Having no charisma is ruining your life

[IanIachimoe2491]

everytime i see posts like this on here i realize this paki motherfucker was kind of right jfl......View attachment 2641825

kind of true

 

[mayo mogger]

After leaving PSL for 3 years, aging from 17 to 20, I've gathered some wisdom and wanted to drop it here. Just hoping my experiences can help some of you avoid the same awkward blunders. I know a lot of you are teens just finding your way, and I reckon these insights could be useful to reaching your peak potential.

First off, I still swear by looks theory, no change there. How good you look acts as a multiplier to how positively people react to your actions. However, my reasons for looksmaxxing have changed, and it has increased my quality of life drastically. To explain this, I’ll tell you my story, and it’s long so I don’t blame you if you don’t read.

Before PSL, I was a socially anxious, unconfident wreck who thought playing video games was life’s ultimate joy. I was also below average in looks. In my first couple dates around this time, I had no success. I’d run out of words, and my conversations were extremely dry. Basically the whole date, I’d feel awkward. Not just with the girls, but with my small circle too. I was generally a pretty boring and quiet person to be around.

At this time, I first discovered PSL and got hooked. I did everything I could within my budget to improve my looks which included mainly; skin, hair, facial leanness, muscles, among other niche things like mewing, ice hooding, eyelid pulling, chewing, ect. I swapped gaming with spending countless hours reading threads, most of which being shitposts just so I could kill time. Looksmax was on my mind the whole day as a result, and I became ultra-aware of how I looked all the time. Countless selfies, daily, were taken. I’d take extreme measures such as dry fasting just to get those coveted hollow cheeks for a few days. And guess what? People started noticing.

Suddenly, both guys and girls I already knew well at school started complimenting my clothes and hair out of the blue. Being so obsessed with how I looked, this boosted my confidence sky-high. I felt ready to try going on dates again. What I noticed was that the same things I said to girls on dates before, had a slightly better reception than before. For example, jokes I made would make them laugh a little harder than before. However, the social anxiety stuck, and that awkward feeling never went away. My voice had no spirit, and I was still boring to talk to in general. At that time, I was so obsessed with looks that my personality wasn’t even in the question as to why I couldn’t get a girlfriend.

Frustrated, I would dry fast even longer, use shoe lifts, and generally take more extreme measures to look slightly better. On the next date, I pre-drank alcohol until I couldn’t feel my face, just so I wouldn’t feel awkward. And it worked like a charm. I was able to talk endlessly and the girl enjoyed my company so much to the point where I was able to land my first kiss. At the time, I thought I’d cracked the code.

On the next date with the same girl, I embraced the alcohol again for another good time. But for whatever reason, the magic fizzled out and I couldn’t get rid of my social awkwardness the same way I did the first time. I was just a plain, unfiltered version of my normal boring self. I couldn’t produce the same fun vibe I did in the last date, and I wasn’t able to make her feel good. Despite looking the exact same, the girl I thought I knew treated me like a distant relative at a family reunion. From having fun the whole date previously, to her looking uninterested the whole time. This shattered my confidence.

It hit me that my personality had a much more significant role in attraction than what I concluded from reading PSL threads. I also began getting sick of rotting my whole day shitposting on PSL. Like it wasn’t even that fun, I just wanted to pass the time the exact same way as I did with gaming. Fed up and feeling like a lost cause, I ditched PSL but kept the valuable looksmaxing advice in the back of my mind.

I gave up on dating all together and started hitting the books to become a doctor/dentist as I liked the idea of the money and job fulfilment that field has. However, where I live you must take an in-person interview to assess if you have the right personality for the course. My boring, spiritless personality was the opposite of what interviewers look for which is an empathetic, charismatic, and caring personality. I began prepping myself for the future interview with generic questions they ask, and on filming myself, I realised I didn’t have a chance if thats how I acted in the real interview. I was boring even to myself, speaking like a soulless robot.

With not enough time for a full on personality transplant, I looked upon my trusty wingman - alcohol. Somehow, in the interview I was able to express myself without any social awkwardness and luckily I wasn’t impaired enough to where I forgot the interview responses that I had rehearsed when I was sober before. And it worked. I got into the course I wanted and was now set for a future of green and fulfilment.

Upon starting the course, I gained another reality check and realised how out of place I was. Everyone in my cohort seemed to have had a vibrant and interesting character to them whereas whenever I talked, I felt dull and boring. One class was a health communication skills class, and I was bottom of the barrel when it was my turn to talk. I managed to make friends, but they were the life of the party, while I was the aspie.

My cohort was not that great looking on average, with 90% being nerdy skinny ethnics. I was atleast around the top 10 best looking people out of the 100 people in my year. Yet, the average and below average Joes didn’t have a problem scoring a girlfriend from my course within weeks of us starting the year. My friend from the course who’s very average looking got a girlfriend from our cohort, broke up, then not even a week later got a new girlfriend from the same cohort. It seemed like magic to me at the time. But I started puzzling things together, and realised that same friend had charisma for days.

