Having kids late is extremely unfair to your children

[JohnDoe]

In nature, you would have five generations living all at once. It's actually wild how modern people have their first kid when they are already biologically grandparents, collapsing two generations into one and calling it normal.

Yep it's an absolute disaster. They shill the "Nuclear family" but i don't believe in it. It's not natural at all for husband and wife to live alone with their child, in nature grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins would help with the children and you would help them when it's their turn. The support network was far greater, everyone wasn't isolated from each other. 20 > 40 >60 > 80, some people still have four generations living together (well alive, they don't even live together for the most part anymore) but these families are few and far between. We are just brainwashed into thinking 18 year old women are little girls who can't have children, it's a joke. Their bodies are ready to procreate, biologically, visually it's clear as day. Their hips/sexual features are that of an adult woman. The same old debunked "brain keeps developing until 25" argument keeps getting brought up but it's nonsense.
It takes a village to raise a child. 32 or 33 is the age for first time parents in the west, whereas it's like you said, most would be grandparents in their early to mid 30s atleast. I get that the average lifespan was lower back then but i still think they were having children at the right ages. I'm 30 and one of my biggest regrets is not getting married in my early 20s when i had the chance to do so, i simply didn't know better at the time. That's why i want to marry a girl as young as i possibly can, i want as many children as possible and only young women can provide that.

 

[JohnDoe]

They at least don’t have £50k of genetic debt to pay off and didn’t lose their entire youth to being hideously ugly, socially excluded incels.

There are much worse places like India but people still manage to be happy even there.

It doesn’t matter what hierarchy you are in, it just matters not to be right at the fucking bottom of it - that’s the key point here.

I will try my best with hardmaxxing and then attempt to rewire my brain using drugs and positive feedback loop but I fear that I’m just so badly lacking in life experiences now at my age it’s simply impossible to catch up.

It's brutal being ugly isn't it? the debt hasn't been paid for me which is why i'm a 30 y/o KHHV. I don't think the damage can be undone honestly, the drugs may temporarily help but they will wear off. The damage done to our brains is permanent, our whole psyche is programmed now in a way that we will forever be abused dogs. We will never fit in with them.
Lots of people living in the 3rd world leading happier lives than us, happiness is a fickle thing. Life in the UK is so shit, i just don't understand how anyone is truly happy here unless they are rich. I guess normies are okay with the soulless life here.

You're 32, getting old pal. Is hardmaxxing even worth it now? maybe you need to do it in order to ascend if you want to settle down with a "good" woman. A lifetime of negative feedback loop won't be undone with a few years of positive if it even happens that is. I really doubt it. Normies have so many life experiences and memories in their 20s which i do not have, there's no undoing this or going back. It's gone forever and i'll never get to experience them.

 

[gymceltard]

My parents were both 40/41 years of age when i was born. I am now 30 and i didn't even get a chance to meet my grandparents, they died before i was born or when i was very young. Most of my aunts/uncles are dead, my parents are senile.

Same but we wouldn’t exist if our parents didn’t have sex at the exact moment they had sex. It had to be this way for me to be born.

If my dad jacked off instead then I would be dead in a tissue paper instead of inside my mom’s vagina penetrating her egg and forum a fetus.

Or if my parents had a baby 5 years earlier someone else would have been born and not me.

 

[Foreverbrad]

It's brutal being ugly isn't it? the debt hasn't been paid for me which is why i'm a 30 y/o KHHV. I don't think the damage can be undone honestly, the drugs may temporarily help but they will wear off. The damage done to our brains is permanent, our whole psyche is programmed now in a way that we will forever be abused dogs. We will never fit in with them.
Lots of people living in the 3rd world leading happier lives than us, happiness is a fickle thing. Life in the UK is so shit, i just don't understand how anyone is truly happy here unless they are rich. I guess normies are okay with the soulless life here.

You're 32, getting old pal. Is hardmaxxing even worth it now? maybe you need to do it in order to ascend if you want to settle down with a "good" woman. A lifetime of negative feedback loop won't be undone with a few years of positive if it even happens that is. I really doubt it. Normies have so many life experiences and memories in their 20s which i do not have, there's no undoing this or going back. It's gone forever and i'll never get to experience them.

I’ve read about people having mental rewiring on things like LSD and shrooms and @Alexanderr has also posted some threads about substances that could be used toward that purpose. Every time I see a thread related to that, I save it for that one day when it might come in useful.

