having a taste of girls but never truly being desired

[turkproducer]

this is the life of a high tier normie or a 6-6.5/10 smv guy

you can occasionally get some girls interested in you for your looks + personality combo but you will always be subject to some bullshit manipulation and hot and cold treatment from girls. you will always be left and replaced so easily

you’ll get some matches but generally every girl or most girls will ghost you and waste your time.

it’s like you’re so close but so far. fuck tinder and all this other bullshit

 

[Blackout.xl]

this is the life of a high tier normie or a 6-6.5/10 smv guy

you can occasionally get some girls interested in you for your looks + personality combo but you will always be subject to some bullshit manipulation and hot and cold treatment from girls. you will always be left and replaced so easily

you’ll get some matches but generally every girl or most girls will ghost you and waste your time.

it’s like you’re so close but so far. fuck tinder and all this other bullshit

If she’s playing hot and cold then grab her and pull her towards u. Ask if she wants to play games

 

[turkproducer]

If she’s playing hot and cold then grab her and pull her towards u. Ask if she wants to play games

bro i wish i could do tht through the screen

it’s like a never ending cycle. They play games and waste time so men want them more and more, making them more desperate

maybe i just talk to girls in the wrong way. i have much more success when i just don’t give a fuck

 

[Blackout.xl]

bro i wish i could do tht through the screen

it’s like a never ending cycle. They play games and waste time so men want them more and more, making them more desperate

maybe i just talk to girls in the wrong way. i have much more success when i just don’t give a fuck

The best thing you can do is be low inhib with abundance mentality. Be direct and leave once they play games. Don’t fall for their time wasting traps.

 

[rawdogprince]

find a nice girl to settle down with and you'll stop caring about all that bullchit. @lilymaymac

 

[turkproducer]

The best thing you can do is be low inhib with abundance mentality. Be direct and leave once they play games. Don’t fall for their time wasting traps.

i know but it’s so depressing filtering through all these girls bro lol

like why should i have to match with like 5 girls a day, then 3 of them reply, 1-2 give me their number/social media, then none of them meet me. it’s depressing

 

[Deleted member 6305]

I was desired once but it doesn't make you feel better if the girls are not good looking

Being desired by 1 good looking foid > 1000 normie low tier foids

 

[turkproducer]

I was desired once but it doesn't make you feel better if the girls are not good looking

Being desired by 1 good looking foid > 1000 normie low tier foids

basically what i’m saying is that i’m good looking enough to get some girls here and there but the amount of bullshit i have to go through is just very depressing and disheartening

 

[Blackout.xl]

i know but it’s so depressing filtering through all these girls bro lol

like why should i have to match with like 5 girls a day, then 3 of them reply, 1-2 give me their number/social media, then none of them meet me. it’s depressing

Brutal

 

[Deleted member 6305]

basically what i’m saying is that i’m good looking enough to get some girls here and there but the amount of bullshit i have to go through is just very depressing and disheartening

Tinder is bullshit btw

 

[turkproducer]

Tinder is bullshit btw

i know but i don’t really have anywhere else to meet girls ngl

not rn anyway.

i still am not even soft maxxed so i guess i can still improve, just fucking so shit how much effort we have to put in just to get a date/sex/a girlfriend.

 

[turkproducer]

find a nice girl to settle down with and you'll stop caring about all that bullchit. @lilymaymac

i’m not sure if you’re trolling or not but i said htn or 6/10 guys are very replaceable so in an ltr you’re just going to get cucked, manipulated, used or left very quickly

 

[Blackout.xl]

i know but i don’t really have anywhere else to meet girls ngl

not rn anyway.

i still am not even soft maxxed so i guess i can still improve, just fucking so shit how much effort we have to put in just to get a date/sex/a girlfriend.

You have to social circle maxx for girls. Tinder is terrible, the ratio of men to women is completely fucked and online dating emboldens women to only hunt for face tbh ngl.

In person at least you could use low inhib, game and champion aura to get foids easier. Things will improve for u once corona is over

 

[turkproducer]

You have to social circle maxx for girls. Tinder is terrible, the ratio of men to women is completely fucked and online dating emboldens women to only hunt for face tbh ngl.

