Having kids late is extremely unfair to your children

[JohnDoe]

If you are 35-40 years of age, you are selfish for having kids at such a late age. I understand sometimes shit happens in life and you get to 35 or even 40 and then don't want to die childless but lots of men and women are leaving it really late.
It's not fair on your kids. By the time they are 25 or 30 years old, you are senile and in some cases dead before you can even see your grandchildren. It's not fair on the kids, they don't get to see their grandparents because grandparents died years if not decades ago, uncles/aunts probably also dead or senile.
Kids get married and know their children will never get to experience life with grandparents, you look around and other kids have grandparents that are active in their life, the difference is their grandparents are 15-20 years younger because their parents unlike yours decided to have kids at a younger age and didn't leave it until 35-40.
My parents were both 40/41 years of age when i was born. I am now 30 and i didn't even get a chance to meet my grandparents, they died before i was born or when i was very young. Most of my aunts/uncles are dead, my parents are senile.
I look around and my peers parents are in their 50s, their grandparents are still alive and have a role in their life. It's so unfair to have kids when you are 40 years old. It's not fair on them and you are selfish.
I firmly believe you should have kids in your twenties by the latest, recently i read that the average age of new parents in the west is 32 years old, it's crazy. Have children in your 20s so when your kids are adults, you are not senile and are still in your 40s and can have a real relationship with your adult children. Not only that but you can have a relationship with your grandkids aswell. I also recommend having lots of kids, try to aim for atleast 4. Children who don't have any siblings almost always wished they had siblings. It's nice to have brothers/sisters because your parents aren't always going to be around.
Rant over i guess, you guys are the new generation so i am telling you what's happening and you should avoid it or you will regret it. On top of having parents who gave birth at 40, my dad is a deadbeat who was never in my life and my mother is extremely low IQ. It's a miracle i have even made it to 30 considering how i grew up. I probably shouldn't have been born, i mean the chances of conceiving at 41 are quite low, pure fucking bad luck for me.
I'm pretty sure i used up all my luck just being born. Atleast i am old enough to have experienced the world before social media and all this other nonsense.

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

mirin

 

[imontheloose]

Having children is the worst crime one could do.

 

[JohnDoe]

mirin

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[Ghost Philosophy]

I agree. It’s one of the worst things you can do. But I’d put it at 40+ instead of 35-40.

 

[ijustwannaascendlol]

If you are 35-40 years of age, you are selfish for having kids at such a late age. I understand sometimes shit happens in life and you get to 35 or even 40 and then don't want to die childless but lots of men and women are leaving it really late.
It's not fair on your kids. By the time they are 25 or 30 years old, you are senile and in some cases dead before you can even see your grandchildren. It's not fair on the kids, they don't get to see their grandparents because grandparents died years if not decades ago, uncles/aunts probably also dead or senile.
Kids get married and know their children will never get to experience life with grandparents, you look around and other kids have grandparents that are active in their life, the difference is their grandparents are 15-20 years younger because their parents unlike yours decided to have kids at a younger age and didn't leave it until 35-40.
My parents were both 40/41 years of age when i was born. I am now 30 and i didn't even get a chance to meet my grandparents, they died before i was born or when i was very young. Most of my aunts/uncles are dead, my parents are senile.
I look around and my peers parents are in their 50s, their grandparents are still alive and have a role in their life. It's so unfair to have kids when you are 40 years old. It's not fair on them and you are selfish.
I firmly believe you should have kids in your twenties by the latest, recently i read that the average age of new parents in the west is 32 years old, it's crazy. Have children in your 20s so when your kids are adults, you are not senile and are still in your 40s and can have a real relationship with your adult children. Not only that but you can have a relationship with your grandkids aswell. I also recommend having lots of kids, try to aim for atleast 4. Children who don't have any siblings almost always wished they had siblings. It's nice to have brothers/sisters because your parents aren't always going to be around.
Rant over i guess, you guys are the new generation so i am telling you what's happening and you should avoid it or you will regret it. On top of having parents who gave birth at 40, my dad is a deadbeat who was never in my life and my mother is extremely low IQ. It's a miracle i have even made it to 30 considering how i grew up. I probably shouldn't have been born, i mean the chances of conceiving at 41 are quite low, pure fucking bad luck for me.
I'm pretty sure i used up all my luck just being born. Atleast i am old enough to have experienced the world before social media and all this other nonsense.

