Has anyone here gone through a breakup?

[carpe diem]

How did you cope with it and how do you fight the urge to message the person?

Asking for research purposes

 

[StyIix]

How did you cope with it and how do you fight the urge to message the person?

Asking for research purposes

Blocked them tried dating someone new but still ended up missing them it takes time you need to talk about it to accept the fact that there gone.

 

[abzz]

rather than focusing on the positives of being in a relationships, look at the negatives that you experienced. you had less freedom, had to make compromises for her, emotional risks, you had to stay committed, less time for your hobbies, your friends, caring about yourself, you had to spend money on her, you guys argued etc etc. instead of looking at it like:

"muh i just lost this girl im heartbroken, i'm gonna cry in my room like a cucked retard" jfl

look at it like:

"what went wrong? how long before i find the next one? how do i better myself to make her see me differently?"

obviously have your emotional moment, there is nothing wrong with that. you're a human lmao, you should cry naturally. just don't obsess, because we will all experience grief and sadness, we as humans just have to learn how to move on and be better.

i hope this helps chad

 

[crestfallen]

Dude are you fucking 5 years old? Of course everyone here has, jfl

 

[𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚛|𝚜𝚜𝚘𝚗]

How did you cope with it and how do you fight the urge to message the person?

Asking for research purposes

I'd love to help but never been in a relationship so I can't

 

[abzz]

Dude are you fucking 5 years old? Of course everyone here has, jfl

not everyone here is lucky enough man

 

[shkypot]

How did you cope with it and how do you fight the urge to message the person?

Asking for research purposes

I was 14 and I coped with working out and video games

 

[StyIix]

rather than focusing on the positives of being in a relationships, look at the negatives that you experienced. you had less freedom, had to make compromises for her, emotional risks, you had to stay committed, less time for your hobbies, your friends, caring about yourself, you had to spend money on her, you guys argued etc etc. instead of looking at it like:

"muh i just lost this girl im heartbroken, i'm gonna cry in my room like a cucked retard" jfl

look at it like:

"what went wrong? how long before i find the next one? how do i better myself to make her see me differently?"

obviously have your emotional moment, there is nothing wrong with that. you're a human lmao, you should cry naturally. just don't obsess, because we will all experience grief and sadness, we as humans just have to learn how to move on and be better.

i hope this helps chad

Thanks g i broke up with the girl i was using to get over my ex yesterday and honestly its better to just not be in a relationship and focus on myself

 

[abzz]

Thanks g i broke up with the girl i was using to get over my ex yesterday and honestly its better to just not be in a relationship and focus on myself

of course my brother dms are always open if you wanna speak or if you miss her. im sorry to hear about your break up too, there will always be another one, a better one. good luck chad

 

[carpe diem]

Blocked them tried dating someone new but still ended up missing them it takes time you need to talk about it to accept the fact that there gone.

rather than focusing on the positives of being in a relationships, look at the negatives that you experienced. you had less freedom, had to make compromises for her, emotional risks, you had to stay committed, less time for your hobbies, your friends, caring about yourself, you had to spend money on her, you guys argued etc etc. instead of looking at it like:

"muh i just lost this girl im heartbroken, i'm gonna cry in my room like a cucked retard" jfl

look at it like:

"what went wrong? how long before i find the next one? how do i better myself to make her see me differently?"

obviously have your emotional moment, there is nothing wrong with that. you're a human lmao, you should cry naturally. just don't obsess, because we will all experience grief and sadness, we as humans just have to learn how to move on and be better.

i hope this helps chad

I was 14 and I coped with working out and video games

Thanks, guys.

To make things worse, the breakup was in December. Great way to start a new year, right? Lamenting a dead relationship.

And I knew about the blackpill prior to these events, but falling in love blinds you and convinces you that everything is going to be alright. God, why did I trade my brain for a heart? Only a crazy person would that.

In a dark way, this fuels my rage and pushes me to looksmax even further. I won't settle for less than a high-mid-tier-normie, maybe even a low-high-mid-tier-normie. 2026 will be a game-changer for us.