In person at least you could use low inhib, game and champion aura to get foids easier. Things will improve for u once corona is over

i guess bro lol

tbh i’ve never really tried in real life, only 1 attempt out of 1 i slayed a girl. maybe i should try more

and yeah online dating or any sort of slaying done through the internet is complete bs. but the thing is these girls have access to these chads online anyway so what’s the point trying in real life they can get them anyway

 

[Hades]

Some girl’s treat me like that but some girl’s treat me like a prize. I honestly don’t fucking understand women. I’ve had ugly girls ghost me but good looking girls be obsessed with me, and vice versa.

 

[Blackout.xl]

i guess bro lol

tbh i’ve never really tried in real life, only 1 attempt out of 1 i slayed a girl. maybe i should try more

and yeah online dating or any sort of slaying done through the internet is complete bs. but the thing is these girls have access to these chads online anyway so what’s the point trying in real life they can get them anyway

Irl they may see you as more attractive if you have aura and status tbh. These things are non existent online

 

[Blackout.xl]

Some girl’s treat me like that but some girl’s treat me like a prize. I honestly don’t fucking understand women. I’ve had ugly girls ghost me but good looking girls be obsessed with me, and vice versa.

Take what belongs to u

 

[Bitch]

It’s like you just described my life bro

 

[turkproducer]

Some girl’s treat me like that but some girl’s treat me like a prize. I honestly don’t fucking understand women. I’ve had ugly girls ghost me but good looking girls be obsessed with me, and vice versa.

for me it’s like i’m good looking enough to slay a bit but i need to have everytbing on point

like i can’t reply to their texts quickly, i have to say the exact right things all the time, never show any sort of clinginess, never over pursue or under pursue

bro you don’t even understand how hard it is. even girls that message me first turn cold on me, like wtf is that bullshit

i feel like it’s the way i talk to them. i am moody and don’t really know how to flirt because i don’t have the energy for it, i know most likely they will waste my time so i don’t have the energy to be extroverted and say the right things

 

[turkproducer]

It’s like you just described my life bro

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yeah this is my life too

it’s tough even girls who pursue you at first can just toss you aside like it’s nothing and don’t care about it

 

[Hades]

bro you don’t even understand how hard it is. even girls that message me first turn cold on me, like wtf is that bullshit

i feel like it’s the way i talk to them. i am moody and don’t really know how to flirt because i don’t have the energy for it, i know most likely they will waste my time so i don’t have the energy to be extroverted and say the right things

pretty much the same for me bro but it doesn’t happen as much. I honestly don’t even like talking to girl’s in text anymore because of how dry they are. they literally make you lead the conversation 24/7 it’s fucking annoying. and then when i ignore them they get mad jfl. i even made some chadfishes and even they don’t get many girls that actually try in the conversation, they’re just so spoiled they expect every single conversation to be carried by the man. all we are is entertainment for them until they get bored.

 

[turkproducer]

pretty much the same for me bro but it doesn’t happen as much. I honestly don’t even like talking to girl’s in text anymore because of how dry they are. they literally make you lead the conversation 24/7 it’s fucking annoying. and then when i ignore them they get mad jfl. i even made some chadfishes and even they don’t get many girls that actually try in the conversation, they’re just so spoiled they expect every single conversation to be carried by the man. all we are is entertainment for them until they get bored.

yeah i feel the exact same

i feel like naturally they just expect more out of us than we do with them

it’s just hard to always have to say the right things. they get bored so easily of men

like how can you message me first and then delete me the same day? what the fuck.

 

[rawdogprince]

i’m not sure if you’re trolling or not but i said htn or 6/10 guys are very replaceable so in an ltr you’re just going to get cucked, manipulated, used or left very quickly

lol. Most girls are normal and loyal. Get off tinder/instagram.

 

[turkproducer]

lol. Most girls are normal and loyal. Get off tinder/instagram.

and meet them in real life?

girls only show interest online for me

 

[Bitch]

yeah this is my life too

it’s tough even girls who pursue you at first can just toss you aside like it’s nothing and don’t care about it

