Having a girlfriend DOES make a difference

diffirent brain wiring i guess because it barely made a diffirence for me. it definetely filled some emotional void but im more worried now about the financial aspect - paying on dates, staying in hotels ( sad to live with parents) + the amount of time invested on messages/phone calls and ext.
Maybe its my flatline... i barely feel anything towards women nowdays. Im 100% sure i would miss her if she suddenly ghosted me. We rarely value something until we lose it.

It definetely felt diffirent when i was 20-25, at the time i was much more emotionally attached and craved women validations/attention nonstop.

Unironically thats what most women want. A man who is less emotionally attached to them than they are. Prolly some evolutionary shit where a man was supposed to focus on hes goals and a woman always acted as a helper towards hes goals.

Still good for you. Maybe shes gonna be your wife for life, maybe she/you gonna break up soon - doesnt matter, that experience will shape you and you will become much more emotionally stable and less attached in future.
 
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diffirent brain wiring i guess because it barely made a diffirence for me. it definetely filled some emotional void but im more worried now about the financial aspect - paying on dates, staying in hotels ( sad to live with parents) + the amount of time invested on messages/phone calls and ext.
Maybe its my flatline... i barely feel anything towards women nowdays. Im 100% sure i would miss her if she suddenly ghosted me. We rarely value something until we lose it.

It definetely felt diffirent when i was 20-25, at the time i was much more emotionally attached and craved women validations/attention nonstop.

Unironically thats what most women want. A man who is less emotionally attached to them than they are. Prolly some evolutionary shit where a man was supposed to focus on hes goals and a woman always acted as a helper towards hes goals.

Still good for you. Maybe shes gonna be your wife for life, maybe she/you gonna break up soon - doesnt matter, that experience will shape you and you will become much more emotionally stable and less attached in future.
We both are in apprenticeship so we both don't make much money (yet).

I'm not planning on marrying, at least not as long it's only the woman who has benefits from marriage.
 
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Hahahah users here forget the black pill as soon as they catch a girl staring at them
 
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I want sex
 
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What are you trying to say ? Yes i thought i'd never get a gf but i'm happy that i did manage to get one
Getting gf is blue pill
 
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Its just the honeymoon fase, it doesnt last
 
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Thanks nigga u motivated me to get a gf
 
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My entire life, i have been gaslit by normies and foids that i dont need a gf to be happy, i should just muh focus on myself and hear bullshit like "sex isnt that good anyways".

I recently got into a relationship with the HTB i mentioned in my posts before and even though the relationship isn't very old yet, i never felt as happy in my life before. All the nihilism, hate and desire for revenge disappeared since i spend time with her and i feel so fulfilled and happy.

Like most mammals we are social creatures and need healthy relationships with the opposite gender in order to life a happy and fulfilled life, we arent meant to be alone all the time.
Of course it does People literally treat you better when you have a girl
 
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Congrats bro I agree. Anyone who claims to be “focusing on themself” is coping hardcore
 
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Congrats bro I agree. Anyone who claims to be “focusing on themself” is coping hardcore
Thanks

"I'm not ready for a relationship" is another classic cope from incels in denial
 
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not having a gf is strange in normies eyes because they are always in relationships
 
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it's cause honeymoon phase, most niggas get unhappy after awhile even chads.
 
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My entire life, i have been gaslit by normies and foids that i dont need a gf to be happy, i should just muh focus on myself and hear bullshit like "sex isnt that good anyways".

I recently got into a relationship with the HTB i mentioned in my posts before and even though the relationship isn't very old yet, i never felt as happy in my life before. All the nihilism, hate and desire for revenge disappeared since i spend time with her and i feel so fulfilled and happy.

Like most mammals we are social creatures and need healthy relationships with the opposite gender in order to life a happy and fulfilled life, we arent meant to be alone all the time.
this thread is so suifuel for sub 5s like me jfl
 
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Sex really is overrated though. It’s just whatever I only like the validation it brings not the sexual pleasure.
 
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My entire life, i have been gaslit by normies and foids that i dont need a gf to be happy, i should just muh focus on myself and hear bullshit like "sex isnt that good anyways".

I recently got into a relationship with the HTB i mentioned in my posts before and even though the relationship isn't very old yet, i never felt as happy in my life before. All the nihilism, hate and desire for revenge disappeared since i spend time with her and i feel so fulfilled and happy.

Like most mammals we are social creatures and need healthy relationships with the opposite gender in order to life a happy and fulfilled life, we arent meant to be alone all the time.
on making me more miserable
 
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this thread is so suifuel for sub 5s like me jfl
I am/was sub5 as well. I wont tell you that you will muh find the right one one day, but keep looksmaxxing and i hope you will also ascend one day
 
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My entire life, i have been gaslit by normies and foids that i dont need a gf to be happy, i should just muh focus on myself and hear bullshit like "sex isnt that good anyways".

I recently got into a relationship with the HTB i mentioned in my posts before and even though the relationship isn't very old yet, i never felt as happy in my life before. All the nihilism, hate and desire for revenge disappeared since i spend time with her and i feel so fulfilled and happy.

Like most mammals we are social creatures and need healthy relationships with the opposite gender in order to life a happy and fulfilled life, we arent meant to be alone all the time.
Just focus on your work and hobbies bro
 
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I don't even rely on my gf right now for my emotional needs. I'm grateful to have a circle of tight knit friends and family to help me emotionally and make memories with.

I can tell the op is between 15-16 and I feel bad for him because I can't imagine how bad it will be once she leaves him and she was his only form of happiness.
Was just reading through our posts where we warned him
Lmao we both were so true
 
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Was just reading through our posts where we warned him
Lmao we both were so true
Maybe it didnt last long but it was beautiful while it lasted and at least i wont die without experiencing a relationship
 
nah that's just a sign you have no friends or passion if your gf is the happiest you've ever felt in your life. I didn't have my first gf till 17 and never felt a desire for revenge or held that much hate in my heart before that because I had other things to live for.

also since your gf is your life if she breaks your heart it's over for you.
omg 17 imagine that so late
 
when you do things which are natural to being human, you are happy. the opposite, no matter how "rational" it may seem, will have the opposite effect, if not now, but in the future when things play out and you see the full consequence of adopting anti human, anti natalist, and anti life (((philosophies)))
 
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if not now, but in the future when things play out and you see the full consequence of adopting anti human, anti natalist, and anti life (((philosophies)))
I have been blackpill overdosing since months, its over for me
 
kinda similar experience.
BUT, a bad relationship, with a woman that isn't a good person. Is WAY worse than being single.
Yet, when it's a good/decent relationship with a woman that is decently moral, nice, and cares for you. Than it moggs being single.

Annoying and semi-ammusing thing about being in a relationship. As someone, that had to expeeince plenty giga mega amount of rejections before finding a relationship. The number of women showing interest in me, when I was in a relationship. While when I was single, these women would have (or did) reject me. And than when one is preselected and in a relationship, all of a sudden they see you as more when single. Strange stupid, pre-selection bullshit factor. But it exists, I found out.
It would be easier, I think, for me. To find a woman to cheat with, than to find a woman for whatever when single. That's some stupid shit.
How many times you were rejected
 
Reading this made me wanna rope
 
Reading this made me wanna rope
Someone had to speak the truth. Sick and tired of niggas gaslighting me.

Also we arent together anymore anyway
 
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Someone had to speak the truth. Sick and tired of niggas gaslighting me.

Also we arent together anymore anyway
It’s okay you’ll find another one
 

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