I began to put most my focus on my personality and decided to go all in on constant socialisation. This meant spending as little time as I could doing things other than socialisation. I would wake up, get my looksmax routine including gym out the way, finish class, and hit the books. The rest of the 8 or so hours of the day, I turned into pure socialisation. The friend group I spent my time with were very outgoing, so we were always talking or doing something together after class until night. Even at night, I forced myself to facetime my friends as opposed to what I used to do which was to mindlessly scroll and watch random youtube videos.

My days went from this:

Wake up → Looksmax routine → Browse looksmax → Sleep

To this:

Wake up → Looksmax routine → Go to class/study → Socialise → Sleep

In less than a week, I noticed myself changing the way I speak, and I started to like my own personality more and more as the days went on. My short, snoozefest replies started becoming longer and more lively. After a month of this, my newfound social confidence was amazing as you could probably expect with endless hours of chit-chat every day. I felt as though I could make anyone I talked to feel good, and this extended to girls too. I could chat to any girl and could actually enjoy the conversation without feeling even the slightest bit awkward. Fast forward a few months and I found a girlfriend who I’ve been happily together with for the past 2 years. It’s like hanging out with people everyday unlocked the DLC edition of life for me. I’d never been so content in my life.

Still, I believe looks theory is legit. However, I barely see any threads encouraging more socialisation when a good personality is a huge halo, and a bad one is a huge failo.

I also don’t believe in one night stands. While it might be fun in the short term, its unfulfilling in the long term. At best you’ll get to have sex with a 10 with low morals, a few days a year. It also encourages you to be anti-social. You only have to talk to the girl when you want sex. Also, at some point you’ll lose your looks. What will make you happy when you’re 40? 50? 60?

I feel like the average normie is far more charismatic than someone who rots here all day like I used to. Because they intuitively socialise constantly. The only difference is that normies do not care or know about the niche looksmax advice that you have. Even so, alot of normies go to the gym, eat well, and have good haircuts.

So you’re automatically setting your potential back if you aren’t also becoming as sociable as you can whilst looksmaxxing. Looksmaxxing doesn’t take that long out of your day anyway. Give me one reason why you shouldn’t be socialising the rest of the day if you want people to like you more.

A couple socialisation recommendations:

• Opt for face to face conversations as your main form of socialisation. Avoid places like clubbing, playing games, ect as you’re technically with people, but you’re not actually improving your social skills.
• You don’t need to read any books, listen to any advice, or any of that from online. Trust me, in hours upon hours of consistent conversations, you’ll naturally pick up on what facial expressions, tone of voice, word choice, ect that make people feel the best around you.
• Spend your time with other charismatic people. If you spend your time with other people with poor social skills, you won’t improve.

I don’t know or care whatever coloured pill you would call this, but all I know is that total and true ascension is when you improve not only your looks above average, but your social skills above average too. If you disagree, I’d like to hear your side of the story.

TLDR: Have a short looksmax routine, complete any work/studies, then spend the rest of your day and night purely socialising.

No having a deformed caved in mid facs is more of a problem for me

 

[Maalik]

Breaking news:
.Org user goes outside, sends in a field report.

JFL

 

[Maalik]

But all that social shit you did would actually make you into a bigger abused dog if you were ugly af.
The wisdom here is looksmax before socialmax.

There is absolutely no point talking to people when ur subhuman. It'll just give negative reinforcement and turn you into a husk

 

[based_pakichad421]

if u wanna personalitymaxxx JUST READ FUCKING WATTPAD
although u have to be at least htn to apply stuff from there

 

[Deleted member 53927]

Rly good thread I'm actually gonna apply this this semester. ty

 

[nevermind2]

How to f you have energy to socialise all day nigga I'd kms

 

[halfbloodaryanmaxxe]

moral of the story.
Sub chad looks won’t give you automatic pussy. You also need NT.

 

[Cheat_Win]

After leaving PSL for 3 years, aging from 17 to 20, I've gathered some wisdom and wanted to drop it here. Just hoping my experiences can help some of you avoid the same awkward blunders. I know a lot of you are teens just finding your way, and I reckon these insights could be useful to reaching your peak potential.

First off, I still swear by looks theory, no change there. How good you look acts as a multiplier to how positively people react to your actions. However, my reasons for looksmaxxing have changed, and it has increased my quality of life drastically. To explain this, I’ll tell you my story, and it’s long so I don’t blame you if you don’t read.

Before PSL, I was a socially anxious, unconfident wreck who thought playing video games was life’s ultimate joy. I was also below average in looks. In my first couple dates around this time, I had no success. I’d run out of words, and my conversations were extremely dry. Basically the whole date, I’d feel awkward. Not just with the girls, but with my small circle too. I was generally a pretty boring and quiet person to be around.

