Has therapy ever worked for anyone here?

[3.5PslAutist]

Basically, early 20s 3.5-4.0 psl guy here 5’10. College was a very lonely experience and interactions for last few years from 18-21 were always weird during my time there and just overall. Making friends was hard felt like I had to do all the work. Zero women looked at me and now I just don’t feel the need to do anything anymore til I hardmax. Tired of being treated weird even by simply going to the grocery store or just small stuff. My parents think im crazy for wanting to do surgery and say face isnt the issue when in reality i think it definitely is. They are trying to convince me to get more therapy despite having phone call convos with a psychologist for a 4-5 months now which has been ok but nothing dramatic. How do i even convince them that im just wasting my time? Or do i consider more therapy stuff?

I been ldaring for last 1.5 years now and kinda just wanna try to hardmaxx if it doesn’t work out or i still don’t look good, guess ill just accept my fate but rather take the chance than continue living this boring empty life.

I would go to a physiatrist for meds but I honestly feel like that’s just a waste of time. Why go around the issue when the real way to solve it is right in front of me? Even small soft maxes I.e growing out hair has helped. Don’t wanna be even more late too, already missed out on a lot now potentially will be even more time wasted just coping with meds.

 

[mortis]

buddy therapy is the biggest scam ever. visit a psychologist that prescribes meds that alter your brain chemistry, that is the only non cope method.

 

[hellostarbucks]

just fight old people

 

[rexd]

Basically, early 20s 3.5-4.0 psl guy here. College was a very lonely experience and interactions for last few years from 18-21 were always weird during my time there and just overall. Making friends was hard felt like I had to do all the work. Zero women looked at me and now I just don’t feel the need to do anything anymore til I hardmax. Tired of being treated weird even by simply going to the grocery store or just small stuff. My parents think im crazy for wanting to do surgery and say face isnt the issue when in reality i think it definitely is. They are trying to convince me to get more therapy despite having phone call convos with a psychologist for a 4-5 months now which has been ok but nothing dramatic. How do i even convince them that im just wasting my time? Or do i consider more therapy stuff?

I been ldaring for last 1.5 years now and kinda just wanna try to hardmaxx if it doesn’t work out or i still don’t look good, guess ill just accept my fate but rather take the chance than continue living this boring empty life.

I would go to a physiatrist for meds but I honestly feel like that’s just a waste of time. Why go around the issue when the real way to solve it is right in front of me? Even small soft maxes I.e growing out hair has helped. Don’t wanna be even more late too, already missed out on a lot now potentially will be even more time wasted just coping with meds.

how tall are you

 

[rexd]

buddy therapy is the biggest scam ever. visit a psychologist that prescribes meds that alter your brain chemistry, that is the only non cope method.

i fully agree

 

[Multivitaminsaft6]

i went to therapy and they were having me do yoga with old women i deadass had rope thought after that bs ,therapy is a scam and the therapists dont care about you

 

[3.5PslAutist]

how tall are you

5’10

 

[mtn_dude_193]

no you will just waste time and money

 

[3.5PslAutist]

Pretty much I’m deciding between maybe just going out and living my life and dropping all this stuff which would be very hard considering treatment and just overall consuming so much knowledge over the years in regards to lookism, try therapy more and waste more time trying to find a way to cope, or go get Trimax and whatever happens happens

Even in like small micro interactions it’s so obvious that there is something off it really annoys me and idk if I can deal with this. Essentially im looking at this like if strangers are treating me like this what’s the point of even trying with women, let alone good looking ones? Even trying to make friends too will be very hard considering I made zero friends in college. Just overall it’s looking not the best if I don’t make a significant change whether that be a planned Trimax or just taking drugs.

 

[tenmacel]

Therapy is $200 an hour for jack shit. Either get meds (SSRIs make you retarded tho be warned) or solve the problem yourself

 

[KazeMG]

Basically, early 20s 3.5-4.0 psl guy here 5’10. College was a very lonely experience and interactions for last few years from 18-21 were always weird during my time there and just overall. Making friends was hard felt like I had to do all the work. Zero women looked at me and now I just don’t feel the need to do anything anymore til I hardmax. Tired of being treated weird even by simply going to the grocery store or just small stuff. My parents think im crazy for wanting to do surgery and say face isnt the issue when in reality i think it definitely is. They are trying to convince me to get more therapy despite having phone call convos with a psychologist for a 4-5 months now which has been ok but nothing dramatic. How do i even convince them that im just wasting my time? Or do i consider more therapy stuff?

I been ldaring for last 1.5 years now and kinda just wanna try to hardmaxx if it doesn’t work out or i still don’t look good, guess ill just accept my fate but rather take the chance than continue living this boring empty life.

I would go to a physiatrist for meds but I honestly feel like that’s just a waste of time. Why go around the issue when the real way to solve it is right in front of me? Even small soft maxes I.e growing out hair has helped. Don’t wanna be even more late too, already missed out on a lot now potentially will be even more time wasted just coping with meds.

Nah I did therapy at 9, 12-13, and after growing up realized ts was useless waste of time didnt help

 

[AtrophicPyra]

Basically, early 20s 3.5-4.0 psl guy here 5’10. College was a very lonely experience and interactions for last few years from 18-21 were always weird during my time there and just overall. Making friends was hard felt like I had to do all the work. Zero women looked at me and now I just don’t feel the need to do anything anymore til I hardmax. Tired of being treated weird even by simply going to the grocery store or just small stuff. My parents think im crazy for wanting to do surgery and say face isnt the issue when in reality i think it definitely is. They are trying to convince me to get more therapy despite having phone call convos with a psychologist for a 4-5 months now which has been ok but nothing dramatic. How do i even convince them that im just wasting my time? Or do i consider more therapy stuff?

I been ldaring for last 1.5 years now and kinda just wanna try to hardmaxx if it doesn’t work out or i still don’t look good, guess ill just accept my fate but rather take the chance than continue living this boring empty life.

I would go to a physiatrist for meds but I honestly feel like that’s just a waste of time. Why go around the issue when the real way to solve it is right in front of me? Even small soft maxes I.e growing out hair has helped. Don’t wanna be even more late too, already missed out on a lot now potentially will be even more time wasted just coping with meds.

ppl who advocate for therapy r low iq

drugs are the only non cope thing that help u

 

[3.5PslAutist]

buddy therapy is the biggest scam ever. visit a psychologist that prescribes meds that alter your brain chemistry, that is the only non cope method.

would u recommend hardmaxxing then?

 

[Mukerflap]

If u have no friends, the way you look is completely irrelevant and its unlikely a surgery is going to fix all ur issues, which is not to spout bluepill ofc but literally any subhuman 2/10 guy can make friends. therapy is expensive and not going to help, i suggest u hop on test and an SSRI or MAOI and utilise pregabalin weekly

 

[3.5PslAutist]

If u have no friends, the way you look is completely irrelevant and its unlikely a surgery is going to fix all ur issues, which is not to spout bluepill ofc but literally any subhuman 2/10 guy can make friends. therapy is expensive and not going to help, i suggest u hop on test and an SSRI or MAOI and utilise pregabalin weekly

good pregab advice, idk about test i already look older than my age. I don’t think the friend thing you said is true at all especially in this current world for me at my age rn. i had the experiences i mentioned in 2022-2023 can’t imagine how much more superficial people have become within that span of time. i probs could make friends but the amount of effort I’d have to put in to make them would not be worth the type of friends I would make. strongly believe if I was better looking it would be immensely easier to make friends and my college experience would have been drastically different.

i don’t u think u have to be good looking to make friends but being certified average looking or above makes it much easier