Has anyone gotten to this point?

[Deleted member 113833]

You just don’t really care or feel anger towards what other people think about them. I used to be one of those people that would crash out in the past if people called me names or slurs like oh this gook or chink or wtv but overtime I stopped caring. Like you could tell me “all Asian people suck and I don’t wanna live around these bug eyed people” or some shit like that and I wouldn’t bat an eye. Idk maybe it’s just maturing or wtv but I’ve started to realize that not everyone is worth your energy and time

 

[Deleted member 113833]

Bump

 

[slaters]

DNR gook

 

[Deleted member 113833]

DNR gook

JFL

 

[slaters]

You just don’t really care or feel anger towards what other people think about them. I used to be one of those people that would crash out in the past if people called me names or slurs like oh this gook or chink or wtv but overtime I stopped caring. Like you could tell me “all Asian people suck and I don’t wanna live around these bug eyed people” or some shit like that and I wouldn’t bat an eye. Idk maybe it’s just maturing or wtv but I’ve started to realize that not everyone is worth your energy and time

Honestly tho that’s good u just look like a retard if u crash out there was this Indian guy at my school that would get called shit head and he’d go berserk it was funny asf

 

[Glorious King]

 

[Perfectiοn]

i think if ur ethnic the more time u spend on this site the less u care about what people say regarding your ethnicity. so it might be less about you maturing and more about you becoming desensitized to such insults.

idk tho since i dont know you personally.

 

[Deleted member 74902]

You just don’t really care or feel anger towards what other people think about them. I used to be one of those people that would crash out in the past if people called me names or slurs like oh this gook or chink or wtv but overtime I stopped caring. Like you could tell me “all Asian people suck and I don’t wanna live around these bug eyed people” or some shit like that and I wouldn’t bat an eye. Idk maybe it’s just maturing or wtv but I’ve started to realize that not everyone is worth your energy and time

its maturing and realising its waste of time to be mad when you know someone is gonna say the same thing the next day.

 

[Deleted member 74902]

i think if ur ethnic the more time u spend on this site the less u care about what people say regarding your ethnicity. so it might be less about you maturing and more about you becoming desensitized to such insults.

idk tho since i dont know you personally.

i like this anaylsis too but i would say its also maturing, if i was black and everyone here knew that. everyone would call me that hard r, what do i gain by responding to each hate slur comment? nothing? i gain their reaction that they want. Me ignoring them and not caring will stop the hard r slurs being thrown at me, not letting it effect me. I win in that situation if that happens.

 

[gonion wanter]

Yeah eventually you just stop having the energy to care anymore

 

[Deleted member 74902]

Yeah eventually you just stop having the energy to care anymore

because its useless to care on the internet what people say

 

[Perfectiοn]

i like this anaylsis too but i would say its also maturing, if i was black and everyone here knew that. everyone would call me that hard r, what do i gain by responding to each hate slur comment? nothing? i gain their reaction that they want. Me ignoring them and not caring will stop the hard r slurs being thrown at me, not letting it effect me. I win in that situation if that happens.

yea youre right theres definitely maturity in that. i kinda interpreted the maturity aspect as him just growing up and as a result caring less, thats why i said maturity wouldnt change much since people dont necessarily care less about racial slurs as they grow up.

 

[Deleted member 113833]

Honestly tho that’s good u just look like a retard if u crash out there was this Indian guy at my school that would get called shit head and he’d go berserk it was funny asf

lol I just used to be in those right wing spaces and I would try to seek approval but they didn’t accept me (this was like a year back) and it would make me upset but overtime I stopped caring less about shit like politics or things that would make me negative and just focused more on myself. Ofc that meant like not really caring with whatever people said it could be like the worst things like oh this autistic manlet gook

 

[nobodylovesme]

i've never cared about that stuff, tbh. i was always extremely calm for some reason.