Hating yourself for being incel is retarded ngl

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And the reason is that in doing so you are assuming you are missing out on something that most people aren't. This isn't true. Despite what normies say being a sexual failure is actually the norm. One of the biggest problems with these polls showing only 10-30% of males are incel in the west today (which by itself is still pretty large) is that it doesn't account for the fact that most of these "not incels" still have absolutely garbage sex lives. There's legitimately not that many people who actually have genuinely GOOD sex. As in, get to have sex with actually hot women that they WANT to fuck. Maybe it will happen to some of them once in their entire fucking life, but most will never experience it.

By watching romance shows (or anime shite in case you are a weeb or whatever these freaks call themselves) and then hating yourself for not having that kind of life you are basically hating yourself for not having something that almost nobody has anyway. Even most chads don't actually get to live like this since most of their slays will still come from normie foids.

Stop hating yourself it's pointless srs.
 
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nope
normies get laid pretty often
 
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nope
normies get laid pretty often

They actually really don't. I'm 90% convinced that the proportional majority of males will not have more than 3-5 sex partners in their lifetime, vs the dozens or even hundreds that many women let alone chads have.
 
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They actually really don't. I'm 90% convinced that the proportional majority of males will not have more than 3-5 sex partners in their lifetime, vs the dozens or even hundreds that many women let alone chads have.
Ur right they dont tbh
 
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Most incels are lazy shits tho who just wait inside their houses for a woman to knock and take their virginity.
I know there are some real truecels, but most incels are just straight up lazy and that's the sole reason for their problems in life.
 
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Most incels are lazy shits tho who just wait inside their houses for a woman to knock and take their virginity.
I know there are some real truecels, but most incels are just straight up lazy and that's the sole reason for their problems in life.

I tried dating sites and it went nowhere. I even got desperate enough to hit on some fat chick with a horrible skin disorder. She still turned me down. I've hit on women in bars/nightclubs only to be brutally rejected. And I mean BRUTALLY. As in, they didn't even make any effort at being polite with the rejection and just outright lashed out at me. Women are literally sociopaths whom are incapable of empathy. People are just a means to an end to them. The "unattractive males are sub-humans to women" trope isn't just a meme. Women actually do think this way. Female bosses will also treat uglier male workers like utter shit for no reason other than their appearance.

Tbh I find it absolutely mind blowing that most men can't see this when it's so stupidly obvious. Their egos probably just can't handle the truth.
 
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I tried dating sites and it went nowhere. I even got desperate enough to hit on some fat chick with a horrible skin disorder. She still turned me down. I've hit in women on bars/nightclubs only to be brutally rejected. And I mean BRUTALLY. As in, they didn't even make any effort at being polite with the rejection and just outright lashed out at me. Women are literally sociopaths whom are incapable of empathy. People are just a means to an end to them. The "unattractive males are sub-humans to women" trope isn't just a meme. Women actually do think this way. Female bosses will also treat uglier male workers like utter shit for no reason other than their appearance.

Tbh I find it absolutely mind blowing that most men can't see this when it's so stupidly obvious. Their egos probably just can't handle the truth.
I have no idea how you look or are you a truecel, but many guys just expect to get a girl just by showing up and being nice. It's like a guy who applies to a job he has no qualifications for. Life isn't fair, some guy is born with damn good looks, some guy is born into a rich family and someone is born ugly and poor. But everyone who is not utterly deformed/midget tier can get a decent girl if he plays his cards right. It's gonna take some work like all things in life, if you want a nice car, do you just show up to a car dealership and ask nicely if you can have one of their cars or are you going to work your butt off to get one?

I know, women have it easy, they can just be fat & ugly and still get guys, but we're not women and we don't want to be women, so why do we trouble our heads with what women get/do? Completely irrelevant to us men.

Go to gym, looksmax, get the surgeries & money you need. Women follow successful men like sheep.
 
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I have no idea how you look or are you a truecel, but many guys just expect to get a girl just by showing up and being nice. It's like a guy who applies to a job he has no qualifications for. Life isn't fair, some guy is born with damn good looks, some guy is born into a rich family and someone is born ugly and poor. But everyone who is not utterly deformed/midget tier can get a decent girl if he plays his cards right. It's gonna take some work like all things in life, if you want a nice car, do you just show up to a car dealership and ask nicely if you can have one of their cars or are you going to work your butt off to get one?