Drugs like Pregab, alcohol, baclofen, cocaine, phenibut, propranolol and so on ease the symptoms of social anxiety and reduce inhibition. In theory you can then “lock in” that behavior using the first class of drugs plus positive reinforcement. It all hinges on the physical ascension though.

I have decent potential as I’m not aging badly (no hair loss, ok skin) and I’ve significant haloes (height, race, eye color, eye shape, hair, dick size) that are unfortunately overpowered by a couple of extreme failos (recessed jaws, bug eyes) so I think once I hardmax my way out of those failos and max out a couple other things (I could improve my physique a LOT and my skin work is minimal right now) I could theoretically look much better and younger.

I’m never going to catch up with people my own age but if I age fraud and truly live the lie, I may be at least able to achieve some kind of result.



As I always say - what else is there to do anyway?

 

[JohnnyRamone]

If you are 35-40 years of age, you are selfish for having kids at such a late age. I understand sometimes shit happens in life and you get to 35 or even 40 and then don't want to die childless but lots of men and women are leaving it really late.
It's not fair on your kids. By the time they are 25 or 30 years old, you are senile and in some cases dead before you can even see your grandchildren. It's not fair on the kids, they don't get to see their grandparents because grandparents died years if not decades ago, uncles/aunts probably also dead or senile.
Kids get married and know their children will never get to experience life with grandparents, you look around and other kids have grandparents that are active in their life, the difference is their grandparents are 15-20 years younger because their parents unlike yours decided to have kids at a younger age and didn't leave it until 35-40.
My parents were both 40/41 years of age when i was born. I am now 30 and i didn't even get a chance to meet my grandparents, they died before i was born or when i was very young. Most of my aunts/uncles are dead, my parents are senile.
I look around and my peers parents are in their 50s, their grandparents are still alive and have a role in their life. It's so unfair to have kids when you are 40 years old. It's not fair on them and you are selfish.
I firmly believe you should have kids in your twenties by the latest, recently i read that the average age of new parents in the west is 32 years old, it's crazy. Have children in your 20s so when your kids are adults, you are not senile and are still in your 40s and can have a real relationship with your adult children. Not only that but you can have a relationship with your grandkids aswell. I also recommend having lots of kids, try to aim for atleast 4. Children who don't have any siblings almost always wished they had siblings. It's nice to have brothers/sisters because your parents aren't always going to be around.
Rant over i guess, you guys are the new generation so i am telling you what's happening and you should avoid it or you will regret it. On top of having parents who gave birth at 40, my dad is a deadbeat who was never in my life and my mother is extremely low IQ. It's a miracle i have even made it to 30 considering how i grew up. I probably shouldn't have been born, i mean the chances of conceiving at 41 are quite low, pure fucking bad luck for me.
I'm pretty sure i used up all my luck just being born. Atleast i am old enough to have experienced the world before social media and all this other nonsense.

Where do you live? The Congo? Where I live, the life expectancy is 82. Have a ton of kids in your 20's and support them how? On government assistance? This is just the opposite end of the red pill cope that 40+ years is a man's prime years.

 

[JohnnyRamone]

whats wrong with 35 lol, gives you plenty of time

35's not even that old to be having kids. Lol. If he was talking about in your 50's, that would be one thing, but this?

 

[swaggers]

I firmly believe you should have kids in your twenties by the latest, recently i read that the average age of new parents in the west is 32 years old, it's crazy. Have children in your 20s so when your kids are adults, you are not senile and are still in your 40s and can have a real relationship with your adult children. Not only that but you can have a relationship with your grandkids aswell. I also recommend having lots of kids, try to aim for atleast 4. Children who don't have any siblings almost always wished they had siblings. It's nice to have brothers/sisters because your parents aren't always going to be around.

I FIRMLY believe you shouldnt have kids in uyour early-mid 20s

my parents had me in their early 40s and i still see my grandparents quite alot as they are still alive. they had me pretty late because of med school and shit

I just dont think people that young are set up financinally well enough to have children


Ill definetely be having kids in my late 20s or 30s.

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

I agree but because my “mother” had me at 40. I have a physical deformity because of a birth issue strongly correlated with maternal age. Old parents = ugly deformed kids. Foids should have their pussies stitched up and ovaries removed at 35 at the latest.

 

[LTNUser]

I agree but because my “mother” had me at 40. I have a physical deformity because of a birth issue strongly correlated with maternal age. Old parents = ugly deformed kids. Foids should have their pussies stitched up and ovaries removed at 35 at the latest.

