alligatordude
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Personally, i have met two people who are serious offenders of this so far
where they have some extreme social confidence where they can just talk and talk forever and not anxious at all, but they lack social cues/awareness despite this
where they will talk on and on about shit to someone and the other person just wants to get out of the conversation and too nice to say something like i dont care,
so they are stuck pretending to care and alot of replys of "Yup" "right" uh huh" "yea for sure man" "thats crazy" "yea of course"
but the guy just keeps going and going,
like this un aware guy can be genuinely a good person and very nice, but can also be annoying when hes just rambling on and u can tell people are trying to end the conversation cuz they just dont care what hes talking about, and hes being really redundant / excessive with conversating
like i was at a party last night, and a guy like that was there, he did it with me, and i watched him talk with everyone else, and u can just tell they try to distance themselves from the conversation gradually but its so hard cuz he just keeps talking and cant pick up social cues
like they have extreme social comfort and kinda what u would define as charisma but he goes too far with it so its not even charismatic anymore
edit: its usually shit that is hard to reply to or relate it, like he will tell and ramble on about his personal stories, but just goes too far with them
and were like ok wtf do i even say
where they have some extreme social confidence where they can just talk and talk forever and not anxious at all, but they lack social cues/awareness despite this
where they will talk on and on about shit to someone and the other person just wants to get out of the conversation and too nice to say something like i dont care,
so they are stuck pretending to care and alot of replys of "Yup" "right" uh huh" "yea for sure man" "thats crazy" "yea of course"
but the guy just keeps going and going,
like this un aware guy can be genuinely a good person and very nice, but can also be annoying when hes just rambling on and u can tell people are trying to end the conversation cuz they just dont care what hes talking about, and hes being really redundant / excessive with conversating
like i was at a party last night, and a guy like that was there, he did it with me, and i watched him talk with everyone else, and u can just tell they try to distance themselves from the conversation gradually but its so hard cuz he just keeps talking and cant pick up social cues
like they have extreme social comfort and kinda what u would define as charisma but he goes too far with it so its not even charismatic anymore
edit: its usually shit that is hard to reply to or relate it, like he will tell and ramble on about his personal stories, but just goes too far with them
and were like ok wtf do i even say
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