At this time, I first discovered PSL and got hooked. I did everything I could within my budget to improve my looks which included mainly; skin, hair, facial leanness, muscles, among other niche things like mewing, ice hooding, eyelid pulling, chewing, ect. I swapped gaming with spending countless hours reading threads, most of which being shitposts just so I could kill time. Looksmax was on my mind the whole day as a result, and I became ultra-aware of how I looked all the time. Countless selfies, daily, were taken. I’d take extreme measures such as dry fasting just to get those coveted hollow cheeks for a few days. And guess what? People started noticing.

Suddenly, both guys and girls I already knew well at school started complimenting my clothes and hair out of the blue. Being so obsessed with how I looked, this boosted my confidence sky-high. I felt ready to try going on dates again. What I noticed was that the same things I said to girls on dates before, had a slightly better reception than before. For example, jokes I made would make them laugh a little harder than before. However, the social anxiety stuck, and that awkward feeling never went away. My voice had no spirit, and I was still boring to talk to in general. At that time, I was so obsessed with looks that my personality wasn’t even in the question as to why I couldn’t get a girlfriend.

Frustrated, I would dry fast even longer, use shoe lifts, and generally take more extreme measures to look slightly better. On the next date, I pre-drank alcohol until I couldn’t feel my face, just so I wouldn’t feel awkward. And it worked like a charm. I was able to talk endlessly and the girl enjoyed my company so much to the point where I was able to land my first kiss. At the time, I thought I’d cracked the code.

On the next date with the same girl, I embraced the alcohol again for another good time. But for whatever reason, the magic fizzled out and I couldn’t get rid of my social awkwardness the same way I did the first time. I was just a plain, unfiltered version of my normal boring self. I couldn’t produce the same fun vibe I did in the last date, and I wasn’t able to make her feel good. Despite looking the exact same, the girl I thought I knew treated me like a distant relative at a family reunion. From having fun the whole date previously, to her looking uninterested the whole time. This shattered my confidence.

It hit me that my personality had a much more significant role in attraction than what I concluded from reading PSL threads. I also began getting sick of rotting my whole day shitposting on PSL. Like it wasn’t even that fun, I just wanted to pass the time the exact same way as I did with gaming. Fed up and feeling like a lost cause, I ditched PSL but kept the valuable looksmaxing advice in the back of my mind.

I gave up on dating all together and started hitting the books to become a doctor/dentist as I liked the idea of the money and job fulfilment that field has. However, where I live you must take an in-person interview to assess if you have the right personality for the course. My boring, spiritless personality was the opposite of what interviewers look for which is an empathetic, charismatic, and caring personality. I began prepping myself for the future interview with generic questions they ask, and on filming myself, I realised I didn’t have a chance if thats how I acted in the real interview. I was boring even to myself, speaking like a soulless robot.

With not enough time for a full on personality transplant, I looked upon my trusty wingman - alcohol. Somehow, in the interview I was able to express myself without any social awkwardness and luckily I wasn’t impaired enough to where I forgot the interview responses that I had rehearsed when I was sober before. And it worked. I got into the course I wanted and was now set for a future of green and fulfilment.

Upon starting the course, I gained another reality check and realised how out of place I was. Everyone in my cohort seemed to have had a vibrant and interesting character to them whereas whenever I talked, I felt dull and boring. One class was a health communication skills class, and I was bottom of the barrel when it was my turn to talk. I managed to make friends, but they were the life of the party, while I was the aspie.

My cohort was not that great looking on average, with 90% being nerdy skinny ethnics. I was atleast around the top 10 best looking people out of the 100 people in my year. Yet, the average and below average Joes didn’t have a problem scoring a girlfriend from my course within weeks of us starting the year. My friend from the course who’s very average looking got a girlfriend from our cohort, broke up, then not even a week later got a new girlfriend from the same cohort. It seemed like magic to me at the time. But I started puzzling things together, and realised that same friend had charisma for days.

I began to put most my focus on my personality and decided to go all in on constant socialisation. This meant spending as little time as I could doing things other than socialisation. I would wake up, get my looksmax routine including gym out the way, finish class, and hit the books. The rest of the 8 or so hours of the day, I turned into pure socialisation. The friend group I spent my time with were very outgoing, so we were always talking or doing something together after class until night. Even at night, I forced myself to facetime my friends as opposed to what I used to do which was to mindlessly scroll and watch random youtube videos.