I know, women have it easy, they can just be fat & ugly and still get guys, but we're not women and we don't want to be women, so why do we trouble our heads with what women get/do? Completely irrelevant to us men.

Go to gym, looksmax, get the surgeries & money you need. Women follow successful men like sheep.

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1. I tried gymaxxing for a while. It's pointless bullshit for two reasons: 1. If you have a narrow frame like I do then it's literally pointless since lifting will not change your bones. A narrow frame will always look low T no matter the amount of muscle. 2. Natural lifting is a massive scam. Steroids are a MUST if you want to get anywhere at all. Ib4 the copers.

2. Life outcomes are also mostly the byproduct of immutable factors. Things like looks, IQ, voice, height, race, not being aspie etc will all make a massive difference. If those things suck then you are fucked.
 
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I am very open about that I despise myself
 
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Most incels are lazy shits tho who just wait inside their houses for a woman to knock and take their virginity.
I know there are some real truecels, but most incels are just straight up lazy and that's the sole reason for their problems in life.
Not virgin, but this is my biggest problem

I'm lazy beyond belief
 
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Thanks to this site I have learned to accept my genetics and myself for who I am, however there are some character traits I have which I despise and work on fixing
 
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I hate my parents for being ethnics
 
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I have sex quite often, thanks to cold approaching in the super market. :feelsokman:
 
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This is a bullshit cope. "Family values" is garbage the government made up to cuck men into being harder workers, thus making them more money. In actual reality women don't give a shit about family and will divorce rape you. Or if they don't they will make your life suck. My parents have been together for decades and are one of those rare cases of this not happening (though it almost did at one point) but they still dislike each other. There is no love between them at all. "Muh family" is a bullshit cope.
You definitely have family, friends, or people to talk to. Let me ask you something man. Want to see my room?

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If I hung myself from that fan, nobody would come checking on me. My body would lie there until someone smelled it decomposing, and then come in to see what the smell is after weeks of rotting.

Want to know the last time my mother opened my bedroom door? About 7 or 8 months ago. I wagecuck, come home, sit down, go to sleep, wake up, and do it again. You have no idea what's its like. The sheer loneliness, the isolation, it's horrible. I think about roping about 5 hours every day all together.

Humans are social creatures that require social interaction. The reason why loneliness hurts so much is because just a few thousand years ago, rejection from the tribe and being alone would have been a literal death sentence for you. And depression is a form of pain for your brain, and pain is your body telling you something is not right.

You try living my life, go live by yourself with no friends at all and no family or money and tell me how that goes for you, it won't go well I'll tell you that.
 
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@disillusioned, what's your name on incels.is ?
 
@curryslayerordeath thoughts?
 
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You definitely have family, friends, or people to talk to. Let me ask you something man. Want to see my room?

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If I hung myself from that fan, nobody would come checking on me. My body would lie there until someone smelled it decomposing, and then come in to see what the smell is after weeks of rotting.

Want to know the last time my mother opened my bedroom door? About 7 or 8 months ago. I wagecuck, come home, sit down, go to sleep, wake up, and do it again. You have no idea what's its like. The sheer loneliness, the isolation, it's horrible. I think about roping about 5 hours every day all together.

Humans are social creatures that require social interaction. The reason why loneliness hurts so much is because just a few thousand years ago, rejection from the tribe and being alone would have been a literal death sentence for you. And depression is a form of pain for your brain, and pain is your body telling you something is not right.

You try living my life, go live by yourself with no friends at all and no family or money and tell me how that goes for you, it won't go well I'll tell you that.
At least you're not ethnic.
 
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OP haven't you fucked like two landwhales before?
 
Well most guys cannot ‘slay’ tons of girls but I’d say a good %of guys can have satisfying sex with a girl they’re attracted to within a relationship. Getting consistent sex with a large number of normie tier girls okay now that’s a lot harder
 
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You definitely have family, friends, or people to talk to. Let me ask you something man. Want to see my room?

