent your time jestering and now try to switch up personality it's over won't work

Everyone has made the jestering mistake. Atleast you're not figuring this out at 30

Yeah i realized that when people still treated me the same after ive been working to change for an entire year. Trying to find a whole new social group is hard though

 

[theRetard]

Socialize, talk to ppl

no, it's evil

 

[Dorogi]

Yeah, if you spent your time jestering and now try to switch up personality it's over won't work

Everyone has made the jestering mistake. Atleast you're not figuring this out at 30

might be a controversial take but being a jester or having jestered is far worse than lookism. After working out for almost a whole year and looksmaxxing since a couple months i get treated worse than guys that dont go to the gym and look far worse. Theres this fat guy thats LTN at best that genuinly believes he looks better than me because everyone calls me skinny (hes like 30-40kg heavier than me and i think around 3 inches taller but i beat him in a fight and outlift him with everything). If someone assigns themselves as the group punchingbag even once they are going to be chosen as the group punchingbag forever

 

[PlzEndIt]

might be a controversial take but being a jester or having jestered is far worse than lookism. After working out for almost a whole year and looksmaxxing since a couple months i get treated worse than guys that dont go to the gym and look far worse. Theres this fat guy thats LTN at best that genuinly believes he looks better than me because everyone calls me skinny (hes like 30-40kg heavier than me and i think around 3 inches taller but i beat him in a fight and outlift him with everything). If someone assigns themselves as the group punchingbag even once they are going to be chosen as the group punchingbag forever

Do something crazy and niggerish. Like win a fist fight. That's like the fastest way to win the respect of people overnight. I remember there was this kid that picked on me when I was in school at like 13/14 and often others would join him in picking on me. I then lost it and hit him so hard he fell over and he had the biggest bruise on his face.

Pros: Instant respect. Became the most famous person in my year group. People stopped picking on me.

Cons: Suspended for a week

 

[Dorogi]

Do something crazy and niggerish. Like win a fist fight. That's like the fastest way to win the respect of people overnight. I remember there was this kid that picked on me when I was in school at like 13/14 and often others would join him in picking on me. I then lost it and hit him so hard he fell over and he had the biggest bruise on his face.

Pros: Instant respect. Became the most famous person in my year group. People stopped picking on me.

Cons: Suspended for a week

Mirin the low inhib but if i do that the whole friendgroup will just be against me and also only 2 days ago i got full on bodyslammed at the gym by this guy that thought it was funny and i just had to laugh it off even tough i lowk wanted to cry probably the best i can do is stop talking to them (fucking hard since we go to the same gym ).

 

[Dorogi]

Do something crazy and niggerish. Like win a fist fight. That's like the fastest way to win the respect of people overnight. I remember there was this kid that picked on me when I was in school at like 13/14 and often others would join him in picking on me. I then lost it and hit him so hard he fell over and he had the biggest bruise on his face.

Pros: Instant respect. Became the most famous person in my year group. People stopped picking on me.

Cons: Suspended for a week

Maybe a good idea at my new school though since more than half the school are immigrants or wiggers trying to be immigrants thus they will only respect nigga actions