My days went from this:

Wake up → Looksmax routine → Browse looksmax → Sleep

To this:

Wake up → Looksmax routine → Go to class/study → Socialise → Sleep

In less than a week, I noticed myself changing the way I speak, and I started to like my own personality more and more as the days went on. My short, snoozefest replies started becoming longer and more lively. After a month of this, my newfound social confidence was amazing as you could probably expect with endless hours of chit-chat every day. I felt as though I could make anyone I talked to feel good, and this extended to girls too. I could chat to any girl and could actually enjoy the conversation without feeling even the slightest bit awkward. Fast forward a few months and I found a girlfriend who I’ve been happily together with for the past 2 years. It’s like hanging out with people everyday unlocked the DLC edition of life for me. I’d never been so content in my life.

Still, I believe looks theory is legit. However, I barely see any threads encouraging more socialisation when a good personality is a huge halo, and a bad one is a huge failo.

I also don’t believe in one night stands. While it might be fun in the short term, its unfulfilling in the long term. At best you’ll get to have sex with a 10 with low morals, a few days a year. It also encourages you to be anti-social. You only have to talk to the girl when you want sex. Also, at some point you’ll lose your looks. What will make you happy when you’re 40? 50? 60?

I feel like the average normie is far more charismatic than someone who rots here all day like I used to. Because they intuitively socialise constantly. The only difference is that normies do not care or know about the niche looksmax advice that you have. Even so, alot of normies go to the gym, eat well, and have good haircuts.

So you’re automatically setting your potential back if you aren’t also becoming as sociable as you can whilst looksmaxxing. Looksmaxxing doesn’t take that long out of your day anyway. Give me one reason why you shouldn’t be socialising the rest of the day if you want people to like you more.

A couple socialisation recommendations:

• Opt for face to face conversations as your main form of socialisation. Avoid places like clubbing, playing games, ect as you’re technically with people, but you’re not actually improving your social skills.
• You don’t need to read any books, listen to any advice, or any of that from online. Trust me, in hours upon hours of consistent conversations, you’ll naturally pick up on what facial expressions, tone of voice, word choice, ect that make people feel the best around you.
• Spend your time with other charismatic people. If you spend your time with other people with poor social skills, you won’t improve.

I don’t know or care whatever coloured pill you would call this, but all I know is that total and true ascension is when you improve not only your looks above average, but your social skills above average too. If you disagree, I’d like to hear your side of the story.

TLDR: Have a short looksmax routine, complete any work/studies, then spend the rest of your day and night purely socialising.

Is like reading my life, i also went through this after ascending. I got a girlfriend only after I tried to act more confident. Women love confidence especially as the first impression. And confidence has different flavors per se, like many shapes and levels. With out it looks will only get you so far and probably more miserable because you will see uglier guys than you get with the women you want and then you ask yourself why. Well this is why, personally is as important if not more important than looks, but to get confidence the first thing to do is and always be improving your looks and if possible your status (money)

 

[Maalik]

Is like reading my life, i also went through this after ascending. I got a girlfriend only after I tried to act more confident. Women love confidence especially as the first impression. And confidence has different flavors per se, like many shapes and levels. With out it looks will only get you so far and probably more miserable because you will see uglier guys than you get with the women you want and then you ask yourself why. Well this is why, personally is as important if not more important than looks, but to get confidence the first thing to do is and always be improving your looks and if possible your status (money)

confidence without looks = Sexual Harassment charge incoming

 

[Cheat_Win]

confidence without looks = Sexual Harassment charge incoming

Not true, probably if you approach and stop random women on the street then you deserve what’s coming to you for not knowing your place

 

[kanderior]

Good thread, pretty much exactly how I view the black pill. Looking better is nice and helps, but it's always been mainly charisma and lack of NTness holding me back. And for a forum that loves to call everything cope they sure like to cope with this fantasy that somehow they can achieve supermodel-level looks which will allow them to be mute spergs that don't need any social skills to pull, which is the copest of copes.

 

[Cheat_Win]

Good thread, pretty much exactly how I view the black pill. Looking better is nice and helps, but it's always been mainly charisma and lack of NTness holding me back. And for a forum that loves to call everything cope they sure like to cope with this fantasy that somehow they can achieve supermodel-level looks which will allow them to be mute spergs that don't need any social skills to pull, which is the copest of copes.

Yeah, they cope because is easier to improve your looks but harder to improve your personality, especially for those in the spectrum

 

[Kristin]

After leaving PSL for 3 years, aging from 17 to 20, I've gathered some wisdom and wanted to drop it here. Just hoping my experiences can help some of you avoid the same awkward blunders. I know a lot of you are teens just finding your way, and I reckon these insights could be useful to reaching your peak potential.

First off, I still swear by looks theory, no change there. How good you look acts as a multiplier to how positively people react to your actions. However, my reasons for looksmaxxing have changed, and it has increased my quality of life drastically. To explain this, I’ll tell you my story, and it’s long so I don’t blame you if you don’t read.

Before PSL, I was a socially anxious, unconfident wreck who thought playing video games was life’s ultimate joy. I was also below average in looks. In my first couple dates around this time, I had no success. I’d run out of words, and my conversations were extremely dry. Basically the whole date, I’d feel awkward. Not just with the girls, but with my small circle too. I was generally a pretty boring and quiet person to be around.

