Have you ever met wise women?

[BecomingHuman]

Title.

Even if I meet someone relatively high IQ (By IQ I mean brain compute power) it seems like they are brainwashed.

They also neglect evolutionary psychology and are not smart enough to stop being dumbsters for chads at any point of their life.

The only ones wise seem to be someone who found smart guy at age 15-19 and stayed with that guy for the rest of the life.

Seems like the only way to get them wise is to start dating them early and help them with brain development, otherwise they get traumatised and double down on their delusions. Ideas?

 

[Gonthar]

I've met a few but they were like autistic.

 

[BecomingHuman]

So the best strategy for oldcel would be to meet a lot of wise married women and wait for their husbands to die? Dammit they usually have kids, but at least their father is dead.

 

[BecomingHuman]

I've met a few but they were like autistic.

Good point. I wonder what it's like dating autistic woman though.

 

[Darkeningstar]

Maybe so, but I don't know them well enough
Generally, females find it difficult to be wise, as wisdom requires applying knowledge to other concepts. Females struggle to recognise their own needs.

 

[Gonthar]

Good point. I wonder what it's like dating autistic woman though.

Lol, back when I was in college, besides the almost autistic female professors there were also a few awkward nerdy girls, I mean they weren't like fully-blown autistic yet, that probably happens slowly in time when women choose to focus more on their work and career and less on social relations; anyway they still wanted Chads and would brutally reject the nerds and subhumans who thought they had a chance with them...

 

[psychomandible]

My mum is the wisest and only wise women I've ever meet

 

[BecomingHuman]

My mum is the wisest and only wise women I've ever meet

did she marry young

 

[psychomandible]

did she marry young

Ye

 

[roxycodone]

Title.

Even if I meet someone relatively high IQ (By IQ I mean brain compute power) it seems like they are brainwashed.

They also neglect evolutionary psychology and are not smart enough to stop being dumbsters for chads at any point of their life.

The only ones wise seem to be someone who found smart guy at age 15-19 and stayed with that guy for the rest of the life.

Seems like the only way to get them wise is to start dating them early and help them with brain development, otherwise they get traumatised and double down on their delusions. Ideas?

Never did, the "wisest" women I've met had the same thoughts and questions as I did when I was 12 jfl.

Regarding emotional intelligence, women are fucking idiots, never met one that tried to solve a problem rationally, they always scream, talk shit and cry after.

 

[roxycodone]

My mum is the wisest and only wise women I've ever meet

Exactly, female intelligence went downhill by a lot, nowadays you simply can't find a woman that thinks

 

[romanstock]

Wise isn't a word ever associated with women aside from one who practices herbal medicines.

 

[roxycodone]

Wise isn't a word ever associated with women aside from one who practices herbal medicines.

There must be a reason that all of the greatest leaders, scientists, mathematicians, philosophers etc were men.
Hmmm I wonder why that is

 

[Suns9999]

define wise

 

[Darkeningstar]

Regarding emotional intelligence

Emotional intelligence is a bland and very feminine concept.
For one to understand a certain emotionality, intelligence is required.
Appreciation is different and is based on the type you tend towards. You cannot ask a sociopath to appreciate the emotional side.

 

[roxycodone]

For one to understand a certain emotionality, intelligence is required.

I'm like 1000% sure that talking shit and crying after isn't that hard to understand and an intellectual trait tbh

 

[ProBono]

No

My mum is like late 40s or something and although I love her she just isn't at a level of rationality if ykwim

Irl, IQ weakly correlates with "awareness", given how many smart kids buy in to careermaxxing until they are old and decrepit before pursuing relationships

Awareness is something you have to constantly implement, the human brain inherently learns to accept things as they are, to make rationalisations etc.

I think women are just hardwired to be more NT, and if they aren't they end up either the Redditor kind of autistic(upbeat and delusional) or vindictive and manipulative