Drn i just have a little deformations but my face is ok

 

[Klasik616]

mirin

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Philosophers are ND incels
They can't understand NTs have sex like rabbits

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

There is no to admire i can assure you. Images aren't loading btw

I was saying to admire this quote :

"If children were brought into the world by an act of pure reason alone, would the human race continue to exist? Would not a man rather have so much sympathy with the coming generation as to spare it the burden of existence? Or at any rate not take it upon himself to impose that burden upon it in cold blood.
-schopenhauer studies in pessimism "


ong i'll impreganted a religious bitch in a poor white country for my bloodline

 

[JohnDoe]

I was saying to admire this quote :

"If children were brought into the world by an act of pure reason alone, would the human race continue to exist? Would not a man rather have so much sympathy with the coming generation as to spare it the burden of existence? Or at any rate not take it upon himself to impose that burden upon it in cold blood.
-schopenhauer studies in pessimism "


ong i'll impreganted a religious bitch in a poor white country for my bloodline

I agree with what klasik said. I can say that i'm non-nt, maybe some form of autism although undiagnosed but i still want sex, kids, family etc. Philosophers are just so far gone down the rabbit hole, they don't even desire sex.

 

[trump]

my mom had me at 45

 

[Faxed]

Im only 19 and my parents are already 76 and 61. It’s extremely brutal, no hope of having my dad past age 25 probably and theres a decently high chance that i’ll be wasting my twenties taking care of my mother. The only real time i’ve spent with my extended family was when I wasn’t old enough to remember.

 

[JohnDoe]

Having children is the worst crime one could do.

Maybe it's selfish to not take into account how birthing children will affect the human species/etc but i would think it's in our innate biology to want to procreate. Some say it is the purpose of life and a necessity as it grounds men or men become dangerous to society and themselves. Ironically it's the higher IQ populations from wealthier countries who are more susceptible to completely avoiding having kids or at the very least only having one or two children max while 3rd worlders/lower IQ populations are having 4-5 kids on average. Why do you not want kids mr imontheloose? do you not want to give birth to higher IQ children to offset all the 80 IQ apes from the 3rd world? This seems like a concession and acceptance of defeat. This mentality is why the global white population has dropped significantly in only 50 years or so, white people aren't having kids. The world is inevitably going to end up a giant autistic mutt species of various shades of brown.

 

[JohnDoe]

my mom had me at 45

Impressive but sad. Are you autistic or any obvious defects?

 

[JohnDoe]

Im only 19 and my parents are already 76 and 61. It’s extremely brutal, no hope of having my dad past age 25 probably and theres a decently high chance that i’ll be wasting my twenties taking care of my mother. The only real time i’ve spent with my extended family was when I wasn’t old enough to remember.

yep basically the same as me, your mother was 42 when she had you and your father is even older than mine, it's insanely brutal how selfish they were to do that. Men and women are both selfish and simply don't care how their kids will fare, it's all about them and that they want kids even though they're so old so they're going to do it regardless.

 

[Clqs]

Dnr

Having kids in general, no matter what circumstances, is unfair to them

 

[JohnDoe]

I agree. It’s one of the worst things you can do. But I’d put it at 40+ instead of 35-40.

Yeah 40 and above is just crazy. The chance of being able to conceive is quite low so seeing a decent amount of guys with old mothers is shocking.

 

[imontheloose]

Maybe it's selfish to not take into account how birthing children will affect the human species/etc but i would think it's in our innate biology to want to procreate. Some say it is the purpose of life and a necessity as it grounds men or men become dangerous to society and themselves. Ironically it's the higher IQ populations from wealthier countries who are more susceptible to completely avoiding having kids or at the very least only having one or two children max while 3rd worlders/lower IQ populations are having 4-5 kids on average. Why do you not want kids mr imontheloose? do you not want to give birth to higher IQ children to offset all the 80 IQ apes from the 3rd world? This seems like a concession and acceptance of defeat. This mentality is why the global white population has dropped significantly in only 50 years or so, white people aren't having kids. The world is inevitably going to end up a giant autistic mutt species of various shades of brown.

