having a girl is so pointless but not at the same time

[jkxdy]

in the moment its not gonna be pointless, yall are gonna stay up all night on the phone, go places, hangout at each others house, but when its all said and done its gonna be so point cause all the time you wasted, money wasted, hours and hours of talking and shit but when yall break up, its pointless that's why i don't like relationships and love them so much at the same time

 

[Asdec]

Water tbh. I think most of us would be happy to be completely aromantical and find new sources of fulfilment because relationships are kinda pointless, and too much of a gamble and hassle. So many wasted promises energy etc just for a woman to leave you. Never forget that 80% of divorces are initiated by women

 

[Dolorous]

Oh my god, you dont fucking understand because you have it good.

Having a girlfriend, regardless of whether or not it was a waste of money/time/energy "when its all said and done" , it is a life milestone that can and does fuck people up mentally because they couldn't experience it.

Socializing and having positive experiences with the opposite gender will NEVER be a waste for your mental health

 

[eㅤㅤ]

having a girl thats not connected with your soul is pointless.

i've had like 8 Relationships the past 2 years and they all didnt light sparks for me besides 1 girl.

you need to find the right girl and be good enough for it to work out..

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

in the moment its not gonna be pointless, yall are gonna stay up all night on the phone, go places, hangout at each others house, but when its all said and done its gonna be so point cause all the time you wasted, money wasted, hours and hours of talking and shit but when yall break up, its pointless that's why i don't like relationships and love them so much at the same time

live life day by day man don't concern urself with the "oh well we're prob gonna break up one day" like people think of shit going wrong so far ahead in the future they dont even know where they'll be in life by then anyway xd

 

[Pale God]

Oh my god, you dont fucking understand because you have it good.

Having a girlfriend, regardless of whether or not it was a waste of money/time/energy "when its all said and done" , it is a life milestone that can and does fuck people up mentally because they couldn't experience it.

Socializing and having positive experiences with the opposite gender will NEVER be a waste for your mental health

It is. You should just try getting status and become good at something.

 

[Dolorous]

It is. You should just try getting status and become good at something.

I don't disagree with the second sentence, but having positive experiences with girls is just a milestone that will sucks if missed

 

[Pale God]

I don't disagree with the second sentence, but having positive experiences with girls is just a milestone that will sucks if missed

They are thrown out of the window once she dumps you anyway. Complete waste of time.