Have you ever thought about this before?

[Sayori]

I think I had a semi unique experience with it, when I discovered it I was tall with a slightly bellow average face but it was a good base to improve on. After doing all the basic softmaxes my face is now above average, that improvement wouldn’t have been made without discovering this community.

At this point in time I seem to be quite obsessed with the topic of looks, lookism and the blackpill; it dominates my thought, and I never really get a break from it, it covers the feed on all my social media’s too so I can’t even have some escapism there.

Sometimes I’m glad I’m aware of it because it helps me overcome being unsure of myself in social situations, I can’t just think “I’m tall and gl the halo effect will carry and what I do doesn’t matter much”. That awareness does help, back in the day I used to mentally masterbait over every single thing I did and how it may be perceived.

In other cases I just wish I could’ve unknowingly made the improvements by having good habits so I didn’t have to discover this community to look better. I think I’d enjoy the halo effect a lot more if I couldn’t exactly pinpoint the source of my newfound attention. It’d be quite nice to just have people like me more for no reason, and I was just “special” for some reason.

My experiences would probably be a lot more fulfilling. I would also actually be able to honestly tell people about my life and what I do, because I can’t exactly tell people the only things I do in my free time is stick to a looksmaxxing routine and rot on forums or socials consuming this kind of content.

Things seem a lot less special when you know how shallow human socialisation is, and how very unfair it can be

Id understand if you DNR this text wall lol, no hard feelings.

summarize this into one sentence for me

 

[jaaba]

summarize this into one sentence for me

Nigger nigger nigger.

 

[I_Love_Stacy]

Have you ever reflected on the past and considered whether discovering BP was a positive event in your life?

I would personally argue against it, as it revealed more insecurities—insecurities I was previously unaware of (such as a recessed maxilla)—than it contributed positively.
It provided me with additional reasons to despise myself and perpetually lament about life.It truly broadened my perspective on humanity, particularly regarding women, yet I believe life would have been more fulfilling had I never come across the blackpill.

It is not that I was previously unaware of certain perspectives; I have always been concerned about my appearance. However, I was unaware that a community like this existed, one that provides answers to questions I had never considered.
For instance, what factors contribute to a person's attractiveness, and why do women tend to prefer only the highest quality men, among other inquiries.

@Orka @mohi_100 @moggerofhumanity @Klasik616 @Rainman988

50/50 since I realized the way you are treated by people at first glance is based on your appearance, I have a below average face with glasses so people always assumed I had no friends and was a nerd. Multiple people (mostly females) have told me that they thought I was some kind of loser before they actually met me and did not expect me to have many friends. BP made me realize the way people treat you at first sight and how people look at you is based on your appearance. This has given me some sense of comfort but also revealed new insecurities I would have never had if I didn’t discover it

 

[Sayori]

Nigger nigger nigger.

AHh I understand thank you for this amazing, short, and detailed summary

you are truly a genius

 

[jaaba]

AHh I understand thank you for this amazing, short, and detailed summary

you are truly a genius

You are welcome.

 

[abzz]

Have you ever reflected on the past and considered whether discovering BP was a positive event in your life?

I would personally argue against it, as it revealed more insecurities—insecurities I was previously unaware of (such as a recessed maxilla)—than it contributed positively.
It provided me with additional reasons to despise myself and perpetually lament about life.It truly broadened my perspective on humanity, particularly regarding women, yet I believe life would have been more fulfilling had I never come across the blackpill.

It is not that I was previously unaware of certain perspectives; I have always been concerned about my appearance. However, I was unaware that a community like this existed, one that provides answers to questions I had never considered.
For instance, what factors contribute to a person's attractiveness, and why do women tend to prefer only the highest quality men, among other inquiries.

@Orka @mohi_100 @moggerofhumanity @Klasik616 @Rainman988

very good question man

i must say that it's helped me more than anything

im the type of person to face the harsh reality and truth as opposed to staying delusional and unaware of things.

life would be very different if i never discovered this, but i think life would be worse.

im lucky to face this tho. many people kill themselves and are scarred with deed unfixable insecurities. damn

 

[swaggers]

Have you ever reflected on the past and considered whether discovering BP was a positive event in your life?