The Eastern cultures are heavy on dogmatic belief whether it be in their religion or customs; said customs and rules at least indirectly encourage lots of kids. In the West, we lost that as you say.

I don’t want kids, I have no interest proactively contributing to a lifetime of unwilling suffering. I want my life to end and to reach the eternal peace of absolute nothingness. I am not interested in sex, I find it to be depraved and unappealing at best. Perhaps I can be convinced otherwise, but I do doubt that.

Life is a miserable thing. Why would anyone who spent their years on img boards and late redpill spaces want to continue?

EDIT: changed plural, pedantry

 

[dr.nikki]

Im 17 and my parents are 70 and 65, I don’t even care about the confusion when people assume he’s my grandpa or the gap in societal customs and technology. it’s the fact that I’ve been robbed of a childhood and/or my „prime“ teenage years because of their selfishness. Ofc I love them and whatever just why insist on having kids at that age when they’re not even gonna be able to get to know their grandparents

 

[JohnDoe]

The Eastern cultures are heavy on dogmatic belief whether it be in their religion or customs; said customs and rules at least indirectly encourage lots of kids. In the West, we lost that as you say.

I don’t want kids, I have no interest proactively contributing to a lifetime of unwilling suffering. I want my life to end and to reach the eternal peace of absolute nothingness. I am not interested in sex, I find it to be depraved and unappealing at best. Perhaps I can be convinced otherwise, but I do doubt that.

Life is a miserable thing. Why would anyone who spent their years on img boards and late redpill spaces want to continue?

EDIT: changed plural, pedantry

Yes, eastern culture and religion both promote having lots of children. Being 3rd world/poorer countries and having a higher likelyhood of kids dying at a very young age may have some sort of role in this aswell.
Not wanting kids i can understand but i do not understand how a healthy man with healthy levels of testosterone has no interest in sex or any relations with the opposite gender, yes women suck but our programming makes it so we still want it and part of this also means wanting children.
You would think after where i spent my formative years that i would have no interest in women, children or any of that, and yet i still do. It is an innate desire for sex and procreation which i attribute to my programming that i would have thought is in almost every human being. Even after my parents having me so late and me suffering, and realizing i am not normal, i still want to be normal and get married, have kids and make them proud. Even after i came to the understanding that their selfishness is the reason why i am here in the first place and why i had to endure and suffer everything till date.

I don't know what to think anymore, this desire for the opposite gender and to have a family has not left me and continues to torment me. The cycle may very well just end up continuing, my children if i ever have any will very likely end up suffering just like i did. I just keep thinking about the alternative and dying alone and lonely. Although knowing me i would jump off a bridge or blow my brains out by 40 if i were to continue down the path that i am currently on.

Normies really live life ignorantly in bliss. Their minds do not think like ours, sometimes i wish i was an NPC normie, i'd be a lot happier atleast.

 

[JohnDoe]

Im 17 and my parents are 70 and 65, I don’t even care about the confusion when people assume he’s my grandpa or the gap in societal customs and technology. it’s the fact that I’ve been robbed of a childhood and/or my „prime“ teenage years because of their selfishness. Ofc I love them and whatever just why insist on having kids at that age when they’re not even gonna be able to get to know their grandparents

Your mother was 48 years old when she gave birth to you? How did she even get to term with you? you are lucky you didn't end up a turbo sperg like that one woweee guy who just makes noises all day

 

[imontheloose]

Yes, eastern culture and religion both promote having lots of children. Being 3rd world/poorer countries and having a higher likelyhood of kids dying at a very young age may have some sort of role in this aswell.
Not wanting kids i can understand but i do not understand how a healthy man with healthy levels of testosterone has no interest in sex or any relations with the opposite gender, yes women suck but our programming makes it so we still want it and part of this also means wanting children.
You would think after where i spent my formative years that i would have no interest in women, children or any of that, and yet i still do. It is an innate desire for sex and procreation which i attribute to my programming that i would have thought is in almost every human being. Even after my parents having me so late and me suffering, and realizing i am not normal, i still want to be normal and get married, have kids and make them proud. Even after i came to the understanding that their selfishness is the reason why i am here in the first place and why i had to endure and suffer everything till date.

