Having a girlfriend isn't as common as you think

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This probably depends on the country but here in Iceland there's frankly not that many guys that have girlfriends in their teens and early 20s. I know this is antidotical but it seems to me like most stay single, maybe (very infrequently) get laid, and then 'date' some single mom once they're in their late 20s or early 30s.

The 'relationship experience' that's often romanticized in fiction doesn't seem that common in the real world. In the modern west (and east-asia) many or even most young men don't have girlfriends as we think of them and when they finally do get them it's just some leftover that uses them as betabucks.

EDIT: I will add that this seems like an extremely cruel joke. Popular culture makes it seem as if having a relationship is the greatest thing ever and that everybody does it, yet most males can't have it or if they can it's just shit betabucks with a woman/girl that doesn't want them.
 
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sex isn’t real, Jewish psyop
 
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It is extremely difficult to get a girlfriend that is worth anything

I tell you this, 40-45% being without sex is bluepilled. The study dosnt show how many of those 60% of guys are dating obese subhumans, beta buxing, dating nagging girlfriends, not having frequent sex. Inceldom is much worse
 
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im in a relationship for 6 years. i only know 2 couples with a similar length
 
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Iceland is a strange place
 
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I tell you this, 40-45% being without sex is bluepilled. The study dosnt show how many of those 60% of guys are dating obese subhumans, beta buxing, dating nagging girlfriends, not having frequent sex. Inceldom is much worse
Hence why I made this thread:

 
its rare to find a woman that you're compatible with and the couples that arent are the ones that look miserable as fuck.
 
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When I dated my ex gf was the happiest moment of my life tbh
 
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When I dated my ex gf was the happiest moment of my life tbh
Sounds cucked tbh.

I think a massive part of the reason incels are so miserable is that they keep fantasizing about something that doesn't fucking exist. They've been brainwashed by bluepill media to think relationships are this wonderful thing that will make their misery go away. In reality, foids are fucking insufferable and there's a reason 'pump and dump' became a thing.
 
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Sounds cucked tbh.

I think a massive part of the reason incels are so miserable is that they keep fantasizing about something that doesn't fucking exist. They've been brainwashed by bluepill media to think relationships are this wonderful thing that will make their misery go away. In reality, foids are fucking insufferable and there's a reason 'pump and dump' became a thing.
She wasnt insufferable tbh she made me extremely happy for a while at least.

Like yeah it wasnt some disney movie shit but my life was objectively way better with her than without her.

How can it be cucked when we legit would have sex for 6 hours a day?
 
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How can it be cucked when we legit would have sex for 6 hours a day?
You just blackpilled yourself by accident.

You were never attracted to her personality. You just liked the fact you had sex often which gave her a halo. Had the relationship been the same but without any sex you wouldn't have given a shit.
 
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Give this top tier poster a medal
 
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You just blackpilled yourself by accident.

You were never attracted to her personality. You just liked the fact you had sex often which gave her a halo. Had the relationship been the same but without any sex you wouldn't have given a shit.
Yeah youre right becasue without the sex I wouldve just been q friendzoned cuck and it wouldve just been a plutonic friendship (I have these with men already so dont need a woman for this) with a woman I want sex and intimacy. Idk why this is so shocking lol
 
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Yeah youre right becasue without the sex I wouldve just been q friendzoned cuck and it wouldve just been a plutonic friendship (I have these with men already so dont need a woman for this) with a woman I want sex and intimacy. Idk why this is so shocking lol
There isn't such a thing as 'intimacy'. Just lust. You're overthinking this.
 
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It is extremely difficult to get a girlfriend that is worth anything

I tell you this, 40-45% being without sex is bluepilled. The study dosnt show how many of those 60% of guys are dating obese subhumans, beta buxing, dating nagging girlfriends, not having frequent sex. Inceldom is much worse
Based
 
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Might be easier to slay trashy nightclub whores in 30s when you looksmax to chsdlite
 
yeah it's location depended

in asia i see many couples.

Iceland is aryan chad central so maybe the competition is higher to get a HQNP GF
 
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Another chad
htn with gymmaxxed body

but my personality made me stay with my gf for so long. u need to stand out somehow and i do that by being low inhib funny/crazy and masculine
 
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htn with gymmaxxed body

but my personality made me stay with my gf for so long. u need to stand out somehow and i do that by being low inhib funny/crazy and masculine
Does she know you browse .org
 
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Does she know you browse .org
kinda. i dont make it a secret and she knows its a site about looks but she doesnt care. she even said im responsible for our kids looks later (i told her about mewing and shit)
 
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kinda. i dont make it a secret and she knows its a site about looks but she doesnt care. she even said im responsible for our kids looks later (i told her about mewing and shit)
True love pilled
 
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Relationships are useless for girls,unless hes chadlite

Most girls have fwb with some fucker they would leave in 2 seconds
 
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This probably depends on the country but here in Iceland there's frankly not that many guys that have girlfriends in their teens and early 20s. I know this is antidotical but it seems to me like most stay single, maybe (very infrequently) get laid, and then 'date' some single mom once they're in their late 20s or early 30s.

The 'relationship experience' that's often romanticized in fiction doesn't seem that common in the real world. In the modern west (and east-asia) many or even most young men don't have girlfriends as we think of them and when they finally do get them it's just some leftover that uses them as betabucks.

EDIT: I will add that this seems like an extremely cruel joke. Popular culture makes it seem as if having a relationship is the greatest thing ever and that everybody does it, yet most males can't have it or if they can it's just shit betabucks with a woman/girl that doesn't want them.
i noticed this as well
 
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Might be easier to slay trashy nightclub whores in 30s when you looksmax to chsdlite
 
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It is extremely difficult to get a girlfriend that is worth anything

I tell you this, 40-45% being without sex is bluepilled. The study dosnt show how many of those 60% of guys are dating obese subhumans, beta buxing, dating nagging girlfriends, not having frequent sex. Inceldom is much worse
 

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