I consider myself a high tier normie and so have other people on here rated me as, some said low tier chadlite, but I know I’m not chadlite, just from my dating history alone. I’ll give you an example. Okay, so in my class there’s this 6’3 TikTokmaxxed with curly hair, short midface, tanned skin, trains football Chad. And I know every girl desires him so fucking much, but he is your usual douche, the biggest douche I’ve seen in my life to girls, but he’s my good friend and he’s very nice to what I’d consider low tier normie guys too. His pyschology is bros before hoes, he madly respects all boys, never bullies anyone, he’s just a big dick to the girls and I respect him very much for that. BUT GIRLS STILL WANT HIM SO MUCH. When he’s not around all they do is talk about how handsome he is. He really mogs me hard he’s at least 6.5 PSL imo. The thing is, of course I desire some stacies from my class, but the girls that I know like me are like 3.5 PSL, I know for at least two girls that are interested in me and they gave me pretty obvious hints. But I really desire the 5.5 PSL blond girls if you know what I mean. It’s so fucking mental bro, one 5.5 PSL Stacy approached me many times asking me some things about music, because she knows I am a musician. But then again the boy to girl ratio in my class is 5:21, so talking to girls is something I can’t escape. But I’m 5’10 in shoes, she’s probably somewhere around that too and that pisses me off the most. My life is difficult bro.

 

[rawdogprince]

and meet them in real life?

girls only show interest online for me

I know it's fucked. IDK how people meet but all my female coworkers are normal and have LTRs. They aren't obssessed with instagram and didn't meet their SO online. I don't really get it.

 

[Vitruvian]

bad fathers ruined the world

 

[turkproducer]

I consider myself a high tier normie and so have other people on here rated me as, some said low tier chadlite, but I know I’m not chadlite, just from my dating history alone. I’ll give you an example. Okay, so in my class there’s this 6’3 TikTokmaxxed with curly hair, short midface, tanned skin, trains football Chad. And I know every girl desires him so fucking much, but he is your usual douche, the biggest douche I’ve seen in my life to girls, but he’s my good friend and he’s very nice to what I’d consider low tier normie guys too. His pyschology is bros before hoes, he madly respects all boys, never bullies anyone, he’s just a big dick to the girls and I respect him very much for that. BUT GIRLS STILL WANT HIM SO MUCH. When he’s not around all they do is talk about how handsome he is. He really mogs me hard he’s at least 6.5 PSL imo. The thing is, of course I desire some stacies from my class, but the girls that I know like me are like 3.5 PSL, I know for at least two girls that are interested in me and they gave me pretty obvious hints. But I really desire the 5.5 PSL blond girls if you know what I mean. It’s so fucking mental bro, one 5.5 PSL Stacy approached me many times asking me some things about music, because she knows I am a musician. But then again the boy to girl ratio in my class is 5:21, so talking to girls is something I can’t escape. But I’m 5’10 in shoes, she’s probably somewhere around that too and that pisses me off the most. My life is difficult bro.

yeah for men bro you really have to be at the top or be super rich/famous and decent looking to have a good life

just above average doesn’t cut it. if you’re a girl and 5psl you can have an amazing life, but for a guy you’ll just be slaying uglies or have an averageish girlfriend

i need all my surgeries and to be rich to have a chance to be happy. fuck this world

 

[turkproducer]

I know it's fucked. IDK how people meet but all my female coworkers are normal and have LTRs. They aren't obssessed with instagram and didn't meet their SO online. I don't really get it.

i’m a zoomer so it’s probably different for me

things are much more online now i guess

 

[Deleted member 39]

I was texting a cute blonde JB and she started saying shit like "I love you baby" etc. Next day she tells me a guy asked for her number but I shouldn't worry.
The day after she's in a childish relationship with him.
Fuck these whores. Normies struggle with girls, they get girls, but they have to put up with their stupid bullshit. All in all, not worth it.

 

[rawdogprince]

i’m a zoomer so it’s probably different for me

things are much more online now i guess

Yeah idk man. I was 18 when Tinder came out and online dating "exploded." Still feel like everyone just considered it a joke/hookup app and they still do today. Only ugly girls actually like online dating. Whenever I see a coworker's boyfriend he's usually just a normal guy. I really don't fucking get it.

THat being said all my male coworkers are incels. I mean not legit incels like they've never had a gf but the vast majority in their 20s/early 30s are perpetually single. It's just fucking weird. I don't really get it.

 

[Stevensmithgerard]

this is the life of a high tier normie or a 6-6.5/10 smv guy

you can occasionally get some girls interested in you for your looks + personality combo but you will always be subject to some bullshit manipulation and hot and cold treatment from girls. you will always be left and replaced so easily

you’ll get some matches but generally every girl or most girls will ghost you and waste your time.

it’s like you’re so close but so far. fuck tinder and all this other bullshit

I know this feeling all too well. I was never butt ugly, but never considered HOT (facially). Sexy sure, due to body and fashion halo. But you need to be 8/10 irl to get the kind of attention you're looking for. To not be rejected as often. To end the incessant games. To be chased too.....