I don't know what to think anymore, this desire for the opposite gender and to have a family has not left me and continues to torment me. The cycle may very well just end up continuing, my children if i ever have any will very likely end up suffering just like i did. I just keep thinking about the alternative and dying alone and lonely. Although knowing me i would jump off a bridge or blow my brains out by 40 if i were to continue down the path that i am currently on.

Normies really live life ignorantly in bliss. Their minds do not think like ours, sometimes i wish i was an NPC normie, i'd be a lot happier atleast.

I am unwell. I have approx. 800ng/dL testosterone and good free test. This is not a hormone issue.

I feel bad for people like you who can’t escape that need for a counterpart. Your likelihood for suicide certainly decreases, you’ll always have something you innately want to chase. I lost that.

I’m not sure why I am the way I am now, but I suspect it was all them years online catching up to me. Ignorance is bliss. I used to imagine my life as a normie and I viewed it as infinitely better than my current life, but it’s a pointless thought. This is the only reality of which I’m aware so there’s no point inventing a separate one: I was destined to have this brain and the actions I committed and didn’t were all consequences of electric impulses in my skull, nothing I could’ve done to prevent this. It’s a wasted thought.

 

[dr.nikki]

Your mother was 48 years old when she gave birth to you? How did she even get to term with you? you are lucky you didn't end up a turbo sperg like that one woweee guy who just makes noises all day

Yeah I agree, my guess is I’m adopted or that my dad impregnated another woman. None of my features resemble any of my moms and they’re always a little secretive about how me and my brother were born. I have decided not to look into it for the sake of my wellbeing but it’s something that’s always been in the back of my mind. I am over 6ft and somewhat well developed, my brother is even taller and bigger so I’m thankful we didn’t come out retarded or malformed but that’s exactly the reason why I’m skeptical

 

[jaaba]

If you are 35-40 years of age, you are selfish for having kids at such a late age. I understand sometimes shit happens in life and you get to 35 or even 40 and then don't want to die childless but lots of men and women are leaving it really late.
It's not fair on your kids. By the time they are 25 or 30 years old, you are senile and in some cases dead before you can even see your grandchildren. It's not fair on the kids, they don't get to see their grandparents because grandparents died years if not decades ago, uncles/aunts probably also dead or senile.
Kids get married and know their children will never get to experience life with grandparents, you look around and other kids have grandparents that are active in their life, the difference is their grandparents are 15-20 years younger because their parents unlike yours decided to have kids at a younger age and didn't leave it until 35-40.
My parents were both 40/41 years of age when i was born. I am now 30 and i didn't even get a chance to meet my grandparents, they died before i was born or when i was very young. Most of my aunts/uncles are dead, my parents are senile.
I look around and my peers parents are in their 50s, their grandparents are still alive and have a role in their life. It's so unfair to have kids when you are 40 years old. It's not fair on them and you are selfish.
I firmly believe you should have kids in your twenties by the latest, recently i read that the average age of new parents in the west is 32 years old, it's crazy. Have children in your 20s so when your kids are adults, you are not senile and are still in your 40s and can have a real relationship with your adult children. Not only that but you can have a relationship with your grandkids aswell. I also recommend having lots of kids, try to aim for atleast 4. Children who don't have any siblings almost always wished they had siblings. It's nice to have brothers/sisters because your parents aren't always going to be around.
Rant over i guess, you guys are the new generation so i am telling you what's happening and you should avoid it or you will regret it. On top of having parents who gave birth at 40, my dad is a deadbeat who was never in my life and my mother is extremely low IQ. It's a miracle i have even made it to 30 considering how i grew up. I probably shouldn't have been born, i mean the chances of conceiving at 41 are quite low, pure fucking bad luck for me.
I'm pretty sure i used up all my luck just being born. Atleast i am old enough to have experienced the world before social media and all this other nonsense.

