Have you ever cold approached a girl

[Helvetier]

If yes then where and how did you do it?

 

[IliaTopuria]

Got her snap

 

[Helvetier]

Got her snap

Stabil

 

[White_Bwoi]

Many times, but wasted like 100 chances when I had clear "IOI's" and didn't do shit...
Only go when she give you the signals, in club/pub/friggin library/cafee it's pointless PUA bullshit to harass strangers out of the blue on the street in the middle of the day JFL

 

[T50ogrecel]

Fuck no

 

[White_Bwoi]

Many times, but wasted like 100 chances when I had clear "IOI's" and didn't do shit...
Only go when she give you the signals, in club/pub/friggin library/cafee it's pointless PUA bullshit to harass strangers out of the blue on the street in the middle of the day JFL

how? You need to smile and say "hi"

 

[Deleted member 2100]

Many times, but wasted like 100 chances when I had clear "IOI's" and didn't do shit...
Only go when she give you the signals, in club/pub/friggin library/cafee it's pointless PUA bullshit to harass strangers out of the blue on the street in the middle of the day JFL

How do u get signals to cold approach?

 

[Deleted member 2100]

how? You need to smile and say "hi"

Smile when you’re walking by? What if she isn’t looking at you.

 

[cooIguy]

in the club
she said she got a bf
but that was the only time

 

[tyquese]

no never, im a bitch so the most id do is a low t fag move and text them rather than approach

 

[Saint]

If yes then where and how did you do it?

Will soon bhai will soon

 

[Helvetier]

in the club
she said she got a bf
but that was the only time

Hate doing it in the club, its to loud so you have to scream like a faggot

 

[Helvetier]

Will soon bhai will soon

You have a specific person in mind?

 

[Saint]

Hate doing it in the club, its to loud so you have to scream like a faggot

In the club just go up to the them and dance with them most likely they will not care

 

[cooIguy]

Hate doing it in the club, its to loud so you have to scream like a faggot

yeah that was ass
i was chopped back then
but at least i got approached day later

 

[Saint]

You have a specific person in mind?

Not really but in my uni sometimes I ND stare girls whilst walking and they sometimes look at me and smile. I’m still too bloated to have a decent confidence levels

 

[Deleted member 2100]

Not really but in my uni sometimes I ND stare girls whilst walking and they sometimes look at me and smile. I’m still too bloated to have a decent confidence levels

I used to do this when I was leaner

 

[Helvetier]

In the club just go up to the them and dance with them most likely they will not care

Need to inhibmaxx with alc before I dance with them

yeah that was ass
i was chopped back then
but at least i got approached day later

mirin

Not really but in my uni sometimes I ND stare girls whilst walking and they sometimes look at me and smile. I’m still too bloated to have a decent confidence levels

Go to a uni parti and inhibmax a bit then you can approach them

 

[Saint]

You have a specific person in mind?

Not really but in my uni sometimes I ND stare girls whilst walking and they sometimes look at me and smile. I’m still too bloated to have a decent confidence levels

Today for example I was chilling in the library and there was a calculator on my desk and a girl was sitting next to me. I asked her if that was her calculator because it was on my desk and said no. 3-5 seconds later she took her headphones out and said “sorry I didn’t hear you omg” whilst smiling and looking at my eyes. She wasn’t the best looking but still I was a pussy to do anything else so I just smiled back and said Nws. Rambles

 

[Saint]

Need to inhibmaxx with alc before I dance with them

mirin

Go to a uni parti and inhibmax a bit then you can approach them

Uni parties too easy

 

[White_Bwoi]

How do u get signals to cold approach?

As i understand what 'cold approach' is - a girl that you don't know / she's not in your social circle, but it's not "out of the blue" stranger on the street, even Gandy would look uncanny asking random girls "what time is it" or some shit lol.

How? It's always pretty obvious, all they do is STARE at you, repeatedly 'inviting' you to come say 'hi'.
Nervously open up tinder to find you / stand close to you ordering something at the bar, pretty basic stuff, they are so afraid of rejection, often introverted they don't blatantly walk to you in most cases ;(

I need to find a good wingman tho it's more natural to start a convo, then being a creep alone

 

[Anamnesis]

too much inhibition

 

[Helvetier]

Uni parties too easy

Can you tell me bit how to slay there bcs i am going to uni in 1-2 years, do I have to be htn to slay easily (ofc i could slay as mtn but its probably gonna be harder) and how tall do i have to be ect?

 

[White_Bwoi]

There is also 2 milion thread about it, even a few by some high iq og's, guides even so it's maybe water to talk about this basic stuff mang

 

[Deleted member 2100]

As i understand what 'cold approach' is - a girl that you don't know / she's not in your social circle, but it's not "out of the blue" stranger on the street, even Gandy would look uncanny asking random girls "what time is it" or some shit lol.