At this time, I first discovered PSL and got hooked. I did everything I could within my budget to improve my looks which included mainly; skin, hair, facial leanness, muscles, among other niche things like mewing, ice hooding, eyelid pulling, chewing, ect. I swapped gaming with spending countless hours reading threads, most of which being shitposts just so I could kill time. Looksmax was on my mind the whole day as a result, and I became ultra-aware of how I looked all the time. Countless selfies, daily, were taken. I’d take extreme measures such as dry fasting just to get those coveted hollow cheeks for a few days. And guess what? People started noticing.

Suddenly, both guys and girls I already knew well at school started complimenting my clothes and hair out of the blue. Being so obsessed with how I looked, this boosted my confidence sky-high. I felt ready to try going on dates again. What I noticed was that the same things I said to girls on dates before, had a slightly better reception than before. For example, jokes I made would make them laugh a little harder than before. However, the social anxiety stuck, and that awkward feeling never went away. My voice had no spirit, and I was still boring to talk to in general. At that time, I was so obsessed with looks that my personality wasn’t even in the question as to why I couldn’t get a girlfriend.

Frustrated, I would dry fast even longer, use shoe lifts, and generally take more extreme measures to look slightly better. On the next date, I pre-drank alcohol until I couldn’t feel my face, just so I wouldn’t feel awkward. And it worked like a charm. I was able to talk endlessly and the girl enjoyed my company so much to the point where I was able to land my first kiss. At the time, I thought I’d cracked the code.

On the next date with the same girl, I embraced the alcohol again for another good time. But for whatever reason, the magic fizzled out and I couldn’t get rid of my social awkwardness the same way I did the first time. I was just a plain, unfiltered version of my normal boring self. I couldn’t produce the same fun vibe I did in the last date, and I wasn’t able to make her feel good. Despite looking the exact same, the girl I thought I knew treated me like a distant relative at a family reunion. From having fun the whole date previously, to her looking uninterested the whole time. This shattered my confidence.

It hit me that my personality had a much more significant role in attraction than what I concluded from reading PSL threads. I also began getting sick of rotting my whole day shitposting on PSL. Like it wasn’t even that fun, I just wanted to pass the time the exact same way as I did with gaming. Fed up and feeling like a lost cause, I ditched PSL but kept the valuable looksmaxing advice in the back of my mind.

I gave up on dating all together and started hitting the books to become a doctor/dentist as I liked the idea of the money and job fulfilment that field has. However, where I live you must take an in-person interview to assess if you have the right personality for the course. My boring, spiritless personality was the opposite of what interviewers look for which is an empathetic, charismatic, and caring personality. I began prepping myself for the future interview with generic questions they ask, and on filming myself, I realised I didn’t have a chance if thats how I acted in the real interview. I was boring even to myself, speaking like a soulless robot.

With not enough time for a full on personality transplant, I looked upon my trusty wingman - alcohol. Somehow, in the interview I was able to express myself without any social awkwardness and luckily I wasn’t impaired enough to where I forgot the interview responses that I had rehearsed when I was sober before. And it worked. I got into the course I wanted and was now set for a future of green and fulfilment.

Upon starting the course, I gained another reality check and realised how out of place I was. Everyone in my cohort seemed to have had a vibrant and interesting character to them whereas whenever I talked, I felt dull and boring. One class was a health communication skills class, and I was bottom of the barrel when it was my turn to talk. I managed to make friends, but they were the life of the party, while I was the aspie.

My cohort was not that great looking on average, with 90% being nerdy skinny ethnics. I was atleast around the top 10 best looking people out of the 100 people in my year. Yet, the average and below average Joes didn’t have a problem scoring a girlfriend from my course within weeks of us starting the year. My friend from the course who’s very average looking got a girlfriend from our cohort, broke up, then not even a week later got a new girlfriend from the same cohort. It seemed like magic to me at the time. But I started puzzling things together, and realised that same friend had charisma for days.

I began to put most my focus on my personality and decided to go all in on constant socialisation. This meant spending as little time as I could doing things other than socialisation. I would wake up, get my looksmax routine including gym out the way, finish class, and hit the books. The rest of the 8 or so hours of the day, I turned into pure socialisation. The friend group I spent my time with were very outgoing, so we were always talking or doing something together after class until night. Even at night, I forced myself to facetime my friends as opposed to what I used to do which was to mindlessly scroll and watch random youtube videos.