I agree, financial stability is a roadblock if you want to procreate young tho unfortunately

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

Yeah 40 and above is just crazy. The chance of being able to conceive is quite low so seeing a decent amount of guys with old mothers is shocking.

What do you think if one parent is 30 and the other is 40+? Honestly, I think it’s bad.

 

[JohnDoe]

What do you think if one parent is 30 and the other is 40+? Honestly, I think it’s bad.

Yh it's not ideal. Children need both parents, not just one. The father and mother both have their own specific purpose that the other parent cannot fulfill. If it's like the father is 30 and the mother 21 or 22, then it's alright but if they have kids when the father is 40+ and mother in her 30s then it's not good i agree. The mother for the most part has to be young, ideally early 20s. Men can have healthy sperm for a long time, the issue is most men really let themselves go after 30, they get fat, unhealthy, microplastics, etc etc and they degrade their sperm but it still ends up fine if the woman is a young 20 something healthy fertile woman. If man and woman are both lets say 20-25, they're only going to be mid 40s when their kids are 20 year old adults, that's good.

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

Yh it's not ideal. Children need both parents, not just one. The father and mother both have their own specific purpose that the other parent cannot fulfill. If it's like the father is 30 and the mother 21 or 22, then it's alright but if they have kids when the father is 40+ and mother in her 30s then it's not good i agree. The mother for the most part has to be young, ideally early 20s. Men can have healthy sperm for a long time, the issue is most men really let themselves go after 30, they get fat, unhealthy, microplastics, etc etc and they degrade their sperm but it still ends up fine if the woman is a young 20 something healthy fertile woman. If man and woman are both lets say 20-25, they're only going to be mid 40s when their kids are 20 year old adults, that's good.

I agree. Ideally, parents should be the same age, and preferably somewhere between early and mid-twenties.

 

[JohnDoe]

I agree. Ideally, parents should be the same age, and preferably somewhere between early and mid-twenties.

I'm of the opinion that the man should be a little older, especially if the girl is 20-23, guys in that age range lack resources, immaturity, etc. Girls in that age range are much better suited with guys 3-7 years older.

 

[ltn_looksminner]

High iq post , one of the reasons i will not be having kids

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

I'm of the opinion that the man should be a little older, especially if the girl is 20-23, guys in that age range lack resources, immaturity, etc. Girls in that age range are much better suited with guys 3-7 years older.

I disagree. There are guys who already have their shit together at 21. And nearly all (wo)men are immature. Adults are highkey just grownup kids.

 

[JohnDoe]

I disagree. There are guys who already have their shit together at 21. And nearly all (wo)men are immature. Adults are highkey just grownup kids.

the women never really maturing i can somewhat agree on but most guys at 21 are actually immature and don't have their shit together. At 21 they are barely graduating from university, they need to find a job that will pay minimum wage or a little above it, they have no house, no assets, no money really. They are not ready to become a provider for wife + kids yet. It's doable ofcourse but i don't think it's ideal. Men need to be somewhat settled before marriage in my eyes.

 

[Deleted member 90273]

