Has anyone lost something u love in life

[Willmogulater]

I lost my sister a week back she was 20 I'm 21
Its like a big fucking trauma

 

[MaghrebGator]

Another thing you should take in mind is that grief is directly proportional to that which was lost, meaning the value you gave it is the grief you are feeling.

There are two kinds of grief periods, either you completely surpress it until one day all the emotions will come inevitably in one package and drain you of sadness and pain, or gradual normal grief like the one you are experiencing which is the good one. Grief is inevitable, not something bad since it's the mind accepting and adapting to that which was lost, it's part of life and everyone will somehow live it.

Remember deeply what i told you the other day and be aware of it. Also i recommend you not to share with people in this forum your feelings, and focus on real life family and so on when it comes to this. I really encourage you to really start doing sports like weightlifting now, me personally when i lost a loved being i started weightlifting to forget and compensate what was lost and still until today i haven't stopped, and i like it. You can't substitute a human being but you can definetly fill time and make your brain and mind comprehend that it's good to do so, especially in times of pain it's a great moment to reset the body so that he starts perceiving what otherwise seemed difficult chores as something good and interpret it as "That which helped me during my bad times".

 

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Ova

 

[Vincent Freeman]

stop larping

 

[Willmogulater]

stop larping

No man for real

 

[Willmogulater]

Another thing you should take in mind is that grief is directly proportional to that which was lost, meaning the value you gave it is the grief you are feeling.

There are two kinds of grief periods, either you completely surpress it until one day all the emotions will come inevitably in one package and drain you of sadness and pain, or gradual normal grief like the one you are experiencing which is the good one. Grief is inevitable, not something bad since it's the mind accepting and adapting to that which was lost, it's part of life and everyone will somehow live it.

Remember deeply what i told you the other day and be aware of it. Also i recommend you not to share with people in this forum your feelings, and focus on real life family and so on when it comes to this. I really encourage you to really start doing sports like weightlifting now, me personally when i lost a loved being i started weightlifting to forget and compensate what was lost and still until today i haven't stopped, and i like it. You can't substitute a human being but you can definetly fill time and make your brain and mind comprehend that it's good to do so, especially in times of pain it's a great moment to reset the body so that he starts perceiving what otherwise seemed difficult chores as something good and interpret it as "That which helped me during my bad times".

Whom did u lost

 

[Ogionth]

I lost my sister a week back she was 20 I'm 21
Its like a big fucking trauma

are you sad

 

[McSkziofren]

I lost my deeply loved friend on january 10 in a car accident. It was a car accident as i vividly remember it although have little to no idea who could have possibly caused it. Perhaps he took the wrong way.

 

[MaghrebGator]

Whom did u lost

Won't say but a very close family member.

 

[Deleted member 113294]

sorry to hear

like the other guy said, try and cope through a healthy outlet like exercise.

 

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