 

[eyewideshut]

I'm terrified of a break up, but i'm a mentalcel fuck up so it's bound to happen one day maybe.

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

insane breakup story: hypergamous ex that dumped me to monkey branch to old friend regrets it

JFL I was with this girl for 3 years and we moved in got engaged then a month later she dumped me and got with another guy a part of my friend group who had just been cheated on by his ex right before. we had been like fighting all the time bitch was super insecure being with me because lowkey i...

looksmax.org

 

[Lamping21]

JFL, I got broken up through text at a Christmas Party on 26/12/2025. Was painful tbh.

I think I had three days of tearing up. I cope here through .org. JFL. I left this forum the day we were together (I'm not really a 2026cel bhais) and now here I am

And I just goon a lot but still going through her reposts on tiktok

 

[shkypot]

Thanks, guys.

To make things worse, the breakup was in December. Great way to start a new year, right? Lamenting a dead relationship.

And I knew about the blackpill prior to these events, but falling in love blinds you and convinces you that everything is going to be alright. God, why did I trade my brain for a heart? Only a crazy person would that.

In a dark way, this fuels my rage and pushes me to looksmax even further. I won't settle for less than a high-mid-tier-normie, maybe even a low-high-mid-tier-normie. 2026 will be a game-changer for us.

Love is like magic and magic is also a illusion

 

[abzz]

Thanks, guys.

To make things worse, the breakup was in December. Great way to start a new year, right? Lamenting a dead relationship.

And I knew about the blackpill prior to these events, but falling in love blinds you and convinces you that everything is going to be alright. God, why did I trade my brain for a heart? Only a crazy person would that.

In a dark way, this fuels my rage and pushes me to looksmax even further. I won't settle for less than a high-mid-tier-normie, maybe even a low-high-mid-tier-normie. 2026 will be a game-changer for us.

ascend and make her jealous king, good luck with everything that you do in 2026

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

JFL, I got broken up through text at a Christmas Party on 26/12/2025. Was painful tbh.

I think I had three days of tearing up. I cope here through .org. JFL. I left this forum the day we were together (I'm not really a 2026cel bhais) and now here I am

And I just goon a lot but still going through her reposts on tiktok

no contact dont look at her shit block everyone associated with her avoid her like the plague delete images remove everything that reminds you of her get on steroids, get tan, tatted, grow that hair out, go party

 

[Lamping21]

no contact dont look at her shit block everyone associated with her avoid her like the plague delete images remove everything that reminds you of her get on steroids, get tan, tatted, grow that hair out, go party

Thank you, bhai for the support

 

[satangoy]

How did you cope with it and how do you fight the urge to message the person?

Asking for research purposes

honestly bro I've experienced a heartbreak without being in a relationship it was just a foid who pulled me extremely close gave me hope for being in a relationship and used me for attention, honestly I was quite literally going insane for the first month but I never texted her after what she did since u gotta have self respect, if u txt her she'll see u like a bitch she can step on and oh i know how hard it is not to txt, best cope is quite literally doing other stuff u enjoy, the worst thing u can do is rot in ur own agony

 

[Deleted member 192671]

How did you cope with it and how do you fight the urge to message the person?

Asking for research purposes

start hating on foids

 

[StyIix]

Thanks, guys.

To make things worse, the breakup was in December. Great way to start a new year, right? Lamenting a dead relationship.

And I knew about the blackpill prior to these events, but falling in love blinds you and convinces you that everything is going to be alright. God, why did I trade my brain for a heart? Only a crazy person would that.

In a dark way, this fuels my rage and pushes me to looksmax even further. I won't settle for less than a high-mid-tier-normie, maybe even a low-high-mid-tier-normie. 2026 will be a game-changer for us.

Exact same situation for me but it was in November after my birthday

 

[envi.matei]

How did you cope with it and how do you fight the urge to message the person?

Asking for research purposes

kinda a breakup and i still miss them but i got blocked and nothing else happened