Has anyone here made Male Friends with online apps?

[sorrowfulsad]

Im tired of having no friends.
The weather is so beautiful outside yet I have no one to spend time with.
Literally no one.
Are there any apps I can make friends with or is it over for over 20 year old celds ?
I also dont have a social circle whatsoever

 

[sorrowfulsad]

 

[Deleted member 18086]

who needs friends when you got hatred?

 

[hebbewem]

Do you have a job or school

 

[sorrowfulsad]

Do you have a job or school

kinda both its an apprenticeship with school and work on different weeks

 

[hebbewem]

kinda both its an apprenticeship with school and work on different weeks

Get friends their

 

[vanillaicecream]

Anyone going on social apps to find male friends is a major cringe loser

 

[Gonthar]

Im tired of having no friends.
The weather is so beautiful outside yet I have no one to spend time with.
Literally no one.
Are there any apps I can make friends with or is it over for over 20 year old celds ?
I also dont have a social circle whatsoever

This is probably even more difficult than getting a girlfriend - you can cold approach random women in real life, online, invite them for a drink, to dinner, to a party, event, etc. and as long as you aren't completely hideous, some would accept your invitation...
Do that with a random guy however and he'll think you're gay or really weird, you're gonna get rejected even more(except if you meet a gay dude).
You make friends in school, college, in various social circles and activity clubs - basically anywhere where you get to spend a lot of time(at least 50-100 hours) with other guys and talk and interact with them regularly. When you're young this happens easily, but it gets more difficult as you age, after college is over, making new friends is almost impossible.

 

[sorrowfulsad]

Get friends their

Just talk to people? Like if I see people smoking or smth I should just talk with them? Sounds aspie af ngl Ive never seen that in the wild
edit: especially when Im talking to males and want male friends, wont they think Im gay ?

 

[sorrowfulsad]

This is probably even more difficult than getting a girlfriend - you can cold approach random women in real life, online, invite them for a drink, to dinner, to a party, event, etc. and as long as you aren't completely hideous, some would accept your invitation...
Do that with a random guy however and he'll think you're gay or really weird, you're gonna get rejected even more(except if you meet a gay dude).
You make friends in school, college, in various social circles and activity clubs - basically anywhere where you get to spend a lot of time(at least 50-100 hours) with other guys and talk and interact with them regularly. When you're young this happens easily, but it gets more difficult as you age, after college is over, making new friends is almost impossible.

You said what I was thinking. Only option would be gay dudes but then I would have to say to them Im bi right now and just want to be friends with then jfl
on the other hand tho, this is how I could achieve a social circle. imagine if the gay dude has tons of girl friends ? One can only dream

 

[hebbewem]

Just talk to people? Like if I see people smoking or smth I should just talk with them? Sounds aspie af ngl Ive never seen that in the wild
edit: especially when Im talking to males and want male friends, wont they think Im gay ?

Talk to your coworkers and classmate. Just do small talk in the beginning

 

[Gonthar]

You said what I was thinking. Only option would be gay dudes but then I would have to say to them Im bi right now and just want to be friends with then jfl
on the other hand tho, this is how I could achieve a social circle. imagine if the gay dude has tons of girl friends ? One can only dream

You need to go to college, or to an activity club, join a hobby group, volunteer group, amateur theater troupe, etc. - whatever will allow you to spend a lot of time near other people, this is the natural, organic way to do it...

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Just talk to people? Like if I see people smoking or smth I should just talk with them? Sounds aspie af ngl Ive never seen that in the wild
edit: especially when Im talking to males and want male friends, wont they think Im gay ?

You said what I was thinking. Only option would be gay dudes but then I would have to say to them Im bi right now and just want to be friends with then jfl
on the other hand tho, this is how I could achieve a social circle. imagine if the gay dude has tons of girl friends ? One can only dream

Its not that theyd think youre gay, its simply impossible to make new friends at certain age with just small talk, because most people who arent teens are friends only because they been known each other for a long time or the person has something what the other needs.

if you dont have friends now then your success rate is getting close to zero, because even if you were lucky theyll very quickly find out youre a loser without friends, which is a repellent for people.

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

your best bet is probably becoming really attractive to women and sneak into a social circle through them. or try to get back in touch with friends from school who already know you. if you can't do that then you're kinda fucked.