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If I hung myself from that fan, nobody would come checking on me. My body would lie there until someone smelled it decomposing, and then come in to see what the smell is after weeks of rotting.

Want to know the last time my mother opened my bedroom door? About 7 or 8 months ago. I wagecuck, come home, sit down, go to sleep, wake up, and do it again. You have no idea what's its like. The sheer loneliness, the isolation, it's horrible. I think about roping about 5 hours every day all together.

Humans are social creatures that require social interaction. The reason why loneliness hurts so much is because just a few thousand years ago, rejection from the tribe and being alone would have been a literal death sentence for you. And depression is a form of pain for your brain, and pain is your body telling you something is not right.

You try living my life, go live by yourself with no friends at all and no family or money and tell me how that goes for you, it won't go well I'll tell you that.
How old are you and which job u wagecuck?
 
19 and work in retail but I've had 4 jobs before this warehousing, retail, and glass manufacturing
Mogs me. I am 20 and have not worked a minute in my whole life.
 
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Mogs me. I am 20 and have not worked a minute in my whole life.
It's not hard bro just apply and interviews are bullshit just look good and answer their questions and they will hire you. It's literally like everything else. I wanted to work at a hard working place so for the interview I walked in with a white shirt, cheap ripped jeans, and a pair of wolverine work boots. Best interview I ever had and the guy who interviewed me ended up being my manager now. Best job I've ever had too I throw bricks outside and mulch and shit.
 
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@curryslayerordeath thoughts?

@disillusioned

Tbh, most people don't hate themselves for being "incel" or not for getting laid. There's many ways to get sex thru having an active social life or just propinquity with random girls along with lowered standards. The part that causes people to be depressed and hate themselves is knowing that you are in an inferior place and have to kinda work harder to achieve a sliver of the results that someone else has just because of tiny variations in DNA. It is very brutal to realize that you live in a different reality to some relatively common members of the same society and there is no one to blame but yourself. Especially since most here aren't true incels but more of failed-normies ish.
 
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I wish this were so, but it’s cope. Normies have sex enough.
Not only did we miss out, but we are missing out right now.
 
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I wish this were so, but it’s cope. Normies have sex enough.
Not only did we miss out, but we are missing out right now.
Normie have sex but not often
 
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Normie have sex but not often
Cope, I have fucking seen it happen. I have witnessed it. Chads get even more and easier, but Normies do have sex and regularly.
 
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@disillusioned

Tbh, most people don't hate themselves for being "incel" or not for getting laid. There's many ways to get sex thru having an active social life or just propinquity with random girls along with lowered standards. The part that causes people to be depressed and hate themselves is knowing that you are in an inferior place and have to kinda work harder to achieve a sliver of the results that someone else has just because of tiny variations in DNA. It is very brutal to realize that you live in a different reality to some relatively common members of the same society and there is no one to blame but yourself. Especially since most here aren't true incels but more of failed-normies ish.
EINSTEIN IQ

A certain percentage of incels could likely fuck a sub5 foid by jumping through 50 hoops, but the juice ain't worth the squeeze
 
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Cope, I have fucking seen it happen. I have witnessed it. Chads get even more and easier, but Normies do have sex and regularly.
you've watched normies shove their penises into a foids vagina?
 
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Inspirational from squidnigg
 
This is a bullshit cope. "Family values" is garbage the government made up to cuck men into being harder workers, thus making them more money. In actual reality women don't give a shit about family and will divorce rape you. Or if they don't they will make your life suck. My parents have been together for decades and are one of those rare cases of this not happening (though it almost did at one point) but they still dislike each other. There is no love between them at all. "Muh family" is a bullshit cope.
Cuckservative family supporters just want worker drones to exploit. Work harder for less money so the boss gets a new Super Yacht.
 
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You definitely have family, friends, or people to talk to. Let me ask you something man. Want to see my room?

View attachment 488720
If I hung myself from that fan, nobody would come checking on me. My body would lie there until someone smelled it decomposing, and then come in to see what the smell is after weeks of rotting.