I think for me its more positive

because obviously im very insecure about my appearance now but, its driven me to lose weight and treat other people better (Because i recognize the prejudice people receive on the basis of appearance)

Im also not "extremely" blackpilled - i think that looks matter socially ALOT but i dont think they are the most important thing it terms of dating, because if youve looked at my past threads - i pulled 2 girls just cuz i was close to them and my girlfriend rn i pulled by personality (shes OUT of my league, like 2-3 tiers above me).

bp also drove me to not like people who treat others worse based on appearance - but i dont know if thats a positive or a negative.

 

[swt]

yes and no

it revealed to me my flaws making me more aware which i think is good

but, i become more insecure and started uncontrollably behaving ND after because i feel so out of place now

 

[Knight]

@Mogwarts_Dropout @richoxne @birthdefect @Knight @Ghost Philosophy

definitely beneficial in my opinion, i always knew i looked off but could never put a definitive finger on what caused me to look cooked, now knowing what it is specifically has helped me in changing and fixing those failos and improving on my looks also knowing how to fraud those failos that may require mild external intervention

 

[Notorious_1676]

The blackpill hasn't really changed my life since I always had a blackpilled mindset ever since I was a child but I'd say it's far more positive than it was negative

 

[kababcel]

Have you ever reflected on the past and considered whether discovering BP was a positive event in your life?

I would personally argue against it, as it revealed more insecurities—insecurities I was previously unaware of (such as a recessed maxilla)—than it contributed positively.
It provided me with additional reasons to despise myself and perpetually lament about life.It truly broadened my perspective on humanity, particularly regarding women, yet I believe life would have been more fulfilling had I never come across the blackpill.

It is not that I was previously unaware of certain perspectives; I have always been concerned about my appearance. However, I was unaware that a community like this existed, one that provides answers to questions I had never considered.
For instance, what factors contribute to a person's attractiveness, and why do women tend to prefer only the highest quality men, among other inquiries.

@Orka @mohi_100 @moggerofhumanity @Klasik616 @Rainman988

Hmmmm I wouldn't say it affected me negatively, well when I first discovered it, it made me depressed and defeated but as I grew and as time went on, I learnt to accept it, I dont think its over but its just more difficult for us, it helped me mature tho and understand a bit more about people

 

[skatepill]

@buddhistking @skatepill @kababcel @estonianslayerr @Brooke Shields

i dont let it affect me bc theres more to my life but i did learn a lot

 

[buddhistking]

Tbh it did cause a drop in my self-esteem, but my self-esteem was already so low by the time I had discovered the BP that it could barely go any lower anyways

I like the BP cus it helped me to understand the world much better and how unfair and cruel it is, and I'm not just talking about looks, i mean also heightpill, NTpill, locationpill, luckpill etc

 

[Eltrē]

I'd say for literally everyone it's just a net negative.

Even if someone ascends, they'll just end up more bitter at the end of it all.
Naivety is life.

 

[97baHater]

Have you ever reflected on the past and considered whether discovering BP was a positive event in your life?

I would personally argue against it, as it revealed more insecurities—insecurities I was previously unaware of (such as a recessed maxilla)—than it contributed positively.
It provided me with additional reasons to despise myself and perpetually lament about life.It truly broadened my perspective on humanity, particularly regarding women, yet I believe life would have been more fulfilling had I never come across the blackpill.

It is not that I was previously unaware of certain perspectives; I have always been concerned about my appearance. However, I was unaware that a community like this existed, one that provides answers to questions I had never considered.
For instance, what factors contribute to a person's attractiveness, and why do women tend to prefer only the highest quality men, among other inquiries.

@Orka @mohi_100 @moggerofhumanity @Klasik616 @Rainman988

I despise learning about this shit, but we ballin doe