My days went from this:

Wake up → Looksmax routine → Browse looksmax → Sleep

To this:

Wake up → Looksmax routine → Go to class/study → Socialise → Sleep

In less than a week, I noticed myself changing the way I speak, and I started to like my own personality more and more as the days went on. My short, snoozefest replies started becoming longer and more lively. After a month of this, my newfound social confidence was amazing as you could probably expect with endless hours of chit-chat every day. I felt as though I could make anyone I talked to feel good, and this extended to girls too. I could chat to any girl and could actually enjoy the conversation without feeling even the slightest bit awkward. Fast forward a few months and I found a girlfriend who I’ve been happily together with for the past 2 years. It’s like hanging out with people everyday unlocked the DLC edition of life for me. I’d never been so content in my life.

Still, I believe looks theory is legit. However, I barely see any threads encouraging more socialisation when a good personality is a huge halo, and a bad one is a huge failo.

I also don’t believe in one night stands. While it might be fun in the short term, its unfulfilling in the long term. At best you’ll get to have sex with a 10 with low morals, a few days a year. It also encourages you to be anti-social. You only have to talk to the girl when you want sex. Also, at some point you’ll lose your looks. What will make you happy when you’re 40? 50? 60?

I feel like the average normie is far more charismatic than someone who rots here all day like I used to. Because they intuitively socialise constantly. The only difference is that normies do not care or know about the niche looksmax advice that you have. Even so, alot of normies go to the gym, eat well, and have good haircuts.

So you’re automatically setting your potential back if you aren’t also becoming as sociable as you can whilst looksmaxxing. Looksmaxxing doesn’t take that long out of your day anyway. Give me one reason why you shouldn’t be socialising the rest of the day if you want people to like you more.

A couple socialisation recommendations:

• Opt for face to face conversations as your main form of socialisation. Avoid places like clubbing, playing games, ect as you’re technically with people, but you’re not actually improving your social skills.
• You don’t need to read any books, listen to any advice, or any of that from online. Trust me, in hours upon hours of consistent conversations, you’ll naturally pick up on what facial expressions, tone of voice, word choice, ect that make people feel the best around you.
• Spend your time with other charismatic people. If you spend your time with other people with poor social skills, you won’t improve.

I don’t know or care whatever coloured pill you would call this, but all I know is that total and true ascension is when you improve not only your looks above average, but your social skills above average too. If you disagree, I’d like to hear your side of the story.

TLDR: Have a short looksmax routine, complete any work/studies, then spend the rest of your day and night purely socialising.

read every word. Top tier thread

I don't speak to anyone anymore since i am so obsessed with PSL. Always thought it was my body and went crazy with looksmaxxing substances to fill the socially anxious hole in my heart.

Definitely bookmarking this. @Gengar can we pin this sometime? Genuinely good thread. At least pin it to success and moneymaking if anything.

 

[Kristin]

You don’t need to read any books, listen to any advice, or any of that from online. Trust me, in hours upon hours of consistent conversations, you’ll naturally pick up on what facial expressions, tone of voice, word choice, ect that make people feel the best around you.

holy fuck never even thought that practice makes perfect. Jfl at my autism

 

[your moms dildo]

i didnt read the thread (will do it later) but i agree with title
the most desired people are the funny likable ones, as well as the pretty ones
combine both

 

[Big White Cuck]

But all that social shit you did would actually make you into a bigger abused dog if you were ugly af.
The wisdom here is looksmax before socialmax.

There is absolutely no point talking to people when ur subhuman. It'll just give negative reinforcement and turn you into a husk

Dumbest thing you could ever do

 

[Tenshi]

didn't read but socialmaxx is cope

only reason you need ''social life'' is cuz you might need to compensate your lack of looks by sneaking your way to an LTR through social circle. Otherwise it's pointless.

It's all looks man. Just don't be autistic.

 

[Big White Cuck]

didn't read but socialmaxx is cope

only reason you need ''social life'' is cuz you might need to compensate your lack of looks by sneaking your way to an LTR through social circle. Otherwise it's pointless.

It's all looks man. Just don't be autistic.

Are you really Japanese otherwise it's cope

 

[Tenshi]

Are you really Japanese otherwise it's cope

but who said I was

 

[Big White Cuck]

but who said I was

Korean?

 

[Tenshi]

Korean?

I'm not asian bro stop simping for my avi

 

[Big White Cuck]

I'm not asian bro stop simping for my avi

Then what race?

 

[Tenshi]

Then what race?

I'm a latino mutt

 

[Big White Cuck]

I'm a latino mutt

Then what you said is wrong. Or you don't live among latinos

 

[Tenshi]

Then what you said is wrong. Or you don't live among latinos

I know latinos regard social skills more, I'm naturally more outgoing than white people even as an introvert for this reason. But for the solely purpose of getting girls I think it really doesn't matter that much imo, it's more like compensating.

Also, if you look good people gravitate towards you. Hence why just don't be autistic, average social skills is good enough.

 

[tasmanian devil]

obviously youve never been a real aspie, everytime i try to speak to a female i get dizzy, start sweating and my voice starts trembling. ive never had that with a male. i try practicing talking to foids at work but it just doesnt get better at all. good thread though.