Want to know the last time my mother opened my bedroom door? About 7 or 8 months ago. I wagecuck, come home, sit down, go to sleep, wake up, and do it again. You have no idea what's its like. The sheer loneliness, the isolation, it's horrible. I think about roping about 5 hours every day all together.

Humans are social creatures that require social interaction. The reason why loneliness hurts so much is because just a few thousand years ago, rejection from the tribe and being alone would have been a literal death sentence for you. And depression is a form of pain for your brain, and pain is your body telling you something is not right.

You try living my life, go live by yourself with no friends at all and no family or money and tell me how that goes for you, it won't go well I'll tell you that.
@Native

if you had a 6/10 white girlfriend your life would go from 1/10 to 10/10 in a heartbeat
 
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Stop hating yourself it's pointless srs.
How am I supposed to live as 24 years old kissless hugless handholdless touchless conversationless ioiless approachless complimentless virgin and not hate?

When kids as young as 15 are getting first kisses some even sex, I never even got to touch a woman or had any clear signal that at any point ever.

Fuck this shit thread
 
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How am I supposed to live as 24 years old kissless hugless handholdless touchless conversationless ioiless approachless complimentless virgin and not hate?

When kids as young as 15 are getting first kisses some even sex, I never even got to touch a woman or had any clear signal that at any point ever.

Fuck this shit thread
escortmax
 
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Ya but normies still get to cuddle, hold hands, have social circle and through that connections to work cool jobs. I hate being a KHHV. I'd rather have someone to cuddle with and kiss, even if I can't get sex.
 
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Im 24 and KHHV, could I get someone if I tried hard enough ?
Yes, but the effort required would be INSANE, not to mention the constant jestering and faking NT behaviour to keep up the relationship.

My genetically inferior stats are what make me hate myself.
The absolute BEST version of myself would still result in a MEDIOCRE life.
I cannot run away from my 5'7 narrow body.
I cannot run away from non-NTness.

Sure a GF would be nice but at this point its just a temporary fix and it will fade.
 
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1. I tried gymaxxing for a while. It's pointless bullshit for two reasons: 1. If you have a narrow frame like I do then it's literally pointless since lifting will not change your bones. A narrow frame will always look low T no matter the amount of muscle. 2. Natural lifting is a massive scam. Steroids are a MUST if you want to get anywhere at all. Ib4 the copers.

2. Life outcomes are also mostly the byproduct of immutable factors. Things like looks, IQ, voice, height, race, not being aspie etc will all make a massive difference. If those things suck then you are fucked.
There's lots of things you can do bro, a good amount of users on the "incelsphere" have ascended, so dont use "muhh imutable" as an excuse
 
Well most guys cannot ‘slay’ tons of girls but I’d say a good %of guys can have satisfying sex with a girl they’re attracted to within a relationship. Getting consistent sex with a large number of normie tier girls okay now that’s a lot harder
Ya but normies still get to cuddle, hold hands, have social circle and through that connections to work cool jobs. I hate being a KHHV. I'd rather have someone to cuddle with and kiss, even if I can't get sex.

So much cope. None of the normie dudes I grew up with ended up having great relationships. All of them either ended up single or they got married to some 5/10 foid that almost immediately got fat and will probably divorce rape them at some point. Women despite what they say actually don't really care for romance. The reason they droll over books like Twilight is because of ego reasons. They love the idea of a handsome giga-chad chasing after them because it boosts their ego and makes them feel attractive. But by absolutely no stretch of the immagination do they give a shit about their partner on any personal level. They just see them the same way they see everything else: As an extension of themselves.

Nobody has actually satisfying relationships. Not even chad. Even chad will eventually be treated like crap by his "lover". Why do you think normies cope with the "relationships are hard work" bullshit? It's because they cope by telling themselves that just like there are upsides to relationships there are also large downsides. This is so much fucking bullshit. Imagine if you applied this logic to just regular friendships, imagine if somebody said "well this person is a piece of shit 50% of the time but he's also somewhat cool the other 50% of the time so it balances out!". See how this makes no sense?

There are no good relationships. Period. Normies just play mental gymnastics to convince themselves that things aren't so bad, sort of like how an abused wive will tolerate chad's abuse if he's hot enough.
 
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