If you are 35-40 years of age, you are selfish for having kids at such a late age. I understand sometimes shit happens in life and you get to 35 or even 40 and then don't want to die childless but lots of men and women are leaving it really late.
It's not fair on your kids. By the time they are 25 or 30 years old, you are senile and in some cases dead before you can even see your grandchildren. It's not fair on the kids, they don't get to see their grandparents because grandparents died years if not decades ago, uncles/aunts probably also dead or senile.
Kids get married and know their children will never get to experience life with grandparents, you look around and other kids have grandparents that are active in their life, the difference is their grandparents are 15-20 years younger because their parents unlike yours decided to have kids at a younger age and didn't leave it until 35-40.
My parents were both 40/41 years of age when i was born. I am now 30 and i didn't even get a chance to meet my grandparents, they died before i was born or when i was very young. Most of my aunts/uncles are dead, my parents are senile.
I look around and my peers parents are in their 50s, their grandparents are still alive and have a role in their life. It's so unfair to have kids when you are 40 years old. It's not fair on them and you are selfish.
I firmly believe you should have kids in your twenties by the latest, recently i read that the average age of new parents in the west is 32 years old, it's crazy. Have children in your 20s so when your kids are adults, you are not senile and are still in your 40s and can have a real relationship with your adult children. Not only that but you can have a relationship with your grandkids aswell. I also recommend having lots of kids, try to aim for atleast 4. Children who don't have any siblings almost always wished they had siblings. It's nice to have brothers/sisters because your parents aren't always going to be around.
Rant over i guess, you guys are the new generation so i am telling you what's happening and you should avoid it or you will regret it. On top of having parents who gave birth at 40, my dad is a deadbeat who was never in my life and my mother is extremely low IQ. It's a miracle i have even made it to 30 considering how i grew up. I probably shouldn't have been born, i mean the chances of conceiving at 41 are quite low, pure fucking bad luck for me.
I'm pretty sure i used up all my luck just being born. Atleast i am old enough to have experienced the world before social media and all this other nonsense.

did not read answers but it hink the reason for this is that people cannot afford kids. Affording kids becomes affordable around those 30-year ages when u earn some money.

When before women were just home and men made the money and living was much more affordable.

 

[Arminus]

Im only 19 and my parents are already 76 and 61. It’s extremely brutal, no hope of having my dad past age 25 probably and theres a decently high chance that i’ll be wasting my twenties taking care of my mother. The only real time i’ve spent with my extended family was when I wasn’t old enough to remember.

spend alot of time with them man that’s not fair ur so young and they are so old

 

[Ghost Philosophy]

the women never really maturing i can somewhat agree on but most guys at 21 are actually immature and don't have their shit together. At 21 they are barely graduating from university, they need to find a job that will pay minimum wage or a little above it, they have no house, no assets, no money really. They are not ready to become a provider for wife + kids yet. It's doable ofcourse but i don't think it's ideal. Men need to be somewhat settled before marriage in my eyes.

You’re making generalizations though. It’s in the realm of possibilities. I have a classmate who’s 21… he’s married since 20, works a job and recently moved into a new apartment. So it depends on the individual. Someone like me though? Yeah that would be unrealistic.

 

[Arminus]

did not read answers but it hink the reason for this is that people cannot afford kids. Affording kids becomes affordable around those 30-year ages when u earn some money.

When before women were just home and men made the money and living was much more affordable.

And who destroyed thatthe big hat and big nosed

 

[Deleted member 90273]

And who destroyed thatthe big hat and big nosed

inflation and wages not growing at the same rate.

but the big hatted and big nosed can be a reason for the inflation

 

[Arminus]

inflation and wages not growing at the same rate.

but the big hatted and big nosed can be a reason for the inflation

How do I jobmax

 

[ltngreyy]

If you are 35-40 years of age, you are selfish for having kids at such a late age. I understand sometimes shit happens in life and you get to 35 or even 40 and then don't want to die childless but lots of men and women are leaving it really late.
It's not fair on your kids. By the time they are 25 or 30 years old, you are senile and in some cases dead before you can even see your grandchildren. It's not fair on the kids, they don't get to see their grandparents because grandparents died years if not decades ago, uncles/aunts probably also dead or senile.
Kids get married and know their children will never get to experience life with grandparents, you look around and other kids have grandparents that are active in their life, the difference is their grandparents are 15-20 years younger because their parents unlike yours decided to have kids at a younger age and didn't leave it until 35-40.
My parents were both 40/41 years of age when i was born. I am now 30 and i didn't even get a chance to meet my grandparents, they died before i was born or when i was very young. Most of my aunts/uncles are dead, my parents are senile.
I look around and my peers parents are in their 50s, their grandparents are still alive and have a role in their life. It's so unfair to have kids when you are 40 years old. It's not fair on them and you are selfish.
I firmly believe you should have kids in your twenties by the latest, recently i read that the average age of new parents in the west is 32 years old, it's crazy. Have children in your 20s so when your kids are adults, you are not senile and are still in your 40s and can have a real relationship with your adult children. Not only that but you can have a relationship with your grandkids aswell. I also recommend having lots of kids, try to aim for atleast 4. Children who don't have any siblings almost always wished they had siblings. It's nice to have brothers/sisters because your parents aren't always going to be around.
Rant over i guess, you guys are the new generation so i am telling you what's happening and you should avoid it or you will regret it. On top of having parents who gave birth at 40, my dad is a deadbeat who was never in my life and my mother is extremely low IQ. It's a miracle i have even made it to 30 considering how i grew up. I probably shouldn't have been born, i mean the chances of conceiving at 41 are quite low, pure fucking bad luck for me.
I'm pretty sure i used up all my luck just being born. Atleast i am old enough to have experienced the world before social media and all this other nonsense.