 

[sorrowfulsad]

You need to go to college, or to an activity club, join a hobby group, volunteer group, amateur theater troupe, etc. - whatever will allow you to spend a lot of time near other people, this is the natural, organic way to do it...

actually good advice that I didnt really had on my mind. I'll definitely check something out near me. I m tired of making excuses to myself

 

[sorrowfulsad]

Its not that theyd think youre gay, its simply impossible to make new friends at certain age with just small talk, because most people who arent teens are friends only because they been known each other for a long time or the person has something what the other needs.

if you dont have friends now then your success rate is getting close to zero, because even if you were lucky theyll very quickly find out youre a loser without friends, which is a repellent for people.

I guess I have to fake it till I make it to other friend groups and larp that Im not a loser

 

[stamaster21]

Its not that theyd think youre gay, its simply impossible to make new friends at certain age with just small talk, because most people who arent teens are friends only because they been known each other for a long time or the person has something what the other needs.

if you dont have friends now then your success rate is getting close to zero, because even if you were lucky theyll very quickly find out youre a loser without friends, which is a repellent for people.

Thats the crunx of it you make a new friend, he goes on to see you have no friends of your own, and then sees you as a loser, then he starts to avoid you and things fizzle out. With women at least you can get pussy , suck on some toes and try to fuck her good, and she will say he has no friends but at least the sex good.

 

[n0rthface]

@sorrowfulsad lets meet up

 

[sorrowfulsad]

@sorrowfulsad lets meet up

are u german?

 

[.👽.]

making friends is easy bro just go out to a boxing club or some shit and talk to guys, be cool and shit

 

[sorrowfulsad]

making friends is easy bro just go out to a boxing club or some shit and talk to guys, be cool and shit

I had a nose job and jaw surgery I cant risk it tbh even tho Im actually super intersted in mma, boxing, Muay Thai ect but yeah I cant risk it man

 

[.👽.]

I had a nose job and jaw surgery I cant risk it tbh even tho Im actually super intersted in mma, boxing, Muay Thai ect but yeah I cant risk it man

go to any other clubs bro, basketball, motorcycle meetup, try to integrate into your tinder girls friends group etc.

 

[Deleted member 17829]

making friends is easy bro just go out to a boxing club or some shit and talk to guys, be cool and shit

I tried that everyone avoided talking to me there...

 

[sorrowfulsad]

go to any other clubs bro, basketball, motorcycle meetup, try to integrate into your tinder girls friends group etc.

you live in nrw or brandenburg? Ive noticed many berlin cels here and Ill move there next year

 

[.👽.]

you live in nrw or brandenburg? Ive noticed many berlin cels here and Ill move there next year

i live in Berlin, u?

 

[n0rthface]

are u german?

Brit

 

[.👽.]

I tried that everyone avoided talking to me there...

hmm weird maybe u boring or Smth or weird?

 

[n0rthface]

I had a nose job and jaw surgery I cant risk it tbh even tho Im actually super intersted in mma, boxing, Muay Thai ect but yeah I cant risk it man

You can do it 1 year after surgery and you can ask for no face contact sparing

 

[sorrowfulsad]

i live in Berlin, u?

right now cologne thats why I said nrw but yeah Ill move there next year and I got dome family also already living there

 

[.👽.]

right now cologne thats why I said nrw but yeah Ill move there next year and I got dome family also already living there

if u like partying I guess Berlin is good. take care of evil niggas like @BlackBoyo (rip) tho

 

[Deleted member 17829]

hmm weird maybe u boring or Smth or weird?

this is before they even get a chance to speak to me...

 

[Patient A]

who needs friends when you got hatred?

 

[sorrowfulsad]

if u like partying I guess Berlin is good. take care of evil niggas like @BlackBoyo (rip) tho

is he dead or just quitted lmao
yeah I love the clubbing scene and hope to find friends there tbh ngl
berlin has so many people

 

[.👽.]

is he dead or just quitted lmao
yeah I love the clubbing scene and hope to find friends there tbh ngl
berlin has so many people

4 million people but I still cant get a gf goddamn it bro

 

[Gonthar]

I tried that everyone avoided talking to me there...

You need to go to an activity club that you are actually interested in, where people very similar to you also go, if you're am awkward, out of shape nerd and go to a gym where mostly meatheads go, they will probably avoid you.

 

[Deleted member 17829]

You need to go to an activity club that you are actually interested in, where people very similar to you also go, if you're am awkward, out of shape nerd and go to a gym where mostly meatheads go, they will probably avoid you.

I was interested in it, they were all similar to me, im not awkward people just avoid talking to me and never be the first one to make convo with me. i always have to make it and it makes me feel like a beg. and i look reasonably NT, gym, tat, tan maxxed