My dad and my mother gave me birth when they were 43 and 34 respectively
I don't have any deformity but I'm ugly

 

[Luquier]

Gay you should be plapping women whenever

 

[Luquier]

Children ARE wealth

 

[Mainlander]

Dad is 65 im 18

 

[vivex]

LIBERALIST FEMINISM PROPAGANDA, ANTI-NATALISM IS ANTI-HUMAN

 

[E moment]

He had me when he was around 60+

 

[Luquier]

Just claim child benefits you cuckold

 

[Buterman]

Yep it's an absolute disaster. They shill the "Nuclear family" but i don't believe in it. It's not natural at all for husband and wife to live alone with their child, in nature grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins would help with the children and you would help them when it's their turn. The support network was far greater, everyone wasn't isolated from each other. 20 > 40 >60 > 80, some people still have four generations living together (well alive, they don't even live together for the most part anymore) but these families are few and far between. We are just brainwashed into thinking 18 year old women are little girls who can't have children, it's a joke. Their bodies are ready to procreate, biologically, visually it's clear as day. Their hips/sexual features are that of an adult woman. The same old debunked "brain keeps developing until 25" argument keeps getting brought up but it's nonsense.
It takes a village to raise a child. 32 or 33 is the age for first time parents in the west, whereas it's like you said, most would be grandparents in their early to mid 30s atleast. I get that the average lifespan was lower back then but i still think they were having children at the right ages. I'm 30 and one of my biggest regrets is not getting married in my early 20s when i had the chance to do so, i simply didn't know better at the time. That's why i want to marry a girl as young as i possibly can, i want as many children as possible and only young women can provide that.

i’m ok with this as long as you’re white if someone brown, please don’t reproduce you are already too many

 

[canthus5]

If you are 35-40 years of age, you are selfish for having kids at such a late age. I understand sometimes shit happens in life and you get to 35 or even 40 and then don't want to die childless but lots of men and women are leaving it really late.
It's not fair on your kids. By the time they are 25 or 30 years old, you are senile and in some cases dead before you can even see your grandchildren. It's not fair on the kids, they don't get to see their grandparents because grandparents died years if not decades ago, uncles/aunts probably also dead or senile.
Kids get married and know their children will never get to experience life with grandparents, you look around and other kids have grandparents that are active in their life, the difference is their grandparents are 15-20 years younger because their parents unlike yours decided to have kids at a younger age and didn't leave it until 35-40.
My parents were both 40/41 years of age when i was born. I am now 30 and i didn't even get a chance to meet my grandparents, they died before i was born or when i was very young. Most of my aunts/uncles are dead, my parents are senile.
I look around and my peers parents are in their 50s, their grandparents are still alive and have a role in their life. It's so unfair to have kids when you are 40 years old. It's not fair on them and you are selfish.
I firmly believe you should have kids in your twenties by the latest, recently i read that the average age of new parents in the west is 32 years old, it's crazy. Have children in your 20s so when your kids are adults, you are not senile and are still in your 40s and can have a real relationship with your adult children. Not only that but you can have a relationship with your grandkids aswell. I also recommend having lots of kids, try to aim for atleast 4. Children who don't have any siblings almost always wished they had siblings. It's nice to have brothers/sisters because your parents aren't always going to be around.
Rant over i guess, you guys are the new generation so i am telling you what's happening and you should avoid it or you will regret it. On top of having parents who gave birth at 40, my dad is a deadbeat who was never in my life and my mother is extremely low IQ. It's a miracle i have even made it to 30 considering how i grew up. I probably shouldn't have been born, i mean the chances of conceiving at 41 are quite low, pure fucking bad luck for me.
I'm pretty sure i used up all my luck just being born. Atleast i am old enough to have experienced the world before social media and all this other nonsense.

also unfair to the kids because it significantly raises chances of having issues like down syndrome. like i know this super fucking autistic guy and he said his dad was like 65 when he had him and his mom was already 35 like no fucking shit hes retarded his life was fucked from the beginning.

 

[134applesauce456]

my mom had me at 31

but i wish it wasnt me wish it was someone else that could make them happy

 

[Nectar]

I believe there is a higher risk of health complications such as diseases and chromosome disorders

 

[Wildlife]

I agree. It’s one of the worst things you can do. But I’d put it at 40+ instead of 35-40.

You're running out of time️️️️️

 

[ghenghis]

35 is not late at all. I know someone whos father had them at 50

 

[Mighty_One]

DNR, i aint spending my 20's raising some kid