So the blackpill is actually the solution, not the symptom. Get in David Laid shape. Build neck. Fix teeth. Build yourself from the ground up. Go make some surgery calls this week. Go buy your training equipment. Get your tattoo designs and layout ready. Get your shit together. Everything you do, needs to be something directly affecting your goal. But make sure you have a SPECIFIC goal in the first place. Plan your shit out. Please stop playing games with your short life.

 

[rawdogprince]

i seriously think you just need to be socially normal and have a good career and not too ugly. IDK tho.

 

[Deleted member 3702]

I cant use tinder I'm not major anyways

 

[turkproducer]

I know this feeling all too well. I was never butt ugly, but never considered HOT (facially). Sexy sure, due to body and fashion halo. But you need to be 8/10 irl to get the kind of attention you're looking for. To not be rejected as often. To end the incessant games. To be chased too.....

So the blackpill is actually the solution, not the symptom. Get in David Laid shape. Build neck. Fix teeth. Build yourself from the ground up. Go make some surgery calls this week. Go buy your training equipment. Get your tattoo designs and layout ready. Get your shit together. Everything you do, needs to be something directly affecting your goal. But make sure you have a SPECIFIC goal in the first place. Plan your shit out. Please stop playing games with your short life.

it’s harder than that when i have no real skills to make money

i’m still a kid and don’t know what to do in my life. i

 

[Stevensmithgerard]

it’s harder than that when i have no real skills to make money

i’m still a kid and don’t know what to do in my life. i

This is why we're here. To make things happen. The blackpill is a cheat code in my eyes. Like entering the matrix and being aware (ironically jfl)

So, take all the steps. No money? Start working or start working on something special. The money would solve a lot of problems. But so would getting in shape, which is essentially free at the beginning. What can you do to improve today? Do you play any sports? Any instruments? What are your passion hobbies?

 

[turkproducer]

This is why we're here. To make things happen. The blackpill is a cheat code in my eyes. Like entering the matrix and being aware (ironically jfl)

So, take all the steps. No money? Start working or start working on something special. The money would solve a lot of problems. But so would getting in shape, which is essentially free at the beginning. What can you do to improve today? Do you play any sports? Any instruments? What are your passion hobbies?

not skilled at any sports but i have. a lot of natural strength

i can produce music but i’m not good at it enough to make money anyway

i don’t really have any hobbies. nothing interests me bro

i would be open to learn a skill but everything seems so saturated nowadays

 

[Deleted member 7313]

If she’s playing hot and cold then grab her and pull her towards u. Ask if she wants to play games

Damn nigga

 

[Stevensmithgerard]

not skilled at any sports but i have. a lot of natural strength

i can produce music but i’m not good at it enough to make money anyway

i don’t really have any hobbies. nothing interests me bro

i would be open to learn a skill but everything seems so saturated nowadays

I want you to get something out of your head right now. SATURATION OF PASSIONS DOESN'T EXIST. Find something you are passionate about even if everyone is doing it already. Dude, passions and hobbies aren't some magical force that only the select few attain. This is quantifiable. People get the idea that they want to do something or try something and then they stick with it. They don't just give up after the first lesson or trial.

Nothing interests you? If you had good money, would you say the same thing? If you had the money, would you.... race cars? Fly planes? Build a colosseum? Would you swingersclubmaxx? How about traveling across the globe? I bet you would find TONS of shit to do if you had the means. If you don't, then look for things more reasonable.

Look man, my point is that you gotta start somewhere. One little step. You have to get out of your comfort zone. Do not be afraid to fail OR be afraid to succeed. Both thoughts are equally dangerous. Go be a DJ at a banging night club using your producer skills. What, are you too good that title? Is it beneath you? Is it too "normie" for you? I'm messing with you, but you get the idea. Get out of your own head.

Also, I honestly suggest you go to an MMA or Brazilian Jiu-jitsu class. Just go and be humble. Take direction. Pay the fees. This will help you in so many ways. Plus it's SMVmaxxing. Get in shape AND get clout.

Go become great