Have you ever got rid of a male friend? If so, for what reason?

[Deleted member 2527]

Have you ever stopped hanging around a guy, what did he do?

I had a long term buddy who used to talk mad shit about our friends behind their backs, so pretty naturally I assumed he was doing the same behind my back.

he would often say shit that really he should have kept quiet about, often overstepping the mark.

Naturally as you hang around someone, they collect information on you, so I decided it was too much of a liability to be friends with this dude. Stopped talking to him and blocked on social media.

funny thing was he was always afraid of others gossiping behind his back about stuff he did

 

[The Bleach Pill]

I cut off alot of friends due to disrespect and some cause they were low T fags.

 

[Deleted member 7465]

Friends don't exist past 16, in my experience at least.

 

[The Bleach Pill]

Friends don't exist past 16, in my experience at least.

almost 18 and have like 2 friends if that.

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Friends don't exist past 16, in my experience at least.

friends never existed in the way you think they do. All friendships are conditional based on your coolness/humour/status/resources. Don’t think this isn’t true for a second.

but some people are definitely better to hang around than others. Some people are more loyal than others too, as long as that loyalty isnt detrimental to them.

other people are dirtbags and will be malevolent even if it doesn’t even benefit them.

 

[Deleted member 5694]

Yes, and for the exact same reasons as you, OP

 

[Deleted member 7465]

almost 18 and have like 2 friends if that.

Yeah, I've noticed as I got older the amount of people I considered friends decreased dramatically.

 

[johncruz12345]

I dont like talking to toxic and needy friends tbh.

 

[Deleted member 7098]

Have you ever stopped hanging around a guy, what did he do?

I had a long term buddy who used to talk mad shit about our friends behind their backs, so pretty naturally I assumed he was doing the same behind my back.

he would often say shit that really he should have kept quiet about, often overstepping the mark.

Naturally as you hang around someone, they collect information on you, so I decided it was too much of a liability to be friends with this dude. Stopped talking to him and blocked on social media.

funny thing was he was always afraid of others gossiping behind his back about stuff he did

i've cut out former friends for openly talking about secrets i've told them. shit that really got me in trouble and they didn't even thought it was a big deal afterwards instead of apologising

 

[Nisse]

Really hard to find real friends tbh, 95% of people are evil

 

[Eezz]

I dont make friends tbh maybe allies for mutual favors but thats it, trust no one

 

[Nisse]

People only hit you up when they need something from you, youre just a puppet for them, for example i once threw a party and everyone suddenly was my friend, getting follows on ig etc. Then 2 weeks later i lose 30 followers on ig and my so called friends dont talk to me.

And then when they throw parties you arent even invited, and then when you ask can you join they just hit you with the classic "its full sorry"

Such bullshit, i cant imagine being such an asshole

 

[Deleted member 7098]

People only hit you up when they need something from you, youre just a puppet for them, for example i once threw a party and everyone suddenly was my friend, getting follows on ig etc. Then 2 weeks later i lose 30 followers on ig and my so called friends dont talk to me.

And then when they throw parties you arent even invited, and then when you ask can you join they just hit you with the classic "its full sorry"

Such bullshit, i cant imagine being such an asshole

i miss your avi, boyo

 

[Nisse]

i miss your avi, boyo

Same tbh but i dont want to be a woman worshipping cuck, this one is based

 

[Deleted member 6095]

Friends don't exist past 16, in my experience at least.

I made a real friend thru incel forums tbh. Native and I met thru shortcels as both being 6'3 JFL. We talk about actual interesting stuff rather than most people's "friends" who just use them for stuff.

 

[sytyl]

I made a real friend thru incel forums tbh. Native and I met thru shortcels as both being 6'3 JFL. We talk about actual interesting stuff rather than most people's "friends" who just use them for stuff.

bro how are you 6'3 with a 3 inch dick
fucking brutal

 

[Deleted member 6095]

bro how are you 6'3 with a 3 inch dick
fucking brutal

It's over

 

[EckhartTollemaxx]

friends never existed in the way you think they do. All friendships are conditional based on your coolness/humour/status/resources. Don’t think this isn’t true for a second.

but some people are definitely better to hang around than others. Some people are more loyal than others too, as long as that loyalty isnt detrimental to them.

other people are dirtbags and will be malevolent even if it doesn’t even benefit them.

Almost exactly what i'd have written.

 

[Gargantuan]

Yh I got rid of a friend 2 years ago, whom I had been friends with for over 4 years at the time.
Basically he would talk shit about you if you weren't in his presence, all of our mutual friends had confirmed this phenomenon to be true. Some ended up forgiving him, but I did not.

During our last conversation, I confronted him about it, at my best friend's house. He was visibly scared because he could see I was holding back anger when I was talking to him.
After he had left later on that night, my best friend told me that he thought I was gonna beat him and get violent during the conversation because he too could sense my anger towards him and noted that I had heavily dilated pupils as well.

It's a miracle I didn't physically harm him for talking shit behind my back ngl.

 

[Deleted member 3055]

ghosted and blocked a best friend of 3.5 years
i was never as close to a friend as i was to him, and will never be. we had our moments but he was a narcissistic sociopath

he tried to forbid me from talking to one guy who he thought was a bad influence on me (jealousy, obviously), made me reassure multiple times that i am his best friend and he is mine, and was obsessed with me in general

too bad i was a kid and instead of letting him know that he is being too much, i just blocked and ghosted him
at one point when he could not contact me in any way he literally walked to my house with his eyes cried out, begging for me to be friends again, but i just stood there saying nothing. it was very brutal and very sad

interestingly enough, i turned out to be EXACTLY like the person he was. being a little older and having his personality traits now i understand all his decisions and actions, and know exactly how he must have felt when i abandoned him

 

[benchortable]

Friends don't exist past 16, in my experience at least.

yup for sure
anyone Ive met after the age of 16 or so I can never consider a friend. Thankfully I still have a couple left from back then

 

[Deleted member 7776]

I've never had male friends to begin with. No femoid friends, either.

Might be my autism, but I actually am not that sad about it. All relationships (friendship, LTR, hook-up, FWB) are entirely transactional anyway.
Also, men don't have an in-group bias. Your best male friends would stab you in the back (metaphorically speaking) for an average-looking femoid nowadays. I read stories like this all the time, like a normcuck's wife cheated on him with his best male friend, lmao.

 

[bladeeout]

Ghosted a dude bc he was the biggest loser in the world, the type of dude who has such bad luck and makes such bad decisions that you wouldn’t want to be anywhere near him bc you think it might rub off on you. Dude is still a total bum so I was vindicated, but I do miss doing drugs and shit with him. Also a total sociopath, would brag to me about how good he was at lying. Recently I saw him on social media talking about how lonely he was and I was like damn dude join the club

 

[Deleted member 6305]

Usually I don't like drama and don't care but i cut off a guy we were friends for like years but he was too toxic, like the first person I met that using the word toxic is not faggotry.

 

[bladeeout]

yup for sure
anyone Ive met after the age of 16 or so I can never consider a friend. Thankfully I still have a couple left from back then

Literally this

 

[Deleted member 6400]