Don have children in the fst place

 

[Deleted member 90273]

How do I jobmax

why do you ask me

I have 3 jobs and do all kind of hustles for money but im still broke.

their lowcortisol tho so it doesnt matter

 

[Arminus]

why do you ask me

I have 3 jobs and do all kind of hustles for money but im still broke.

their lowcortisol tho so it doesnt matter

Give me advice please

 

[JohnDoe]

You’re making generalizations though. It’s in the realm of possibilities. I have a classmate who’s 21… he’s married since 20, works a job and recently moved into a new apartment. So it depends on the individual. Someone like me though? Yeah that would be unrealistic.

Well not really, i said most 21 year olds are not really ready for marriage, some guys are for sure but most are not. I was once 21 and in university too, i know what my peers were like, barely any of them were in a position where they could take care of not only themselves but also a woman, house/food/potential kids/etc. Especially in current year where the job market for new graduates is absolutely terrible. I wish i had gotten married in my early 20s like my father wanted me to, oh well.

 

[Deleted member 90273]

Give me advice please

u can come pms this is getting out of convo yk, dont want to bomb op

 

[1966Ford]

Also, the risk of birth defects at 40, you know, autism and other conditions like that

 

[Foreverbrad]

Fuck having kids, can’t even have a decent life for myself.

 

[nocajebudala]

whats wrong with 35 lol, gives you plenty of time

 

[Gargantuan]

In nature, you would have five generations living all at once. It's actually wild how modern people have their first kid when they are already biologically grandparents, collapsing two generations into one and calling it normal.

 

[McSkziofren]

Its the best lmao. Js look what hapened to molly, reaised by 33year olds. Her dather tolked like its game or throne/stalker 2 /kill bil/squid ward game/batel royale and told her to kill kjds on school lmao esp chadss

 

[JohnDoe]

Fuck having kids, can’t even have a decent life for myself.

do you think the average joe in the UK has a fulfilling life? do you think they are happy? Normies have shown they can be happy in very dire circumstances.

 

[JohnDoe]

whats wrong with 35 lol, gives you plenty of time

for men? it's a little late, for women it's very late imo. This new trend which doesn't seem to be stopping but instead increasing is bad, women should not be putting off children until their late 30s.
Other women are now telling younger women it's okay to wait untl they are 35 38 and even 40 to have children. It's sabotage and pure delusion and ignorance of biology. Giving birth to an autismo at 40 is somehow seen as being ideal and for what? all so these women can have professional jobs which they don't really need.
Motherhood is gods gift to women, instead they spit in his face to become goy cattle wage slaves.

 

[Foreverbrad]

do you think the average joe in the UK has a fulfilling life? do you think they are happy? Normies have shown they can be happy in very dire circumstances.

They at least don’t have £50k of genetic debt to pay off and didn’t lose their entire youth to being hideously ugly, socially excluded incels.

There are much worse places like India but people still manage to be happy even there.

It doesn’t matter what hierarchy you are in, it just matters not to be right at the fucking bottom of it - that’s the key point here.

I will try my best with hardmaxxing and then attempt to rewire my brain using drugs and positive feedback loop but I fear that I’m just so badly lacking in life experiences now at my age it’s simply impossible to catch up.

 

[try2beme]

Dad got married at 40
Mom had me at 33