How? It's always pretty obvious, all they do is STARE at you, repeatedly 'inviting' you to come say 'hi'.
Nervously open up tinder to find you / stand close to you ordering something at the bar, pretty basic stuff, they are so afraid of rejection, often introverted they don't blatantly walk to you in most cases ;(

I need to find a good wingman tho it's more natural to start a convo, then being a creep alone

That’s a warm approach tho, cold approach is when you meet someone random on the street. Getting iois is warm approach.

 

[Deleted member 2100]

There is also 2 milion thread about it, even a few by some high iq og's, guides even so it's maybe water to talk about this basic stuff mang

Do u know of any threads on it?

 

[Galvatron]

If yes then where and how did you do it?

Yeah I have and it’s the excuses “have a bf” (she was lesbian) or that her phone was dead so now I don’t try and see if any will come to me because I’m a gem amongst thousands of rocks now

 

[Saint]

Can you tell me bit how to slay there bcs i am going to uni in 1-2 years, do I have to be htn to slay easily (ofc i could slay as mtn but its probably gonna be harder) and how tall do i have to be ect?

It’s so much easier to slay in parties. You just need to be at least 5 foot 9 mtn facially and you’ll be surprised how many girls will dance with you and talk to you. I know this is retarded but be confident and not scared because most of the time they won’t remember most of it anyway JFL

 

[Tigermoggerlol]

If yes then where and how did you do it?

Never done it

 

[theinhibmaxxer]

Nope never

 

[theinhibmaxxer]

It’s so much easier to slay in parties. You just need to be at least 5 foot 9 mtn facially and you’ll be surprised how many girls will dance with you and talk to you. I know this is retarded but be confident and not scared because most of the time they won’t remember most of it anyway JFL

Yeah I've always thought that I could slay at one if I wanted to but my inhibition doesn't allow me to unfortunately

 

[valentine]

no sounds stupid

 

[Laqi]

If yes then where and how did you do it?

yes in train, Got her insta almost slayed

 

[Helvetier]

It’s so much easier to slay in parties. You just need to be at least 5 foot 9 mtn facially and you’ll be surprised how many girls will dance with you and talk to you. I know this is retarded but be confident and not scared because most of the time they won’t remember most of it anyway JFL

glad to hear that, my problem is mostly looking confident, sometimes in some situations i am very confident and sometimes I am insecure but it don’t know why and when. But when I have alc then i should always be confident, still tryna reach htn till uni cus my chances as a 6‘-6‘1 htn will be much better

 

[pingu]

Cold approach is a cope for sub5s. Unless you're tall with a chad jaw you'll come off as a creep. Focus on ascending – gym, grooming, status – and rely on choosing signals. You can't force attraction.

 

[Helvetier]

Never done it

You should try it, really helps with inhibmaxxing

Yeah I've always thought that I could slay at one if I wanted to but my inhibition doesn't allow me to unfortunately

drink something then

no sounds stupid

why

yes in train, Got her insta almost slayed

Mirin

 

[White_Bwoi]

That’s a warm approach tho, cold approach is when you meet someone random on the street. Getting iois is warm approach.

Definition may vary, but warm approach for me is when you're from same social circle, work together and stuff mang...
By your logic only cold approach is millisecond after your eyes cross you must go say something to her
That's not how it works, you need to be 'invited', if she is avoiding looking at you at all cost that probably mean 'don't you dare talk to me subhuman',

 

[Saint]

glad to hear that, my problem is mostly looking confident, sometimes in some situations i am very confident and sometimes I am insecure but it don’t know why and when. But when I have alc then i should always be confident, still tryna reach htn till uni cus my chances as a 6‘-6‘1 htn will be much better

Hope you ascend for uni bro

 

[theinhibmaxxer]

You should try it, really helps with inhibmaxxing

drink something then

why

Mirin

Never tried drinking but have taken stuff like phenibut pregabalin baclofen doesn't remove the most brutal pill of them all the NT pill

 

[valentine]

why

if she says no what am i supposed to do. that would ruin my reputation forever and just the fact i have to approach some stupid foid instead of her approaching me is already disrespectful enough. i just wouldnt ever approach anyone first

 

[theinhibmaxxer]

if she says no what am i supposed to do. that would ruin my reputation forever and just the fact i have to approach some stupid foid instead of her approaching me is already disrespectful enough. i just wouldnt ever approach anyone first

If she says no then you just find someone else? Who gives a fuck about your reputation I don't think people have that much time to care that you got rejected by one girl.

 

[Helvetier]

Hope you ascend for uni bro

Thanks brahh, need to get my money up so I can afford ascension (jew shit) but I started wageslaving so i should be able to do it

Never tried drinking but have taken stuff like phenibut pregabalin baclofen doesn't remove the most brutal pill of them all the NT pill

trust me try drinking

if she says no what am i supposed to do. that would ruin my reputation forever and just the fact i have to approach some stupid foid instead of her approaching me is already disrespectful enough. i just wouldnt ever approach anyone first

good point but I don’t care much abt that cus when your with normies they wouldn’t really understand your point so i rather just approach girls