 

[New Poster]

general social skills are great and all, but they won't get you laid

 

[⒳eyṫ]

“Just learn charisma bro!”

 

[spermium]

After leaving PSL for 3 years, aging from 17 to 20, I've gathered some wisdom and wanted to drop it here. Just hoping my experiences can help some of you avoid the same awkward blunders. I know a lot of you are teens just finding your way, and I reckon these insights could be useful to reaching your peak potential.

First off, I still swear by looks theory, no change there. How good you look acts as a multiplier to how positively people react to your actions. However, my reasons for looksmaxxing have changed, and it has increased my quality of life drastically. To explain this, I’ll tell you my story, and it’s long so I don’t blame you if you don’t read.

Before PSL, I was a socially anxious, unconfident wreck who thought playing video games was life’s ultimate joy. I was also below average in looks. In my first couple dates around this time, I had no success. I’d run out of words, and my conversations were extremely dry. Basically the whole date, I’d feel awkward. Not just with the girls, but with my small circle too. I was generally a pretty boring and quiet person to be around.

At this time, I first discovered PSL and got hooked. I did everything I could within my budget to improve my looks which included mainly; skin, hair, facial leanness, muscles, among other niche things like mewing, ice hooding, eyelid pulling, chewing, ect. I swapped gaming with spending countless hours reading threads, most of which being shitposts just so I could kill time. Looksmax was on my mind the whole day as a result, and I became ultra-aware of how I looked all the time. Countless selfies, daily, were taken. I’d take extreme measures such as dry fasting just to get those coveted hollow cheeks for a few days. And guess what? People started noticing.

Suddenly, both guys and girls I already knew well at school started complimenting my clothes and hair out of the blue. Being so obsessed with how I looked, this boosted my confidence sky-high. I felt ready to try going on dates again. What I noticed was that the same things I said to girls on dates before, had a slightly better reception than before. For example, jokes I made would make them laugh a little harder than before. However, the social anxiety stuck, and that awkward feeling never went away. My voice had no spirit, and I was still boring to talk to in general. At that time, I was so obsessed with looks that my personality wasn’t even in the question as to why I couldn’t get a girlfriend.

Frustrated, I would dry fast even longer, use shoe lifts, and generally take more extreme measures to look slightly better. On the next date, I pre-drank alcohol until I couldn’t feel my face, just so I wouldn’t feel awkward. And it worked like a charm. I was able to talk endlessly and the girl enjoyed my company so much to the point where I was able to land my first kiss. At the time, I thought I’d cracked the code.

On the next date with the same girl, I embraced the alcohol again for another good time. But for whatever reason, the magic fizzled out and I couldn’t get rid of my social awkwardness the same way I did the first time. I was just a plain, unfiltered version of my normal boring self. I couldn’t produce the same fun vibe I did in the last date, and I wasn’t able to make her feel good. Despite looking the exact same, the girl I thought I knew treated me like a distant relative at a family reunion. From having fun the whole date previously, to her looking uninterested the whole time. This shattered my confidence.

It hit me that my personality had a much more significant role in attraction than what I concluded from reading PSL threads. I also began getting sick of rotting my whole day shitposting on PSL. Like it wasn’t even that fun, I just wanted to pass the time the exact same way as I did with gaming. Fed up and feeling like a lost cause, I ditched PSL but kept the valuable looksmaxing advice in the back of my mind.

I gave up on dating all together and started hitting the books to become a doctor/dentist as I liked the idea of the money and job fulfilment that field has. However, where I live you must take an in-person interview to assess if you have the right personality for the course. My boring, spiritless personality was the opposite of what interviewers look for which is an empathetic, charismatic, and caring personality. I began prepping myself for the future interview with generic questions they ask, and on filming myself, I realised I didn’t have a chance if thats how I acted in the real interview. I was boring even to myself, speaking like a soulless robot.

With not enough time for a full on personality transplant, I looked upon my trusty wingman - alcohol. Somehow, in the interview I was able to express myself without any social awkwardness and luckily I wasn’t impaired enough to where I forgot the interview responses that I had rehearsed when I was sober before. And it worked. I got into the course I wanted and was now set for a future of green and fulfilment.

Upon starting the course, I gained another reality check and realised how out of place I was. Everyone in my cohort seemed to have had a vibrant and interesting character to them whereas whenever I talked, I felt dull and boring. One class was a health communication skills class, and I was bottom of the barrel when it was my turn to talk. I managed to make friends, but they were the life of the party, while I was the aspie.

My cohort was not that great looking on average, with 90% being nerdy skinny ethnics. I was atleast around the top 10 best looking people out of the 100 people in my year. Yet, the average and below average Joes didn’t have a problem scoring a girlfriend from my course within weeks of us starting the year. My friend from the course who’s very average looking got a girlfriend from our cohort, broke up, then not even a week later got a new girlfriend from the same cohort. It seemed like magic to me at the time. But I started puzzling things together, and realised that same friend had charisma for days.

