having a hard time getting over my gf’s past

[shessonice]

walk away you cuck, she told you this so she can cuck you.

 

[rishu nond]

so me and my girlfriend have been long distance for about a year now. i’m her first real relationship and the first guy she’s done anything physical with in person. we’re really close and i do love her but i found out she used to send nudes and sext with a bunch of guys before me. like not recently, just before we got together.

i know it was before me and she says she regrets it and that i’m different, but honestly it still messes with my head. i can’t help thinking about it sometimes and comparing myself even though i know it’s pointless. i don’t want to keep bringing it up or make her feel bad, but i also don’t know how to just “get over it.”

has anyone been through this before? how did you stop overthinking it or move on without ruining the relationship?

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[Gentleman Unknown]

When was the first time she ever thought of sending nudes? Walk you through that.

That's what I mean about not to be naive. She tells you things when you question her but you say get answers weren't clear. That right there tells me something isn't right. That's my gut. And you know your gut is telling you something isn't right too.

I mean, are you really sure she's never had another dude's dick in her mouth before?

Whatever the case you can only ever really know a woman by her actions. She might say she wants something or feels a certain way, and believe it, but not really want it at all.

Something isn't right though. There's more she's not telling you.

Im very confident about the physical stuff that im her furst because when i took her first kiss and she gave me head etc, she seemed inexperienced and was kinda learning as she went along. Like when she gave me head she was talking about how she was shocked that she actually enjoyed that way more than she thought she would have, and she was nervous at first to give head. She had kissed her best friend whos a girl before me tjo at a girls sleepover.

My gut still tells me theres something wrong about the things she was sending, like i feel like shes secretly a hoe for attention.

Nudes are whatever, every teen, both male and female, has sexted before for the most part ... If she truly has little to no past irl sexual experiences then ... you're fine man

Ik its better than it is worse. Its just the fact she not only sexted but also masturbated with these dudes on snap.

I would personally never consider being with anyone who's sexted. I've never done it myself either.

Yeah exactly same, ive never done it before her.

Yup, when women send nudes it’s the biggest form of objectification. Why would I do that to myself, stupid foid?

Exactly, if even me as a man has never sent a nude, i havent, i have enough self respect to not do it. its way worse when a woman does it

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Im very confident about the physical stuff that im her furst because when i took her first kiss and she gave me head etc, she seemed inexperienced and was kinda learning as she went along. Like when she gave me head she was talking about how she was shocked that she actually enjoyed that way more than she thought she would have, and she was nervous at first to give head. She had kissed her best friend whos a girl before me tjo at a girls sleepover.

My gut still tells me theres something wrong about the things she was sending, like i feel like shes secretly a hoe for attention.


Ik its better than it is worse. Its just the fact she not only sexted but also masturbated with these dudes on snap.

Yeah exactly same, ive never done it before her.

Exactly, if even me as a man has never sent a nude, i havent, i have enough self respect to not do it. its way worse when a woman does it

Trust your gut then. Sounds like someone you know you won't be able to spend the rest of your life with.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Im very confident about the physical stuff that im her furst because when i took her first kiss and she gave me head etc, she seemed inexperienced and was kinda learning as she went along. Like when she gave me head she was talking about how she was shocked that she actually enjoyed that way more than she thought she would have, and she was nervous at first to give head. She had kissed her best friend whos a girl before me tjo at a girls sleepover.

My gut still tells me theres something wrong about the things she was sending, like i feel like shes secretly a hoe for attention.


Ik its better than it is worse. Its just the fact she not only sexted but also masturbated with these dudes on snap.

Yeah exactly same, ive never done it before her.

Exactly, if even me as a man has never sent a nude, i havent, i have enough self respect to not do it. its way worse when a woman does it

Masturbation with other dudes. That would have to be a no go with me. A masturbating woman is a foul thing to have around anyways.

 

[Gentleman Unknown]

Masturbation with other dudes. That would have to be a no go with me. A masturbating woman is a foul thing to have around anyways.

What makes it unacceptable for you?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

What makes it unacceptable for you?

Her pleasuring herself.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

What makes it unacceptable for you?

A girl who pleasures herself cannot possibly be pleasing to me.