I began to put most my focus on my personality and decided to go all in on constant socialisation. This meant spending as little time as I could doing things other than socialisation. I would wake up, get my looksmax routine including gym out the way, finish class, and hit the books. The rest of the 8 or so hours of the day, I turned into pure socialisation. The friend group I spent my time with were very outgoing, so we were always talking or doing something together after class until night. Even at night, I forced myself to facetime my friends as opposed to what I used to do which was to mindlessly scroll and watch random youtube videos.

My days went from this:

Wake up → Looksmax routine → Browse looksmax → Sleep

To this:

Wake up → Looksmax routine → Go to class/study → Socialise → Sleep

In less than a week, I noticed myself changing the way I speak, and I started to like my own personality more and more as the days went on. My short, snoozefest replies started becoming longer and more lively. After a month of this, my newfound social confidence was amazing as you could probably expect with endless hours of chit-chat every day. I felt as though I could make anyone I talked to feel good, and this extended to girls too. I could chat to any girl and could actually enjoy the conversation without feeling even the slightest bit awkward. Fast forward a few months and I found a girlfriend who I’ve been happily together with for the past 2 years. It’s like hanging out with people everyday unlocked the DLC edition of life for me. I’d never been so content in my life.

Still, I believe looks theory is legit. However, I barely see any threads encouraging more socialisation when a good personality is a huge halo, and a bad one is a huge failo.

I also don’t believe in one night stands. While it might be fun in the short term, its unfulfilling in the long term. At best you’ll get to have sex with a 10 with low morals, a few days a year. It also encourages you to be anti-social. You only have to talk to the girl when you want sex. Also, at some point you’ll lose your looks. What will make you happy when you’re 40? 50? 60?

I feel like the average normie is far more charismatic than someone who rots here all day like I used to. Because they intuitively socialise constantly. The only difference is that normies do not care or know about the niche looksmax advice that you have. Even so, alot of normies go to the gym, eat well, and have good haircuts.

So you’re automatically setting your potential back if you aren’t also becoming as sociable as you can whilst looksmaxxing. Looksmaxxing doesn’t take that long out of your day anyway. Give me one reason why you shouldn’t be socialising the rest of the day if you want people to like you more.

A couple socialisation recommendations:

• Opt for face to face conversations as your main form of socialisation. Avoid places like clubbing, playing games, ect as you’re technically with people, but you’re not actually improving your social skills.
• You don’t need to read any books, listen to any advice, or any of that from online. Trust me, in hours upon hours of consistent conversations, you’ll naturally pick up on what facial expressions, tone of voice, word choice, ect that make people feel the best around you.
• Spend your time with other charismatic people. If you spend your time with other people with poor social skills, you won’t improve.

I don’t know or care whatever coloured pill you would call this, but all I know is that total and true ascension is when you improve not only your looks above average, but your social skills above average too. If you disagree, I’d like to hear your side of the story.

TLDR: Have a short looksmax routine, complete any work/studies, then spend the rest of your day and night purely socialising.

If she went on a date to fuck you it was cuz of your, looks all you have to do is be NT and not repulse her with your autism.
No amount of jestermaxxing or personality is gonna turn her from not wanting to fuck to wanting to fuck you.

 

[Ariyan77]

Charisma isn't just a social asset; it's a key to unlocking opportunities in every aspect of life. Without it, you may find doors closing, connections slipping away, and opportunities dwindling. Charisma isn't about being the loudest or most extroverted; it's about cultivating a magnetic presence that draws people in. Take steps to enhance your charisma, whether through communication skills, confidence-building, or genuine connection, and watch as new avenues open up in your personal and professional life.

 

[HellenicChad]

High IQ post but only works for NTcels. Trying to socialize as nonNT will simply result in drained energy and a huge relapse including a period of isolation/muteness to recover. Maybe exposure therapy works but that would require severe discipline where you ban yourself from staying at home after work or doing anything solitary and then somehow stick to this rule for months on end. Not very realistic...

 

[klamus]

Normies arent charismatic at all. They just engage in delusions to cope

 

[okwiwhd]

No-one in my university course is HTN, yet many are extremely charismatic. I have countless stories where I'd be in public with one of my average looking mates and they made someone alot more attractive than them extremely interested. And thats with strangers, where looks are even more important.

Let’s be real now, most people on this website are never going to become so attractive to the point that being weird is socially acceptable or "quirky". Even if in theory you could achieve that, what's the reason you wouldn't want to become more charismatic? Do you genuinely believe that at the same looks level, with more personality and character, you won't have more success?

There r ppl on this forum I’ve met that ascended to literal models, that being said, I knew them from the Lookism days.